• Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

    And I’m sending hugs right back. I’m glad today is over, it’s been a rough one for me too. When I sat at the table and looked out the window by the bush was a black and white cat. Well I thought there was a cat it was just lights playing tricks on my brain. When my friend came over she told me thàts where Lulu was buried. I never knew where she was, I didn’t want to know. Lulu was telling me it’s okay a black and white cat needs a home..I’m ok with it. I want you to be happy..I love you Lulu and I’ll never replace you. Ever……Maureen there is a higher power out there. Brony
    • Irma posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

      My beautiful boy Bandit who recently passed away.
      • Irma my thoughts are with you. Bandit was a beautiful boy. Brony
        • Irma, I am so sorry. Please tell us about Bandit – how you met, how old he was, anything you’d like to share, we care. Toni
          • I hope you will try to write to us about Bandit. You may find that it will give you some comfort to be heard by people who know your pain, who have been there. Best wishes to you! Sigrid
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

            Penny, how was today for you? A bit better I hope. Mardi is so comfortable now, and you did a good, loving thing for her. ❤️
            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

              Maureen and Brony: I think it is Brilliant that you have ‘partnered’ to support each other as we journey forth. I hope others here in our Community find a partner, or feel that we are ALL partnered. Brilliant!
              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                Leigh, I am so sorry. Yes, there are so many “firsts” after we say goodbye. Each one brings up memories and can stir grief all over again. I hope you can pull up some of the good and fun memories of your fifteen summers, too. It woud be a shame not to, do you think? Toni
                • Leigh posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                  Last night it hit me ,the first summer of no longer having Sammi
                  Watching her role around in the sun or going for adventures
                  I miss her 😢

                  • Leigh, I am so sorry. Yes, there are so many “firsts” after we say goodbye. Each one brings up memories and can stir grief all over again. I hope you can pull up some of the good and fun memories of your fifteen summers, too. It woud be a shame not to, do you think? Toni
                    • I do think of all the good times we had together
                      Our adventures
                      Lately Sunday cuddles
                      Etc
                      Just times I wish she was still jere
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                      How nice of you, Veronica. Thank you. We are here because we understand the pain of parting and want to help one another heal and recover the joy and love we shared. I am sorry for your loss of Oakli and invite you to tell us about Oakli, and share some pictures with us if you like. We meet online the third Thursday of each month (the schedule and links are under “Events”) and you are most welcome to join us. How are you doing – okay? Toni
                      • Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                        Brony, hello! So far today, I’m okay. Yesterday, I had difficult times throughout the day. Thank you for thinking about me and I hope you are doing okay too. Yes, we have a pact and I am trying and I know you are too. I am having a very difficult time, but, I know time is what I need. Sending hugs 🫂
                        • Veronica posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                          Thank you for providing this for us grieving pet parents.

                          • How nice of you, Veronica. Thank you. We are here because we understand the pain of parting and want to help one another heal and recover the joy and love we shared. I am sorry for your loss of Oakli and invite you to tell us about Oakli, and share some pictures with us if you like. We meet online the third Thursday of each month (the schedule and links are under “Events”) and you are most welcome to join us. How are you doing – okay? Toni
                          • Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                            Maureen, how are you today? My thoughts are with you. Besides we have a pack together….chin up.
                            • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                              @charlieguk I am sorry for your parting from Simon, Charlotte. What kind of pet was Simon? May we hear about him and your lives together? See some pictures? We’re here for you and want to hear from you. Toni

                            • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                              @scooband69 Hi Tammy. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Scooby and share some photos. I am so sorry for your loss. How are you doing with it, Tammy?

                            • Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                              Penny don’t feel alone. I was vacuuming this morning and found Lulu’s whisker. I was a mess all over again. I understand. I miss her tremendously. I have cried everyday for two weeks now. I really wish my heart would start healing. I can’t think of good times with her cause my smile isn’t around yet. At least you don’t have to worry about things getting out, it’s the bugs and lizards that will find their way in. Hear them? Nanananana. Keep your chin up.
                              • penny posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                                my eyes keep leaking this morning when there is no litter box to clean out and no little furry body telling me it’s time to feed her.. i know this will pass; it’s just that i miss her sooooooooo much right now .. at least i don’t have to worry about her escaping each time i open a door to the outside!
                                • Brony posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                                  I stand behind everything I say. Our babies want to feel our joy, not our sadness. Chin up.

                                • Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                                  Hi Sigrid, thank you for your kind response. Brony was nice to suggest we make a pact to be happy and go on living our lives because our babies wouldn’t want us to be unhappy. I wouldn’t ever want my boy to be sad because of me and so I will try my best to do just that. I lived my life for him and his happiness and I hope he died knowing that. Sending love to you, Maureen
                                  • Martha posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                                    Thank you, I cried as wrote the post. Also cried last night. There are times Mae triggers memories, because she will do something that Raina would do, it’s getting better but sometimes it still makes me cry. Mae will try to comfort me having no idea that something she did was the trigger for a memory.
                                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                                      @mardismom Penny, you gave Mardi the most loving, generous and selfless gift you could – a peaceful passing in your loving arms. You made sure she didn’t needlessly suffer and I am so happy you will always know how kind that was. Now for the pain of parting, the quiet, empty house, no cat food on the floor to trip over…. I hope you find comfort and JOY in your memories of the fun, funny loving times you and Mardi shared. We’re here for you, with you, with deep sympathy and understanding. 💔💔Toni

                                      • my eyes keep leaking this morning when there is no litter box to clean out and no little furry body telling me it’s time to feed her.. i know this will pass; it’s just that i miss her sooooooooo much right now .. at least i don’t have to worry about her escaping each time i open a door to the outside!
                                        • Penny don’t feel alone. I was vacuuming this morning and found Lulu’s whisker. I was a mess all over again. I understand. I miss her tremendously. I have cried everyday for two weeks now. I really wish my heart would start healing. I can’t think of good times with her cause my smile isn’t around yet. At least you don’t have to worry about things getting out, it’s the bugs and lizards that will find their way in. Hear them? Nanananana. Keep your chin up.
                                          • Penny, how was today for you? A bit better I hope. Mardi is so comfortable now, and you did a good, loving thing for her. ❤️
                                          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                                            @cindylou2011 Hi Peggy. Welcome to our caring community. I am so sorry for your loss of Cindy and hope you are doing okay – are you? May we hear about Cindy, see some photos? Toni

                                          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                                            @vcowan57gmaill-com Virginia, I am so sorry for your loss of Zippy and hope you will tell us about your lives together, and share some pictures if you like. How are you doing? Okay? Not so good? We’re here for you with sympathy and understanding. Toni

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