• Suzanne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

    It’s with a heavy and broken heart that I share with you that my dear sweet little Spirit, lost her 2 plus years battle with Kidney disease, on Monday May 23, 2022, and crossed the Rainbow Bridge; where she’s now enjoying a life free of pain and suffering. I’m sure she’s now running free with Morgain, Kovu, Eragon, Chai , Lyta,Coda,Tabiths and her other 4 and 2 legged family members. My dear sweet Spirit I’m sitting here reminiscing about all the annoying, funny, sweet, loving quirky things you’d do. How you strolled into my house when the cable guy, there for the upstairs tenant left the porch door open and you moved into my basement. For the longest time you hid yourself from me but meowed so loudly that I could hear you through the graying vents in the floor; this you acquired your name because you were a talkative unseen Spirit. I also remember your last but if defiance the Friday evening before you passed when you swiped my pizza right off my plate. How you liked to sleep on the pillow right my head, standing underfoot all the time when I was preparing food, checking out what was in the refrigerator when I’d open it to get something out and the cellar door pan along all the time instead of using the many scratching posts you had access to. I’m thinking of getting a small table and placing it next to the basement door, that you always liked to scratch and placing your ashes there. It can take the place of the laundry basket I used to put there to prevent you from scratching and that I’d always have to move abs remember to put back each time I’d go to the basement. My days will be easier now with less prep work and I’ll save on cat liter but what I wouldn’t give to have my dear sweet girl back with me, as would her 2 fur sisters Saraya and Autumn Ranger. I miss you so much Spirit and it’s only been 2 days since I said good bye and let you cross the Rainbow Bridge. We had a wonderful 12 1/2 years together and I’m so glad that you chose me as your human mom. You may be gone but you’ll never be furgotten.
    • Oh Suzanne, I can’t see the keyboard because I’m crying so hard reading this. I’ll be back with you tomorrow. But please know how you have touched me with your loving story. I am so sorry. Toni
      • I am sorry to hear Suzanne. This was beautifully put. I can feel the love you put into this post so I have no doubt Spirit felt that from the time you let her in. You are in my thoughts.
        • Suzanne, how are you doing now? I was, and am still, so very touched by your beautiful Spirit. She and my beloved Beauty Girl looked so much alike (you can read her memorial here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/beauty-girl/ ). I have a canvas picture of her I pet and kiss every day, and while I am glad for her to be at peace, as you are for Spirit, I know how much you miss her. Please, keep us posted about how you, and your other faithful friends are doing. {{HUGS}} Toni
          • Thank you Toni for your caring thoughts. It’s hard especially when I’m doing things that remind me of my dear sweet girl. But knowing that I have a place to share my pain sadness and grief with people who know and understand what I’m going through both virtually and in person, helps the grief and pain to begin to heal. Thank you for your thoughtful comments and for permitting me to join this group. I’m also thankful that I have two other beautiful fur girls Saraya, who will be 16 next month and is in terrific health and still likes to play like she’s a kitten and Autumn Ranger who just turned 12 and like Spirit, also suffers from kidney and thyroid disease at the moment is holding her own, who help with the grief and pain because they give me a reason to keep on living. 🤗💔❤️🐾🐈‍⬛
            • Thank you Tay for your kind words. Bring a part of virtual groups like this make the grief and pain easier to bear.
              • Suzanne, I am glad you know you can safely share your feelings with us. The format is “virtual”, or electronically shared, but we are real people who love our pets and animals, and we do understand the joys and the pains. Please keep us updated. Toni
                • Once again less then 2 months after the passing of my dear sweet Spirit, who crossed the Rainbow 🌈 Bridge on 5/23/22,
                  I had to say good bye to my beloved Autumn Ranger on July 18,2022.
                  The house just isn’t the same, last week I said good bye to you, my beloved Autumn Ranger, the second time I had to make this decision in less then two months. My heart is broken, my grief unbearable but I know to have kept you with me me would have caused you untold pain and suffering. You gently but purrsistently let me know it was time to say goodbye. You who rarely meowed started to do so more and more frequently. You were eating less and less and choosing not to take your meds. And this morning as we laid in bed you pawed me numerous times so I’d pet you and rubbed your head against me looking for your favorite head rubs. While I was enjoying sone extra quality time with you, having had to take the day off for your vet appointment, unlike me you knew today was the day we’d say good…

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                  • Suzanne, that is the most touching tribute and truly honors Autumn Ranger and Spirit. Thank you for sharing your experiences and deepest feelings. You must let us know how you are coming along, and when you find two sweethearts to share with. I’m inclined to adopt seniors, too. You might try Fostering – it allows you to get to know each other and find out if you have a special connection. Oh, thank you for extending your kind, caring understanding with others in our community, like Regina. We all hurt when one hurts, and it helps to know we care. Sending you {{HUGS}}. Toni
                  • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                    @hrogers77 Heather, I am so sorry for your loss of Max. Will you tell us about him, share some photos with us? How are you holding up, Heather?

                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                    Ann, holidays and anniversaries are tough. They trigger tons of memories and strong emotions that run deep. I find that trying to ignore those feelings just crams them up inside, so please let them flow. It’s exhausting and hurts, but also makes room for happy memories to be released. I call it “unleash the grief”. It may help you to create a lasting memorial for Gracie, which you can do here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
                    Gracie was fortunate to have you love her so much. She isn’t suffering any more, and would want you to be happy for the wonderful lives you were lucky to share. You’d want the same for her.
                    Please let us know how you are on the anniversary day, Ann. I’ll be thinking of you. Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                      Sharon, it wouldn’t matter what day you gave Brody-Roe peace and comfort, releasing him from his suffering – it’s hard not to feel some level of guilt. Please know you acted in his best interest, not your own. We’d keep them with us forever if we could, but they are only “on loan” to us. You acted out of love and that’s what is important. It’s impossible not to miss our beloved friends – the house is emptier and quiet…… it’s hard. I hope you celebrate the times you both shared and enjoyed, and that your good memories outweigh the sadness you feel. I am sending a big Good Boy Brody! And a sincere {{hug}} for you, Sharon. Please let us know how you are doing. And, share some pictures with us – that’s a great way to memorialize Brody. We’re here for you.
                      • Sharon posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                        I’m sorry for your pain. You will see Gracie again.
                        • Sharon posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                          Well we put Brody down on May 4th 2022. Come to find out when I was looking at his papers that his birthday was different than what I remembered by a day. So, we put him down on his birthday. I feel so guilty. It’s hard enough being without him and the guilt makes it worse. I know it wasn’t intentional but it’s just weird. I miss you Brody-Roe. Momma loves that baby! ❤️‍🩹❤️❤️‍🩹

                          • Sharon, it wouldn’t matter what day you gave Brody-Roe peace and comfort, releasing him from his suffering – it’s hard not to feel some level of guilt. Please know you acted in his best interest, not your own. We’d keep them with us forever if we could, but they are only “on loan” to us. You acted out of love and that’s what is important. It’s impossible not to miss our beloved friends – the house is emptier and quiet…… it’s hard. I hope you celebrate the times you both shared and enjoyed, and that your good memories outweigh the sadness you feel. I am sending a big Good Boy Brody! And a sincere {{hug}} for you, Sharon. Please let us know how you are doing. And, share some pictures with us – that’s a great way to memorialize Brody. We’re here for you.
                          • Ann posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                            It will soon be one year that my Gracie passed away from kidney failure. Struggling…

                            • I’m sorry for your pain. You will see Gracie again.
                              • Ann, holidays and anniversaries are tough. They trigger tons of memories and strong emotions that run deep. I find that trying to ignore those feelings just crams them up inside, so please let them flow. It’s exhausting and hurts, but also makes room for happy memories to be released. I call it “unleash the grief”. It may help you to create a lasting memorial for Gracie, which you can do here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
                                Gracie was fortunate to have you love her so much. She isn’t suffering any more, and would want you to be happy for the wonderful lives you were lucky to share. You’d want the same for her.
                                Please let us know how you are on the anniversary day, Ann. I’ll be thinking of you. Toni
                              • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                To all new grieving pet parents here,welcome aboard.I am sorry for your loss.We all understand how broken your heart is.
                                Gentle (((hugs)))

                              • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                Good morning.
                                Well yesterday,Princess had her yucky drainage tube taken out.She is healing well.
                                I am able to take her outside to go potty.Her appetite is becoming better.I guess when you have really bad teeth it hurts to eat.But now she only has two teeth left.
                                On the first of June her staples come out and she can finally get rid of the cone.
                                I would say my prayers every night to let me have more years with her.She is my best friend in the world,and I would be so lost without her.

                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                Whew! This is Fabulous :-)…well, not the crate and tube and staples, but she can do it for a week. Hopefully the meds are making her sleepy so she doesn’t mind too much. And Dianne, Thank You for being such a kind, caring member of our community. HUGS to you Both!
                                • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                  Hello to all new pet parents here.I am sorry for your loss of your faithful companion.
                                  I understand your heartache.
                                  My mama cat was struck and killed by a car 7 months ago,and my heart was shattered as I had her since she was 7 weeks old.She was almost 15 years old,and accidentally got out of the house.
                                  You are at a wonderful place here,because we all understand what it is like to lose a beloved companion,but a family member as well.
                                  ((( Hugs)))

                                • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                  Good morning.
                                  Princess is doing well,and it’s killing her having her freedom restricted to being in a crate.
                                  She goes in Friday to have her drainage tube and staples removed.
                                  Even though she is on pain meds and antibiotics,she looks 100% better.I can’t wait to be able to take her on walks again.
                                  Thank you for your kind words.
                                  Much love~~~~
                                  Dianne and Princess ❤️❤️❤️

                                  • Whew! This is Fabulous :-)…well, not the crate and tube and staples, but she can do it for a week. Hopefully the meds are making her sleepy so she doesn’t mind too much. And Dianne, Thank You for being such a kind, caring member of our community. HUGS to you Both!
                                  • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                    @rachelpaul7icloud-com Oh Rachel, I am so, so sorry for your parting from Lucy. I recently said goodbye to my beloved girl, and truly am so sorry, and know the depth of pain … please tell us about your lives together, and share some pictures if you like. We are here for you…. Toni

                                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                    Annette, What a charming photo. Please, will you tell us more? How are you doing? Toni
                                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                      Oh, Dianne, I have been waiting all day to hear this wonderful news! THANK YOU for sharing and we are al SO HAPPY! I know you will give Princess comfort and love, and am so relieved, as are you …. my very Best Wishes to you both. Touch base each day and let us know how she, and you, are doing.
                                      • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

                                        Hello everyone.
                                        Princess is home,and resting.All of her tumors were removed,and she has a drainage tube in.She also had her teeth removed.She is resting in a crate.
                                        I am happy that my little best friend is at home.

                                        • Oh, Dianne, I have been waiting all day to hear this wonderful news! THANK YOU for sharing and we are al SO HAPPY! I know you will give Princess comfort and love, and am so relieved, as are you …. my very Best Wishes to you both. Touch base each day and let us know how she, and you, are doing.
                                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                          Dianne, I am hopeful that Princess will get fixed up and after you help her recover, will be back to herself. We’ll be waiting to hear from you, and you both will be in our thoughts tomorrow. {{HUGS}} Toni
                                          • Cody posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                            Hi Glenda, I think I fixed your issue. See you around, Cody
                                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

                                              Glenda, are you feeling a bit better? How is Kissinger doing now? You don’t have to anticipate the future of your “cat life” right now. I certainly understand not wanting to go through the terrible pain of loss, and at some point as we age, we have to decide if it’s fair to a pet for us to bring them into our homes. You’ll see how you feel when the time comes, which I hope is a long time from now. Let us know how you all are doing. Here’s a {{HUG}} for you all. Toni
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