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Brony posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
I stand behind everything I say. Our babies want to feel our joy, not our sadness. Chin up.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Hi Sigrid, thank you for your kind response. Brony was nice to suggest we make a pact to be happy and go on living our lives because our babies wouldn’t want us to be unhappy. I wouldn’t ever want my boy to be sad because of me and so I will try my best to do just that. I lived my life for him and his happiness and I hope he died knowing that. Sending love to you, Maureen -
Martha posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Thank you, I cried as wrote the post. Also cried last night. There are times Mae triggers memories, because she will do something that Raina would do, it’s getting better but sometimes it still makes me cry. Mae will try to comfort me having no idea that something she did was the trigger for a memory. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
@mardismom Penny, you gave Mardi the most loving, generous and selfless gift you could – a peaceful passing in your loving arms. You made sure she didn’t needlessly suffer and I am so happy you will always know how kind that was. Now for the pain of parting, the quiet, empty house, no cat food on the floor to trip over…. I hope you find comfort and JOY in your memories of the fun, funny loving times you and Mardi shared. We’re here for you, with you, with deep sympathy and understanding. 💔💔Toni
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my eyes keep leaking this morning when there is no litter box to clean out and no little furry body telling me it’s time to feed her.. i know this will pass; it’s just that i miss her sooooooooo much right now .. at least i don’t have to worry about her escaping each time i open a door to the outside!
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Penny don’t feel alone. I was vacuuming this morning and found Lulu’s whisker. I was a mess all over again. I understand. I miss her tremendously. I have cried everyday for two weeks now. I really wish my heart would start healing. I can’t think of good times with her cause my smile isn’t around yet. At least you don’t have to worry about things getting out, it’s the bugs and lizards that will find their way in. Hear them? Nanananana. Keep your chin up.
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Penny, how was today for you? A bit better I hope. Mardi is so comfortable now, and you did a good, loving thing for her. ❤️
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
@cindylou2011 Hi Peggy. Welcome to our caring community. I am so sorry for your loss of Cindy and hope you are doing okay – are you? May we hear about Cindy, see some photos? Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
@vcowan57gmaill-com Virginia, I am so sorry for your loss of Zippy and hope you will tell us about your lives together, and share some pictures if you like. How are you doing? Okay? Not so good? We’re here for you with sympathy and understanding. Toni
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Amber posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
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Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Amber, what a beautiful photo of Sara! You have come to the right place to talk about her, about your long – and too short – life together. All of us had our hearts broken because we loved deeply. And to learn that broken hearts can heal and love again. But one day at a time. I would love to hear more about her – she looks like she was a lively pack of energy. She’s with you still, right there in your heart. Sending good wishes! -
Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Kimberly, what a beautiful tiger indeed, intense eyes! Best wishes to you in your grief. May you meet with understanding and comfort at this time, and I am so glad you came here. You are among people who know your pain and who will listen. -
Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Brony and Maureen, I love this, you making a pact because Lulu and Romeo would have wanted you to be happy and go on living good lives. They are safe and sound in your hearts and they are waiting for you to be able to feel that. Love to you both! -
Dianne posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
It is.My mama cat was about 15 years old,and visually impaired,she was becoming sick.She accidentally got out of my house,and nobody noticed.Hours later,a woman knocked on my door with the collar of my mama cat.She was struck by a vehicle and died immediately.My Chihuahua,Princess had surgery months prior to remove a soft tissue cancerous growth on her belly,and more on her backside.The vet gave her 50/50 chance of living.But one evening,as I walked her,we came back to the house,and her front legs went limp.I picked her up and put her on her blanket in my room.She sat up,took a few breaths and she was gone.Her tongue started turning blue,and she was gone.
I still miss both.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Dianne, so sorry for your losses 😞. Losing one is hard enough, but to lose two so close together has to be devastating. Peace be with you. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Martha, I am so sorry for your loss of Raina. 😞 I know how difficult it was to go through that first year without her and today had to be hard. I and others here are going through it now and it is hard. I wish you and your new pup Mae a wonderfully long and happy life together. Hugs 🫂 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Karen, thank you for introducing us to Tabby. I’m smiling with this picture. Is she doing okay now since Sweetness passed? I think non- human animals know and accept life cycles better than humans do. They know everything has a season and cycle, do you think? But I am sure Tabby misses and mourns Sweetness, too, and it is so good for you both that you have each other. Please keep us posted. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Is this Tiger? What an adorable picture, Kimberly. I am terribly sad and sorry for your loss and ask if you will tell us more about Tiger – how you met, how long you were together, and about Tiger’s life with you. Having recently said goodbye to another of my babies, I understand the battle between joy for the life we shared, and the deep, deep pain of parting. We’re here for you, Kimberly, with sympathy and understanding. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Martha, yep. The anniversaries and holidays are specific dates that bring on big memories. Especially the first year of our saying goodbye. With your sadness, can you find some joy? You don’t have to, but I hope you can include some of the wonderful parts of your time with Raina. She rreally was such a sweetie and joy. I hope you can allow yourself to treasure that, too. Here’s a really big {HUG} for you. -
Tana posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Toni, thank you for your response and your guidance. I do remember happy things about Romeo each and every day. I have no problem doing that. However, I am having difficulty with remembering the things we did together without crying. His absence from my home is the hardest and I cannot walk anywhere in my community because he isn’t with me anymore. Everywhere and everything reminds me that he is gone. I dont want to be here anymore because of those constant reminders, but, I just cant pick up and move. Besides, I dont think I could move out of my home and leave Romeo’s energy behind.
My whole existence revolved around him and it is just too painful to face those memories. I understand what you’re saying about feelings being addictive and I might be addicted to feeling sad right now because it makes me feel loyal to Romeo’s memory. I know it’s not good to stay in the past with those last moments of Romeo’s life, but, I am trying to come to terms with that.
I know time will help. But, it’s just not now.
I thank you and everyone here for your caring comments. I really, really do appreciate them.
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Kimberly posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
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Is this Tiger? What an adorable picture, Kimberly. I am terribly sad and sorry for your loss and ask if you will tell us more about Tiger – how you met, how long you were together, and about Tiger’s life with you. Having recently said goodbye to another of my babies, I understand the battle between joy for the life we shared, and the deep, deep pain of parting. We’re here for you, Kimberly, with sympathy and understanding.
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Kimberly, what a beautiful tiger indeed, intense eyes! Best wishes to you in your grief. May you meet with understanding and comfort at this time, and I am so glad you came here. You are among people who know your pain and who will listen.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago
Brony, I will try because I know they would want us to be happy. Thank you for your kind words. Sending you hugs 🫂 - Load More
