• Carmelina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

    Hi Toni and Suzanne. I apologize for not writing back sooner. Thank you for thinking of me and for your prayers. I still miss my Milo terribly but getting better. I think about adopting another all the time and visited with a couple of cats I was interested in on Saturday. One had a bit of a cold and of course, it frightened me. The thought of bringing a kitty home and having to medicate brings me back to those days I’d rather put out of my mind. The other kitty was very friendly and rubbed up against my leg. Did he pick me? When I’m spending time with cats, all the love I have pours out of me and I enjoy interacting and playing with them. In fact, the volunteer even commented that whoever I choose to adopt will be a very fortunate kitty. It’s when I’m by myself that all my fears take over about losing again and going through the pain again that I shy away from bringing another cat into my home. I’m constantly going back and forth… I want, I don’t want. I have considered adopting one of the kitties I saw last weekend. He’s beautiful! He’s a gray tuxedo with the most beautiful golden eyes. Will I go through with it? Stay tuned… : ) Thank you again for all the kind support and prayers. Sending prayers to you both, Toni and Suzanne. God bless you!
    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

      Crying is exhausting but serves an important purpose – carrying toxins out of our system (similar to perspiration). You have so much piled on right now, and you are doing a great job moving forward. Let your pups help you the way you are helping so many others. And if you can find someone to give you a hand, that would be a help. We’re here for you. {{HUG}}
      • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

        Toni – I know I should take care and time for myself. Right now, if I slow down memories hit me & I can’t stop crying- then I’m no good for anyone. I have PTSD & it’s in overdrive now but I let my dachshunds help me by sitting in my lap or giving me kisses.
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

          Gawd, she is just sooo cute, and has settled in nicely. Raina will always be with you, so don’t feel bad about ways in which they are alike – enjoy the newness and building another life, and love together. I am still so sorry about Raina….I miss my girl too, but am glad she is not failing anymore. I hope you take comfort in that for Raina, and truly pour yourself into this new fun! Keep sending pics and tales 🙂
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

            Oh Regina, you have got to make a ew moments for yourself. I do know that is easier said than done, but we don’t want you to get sick – you can’t be a help to anyone then. Good to hear about your Mother. It’s nice you still have her. But it’s hard. And caring for pets is a big responsibility. Can you get someone to give you hand or a break? Please, keep us posted. Thinking about you.
            • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

              @ditavon77 Hello and welcome, Erika. Please tell us about Thor and let us know how you are doing. We love to see pictures and hear your stories.

            • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

              @mari15 Marilyn, I am sorry for your parting from Splinter. What a neat name – how did you get that> What kind of pet was Splinter? May we see photos and hear about Splinter? Are you doing okay? I hope so. Toni

              • Marilyn, I know it’s really hard and hurts, but the pictures of him show how happy he was – he has so many looks. Your family did a wonderful thing to share a happy, safe and loving home and life with Splinter (love the name, and thanks for explaining how he came by it). Do you think you will open your home and hearts to another?
              • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

                @amandakh87 Amanda, I am sorry…I didn’t see this until now. Is this Salem? Please tell us about your lives together, and let us know how you are doing. Toni

              • Martha posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

                She is also a rottweiler she will be as big as Raina. No broom or vacuum in my house is safe, she attacks them all. She watches our birds with interest, and tackled a chicken today. Neither she or the chicken were hurt.
                Although I still cry because there are things she does that are so like things Raina did. Like snorkeling in the dog pool.
                • Gawd, she is just sooo cute, and has settled in nicely. Raina will always be with you, so don’t feel bad about ways in which they are alike – enjoy the newness and building another life, and love together. I am still so sorry about Raina….I miss my girl too, but am glad she is not failing anymore. I hope you take comfort in that for Raina, and truly pour yourself into this new fun! Keep sending pics and tales 🙂
                • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                  Mom is doing fine. I’m exhausted. I’m working and trying to keep things going & now a energetic you dog added in the mix is more stress but sometimes I do get a laugh
                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                    Suzanne, that is the most touching tribute and truly honors Autumn Ranger and Spirit. Thank you for sharing your experiences and deepest feelings. You must let us know how you are coming along, and when you find two sweethearts to share with. I’m inclined to adopt seniors, too. You might try Fostering – it allows you to get to know each other and find out if you have a special connection. Oh, thank you for extending your kind, caring understanding with others in our community, like Regina. We all hurt when one hurts, and it helps to know we care. Sending you {{HUGS}}. Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                      How is your Mom doing, Regina? How are you holding up?
                      • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                        I know your cats were glad you got another one to fill the void they left in your heart.
                        Bella is trying to make me smile & laugh- sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn’t. It will take time.
                        • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                          Thank you Suzanne. I lost two doxies in under four months in 2019, one last year & now Coco.
                          I know getting another dog that needed another home & love is what Coco wants- but it’s hard to adjust to a younger dog after a senior.
                          • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                            Thank you! I spent the night in the ER with Mom last night- she fell & busted her nose open requiring stitches.
                            • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                              Thank you!!😊
                              • Regina posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                                Lol. That was an event for one of our shelters to raise funds at a local nursery at last year’s Easter.
                                • Suzanne posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                                  Once again less then 2 months after the passing of my dear sweet Spirit, who crossed the Rainbow 🌈 Bridge on 5/23/22,
                                  I had to say good bye to my beloved Autumn Ranger on July 18,2022.
                                  The house just isn’t the same, last week I said good bye to you, my beloved Autumn Ranger, the second time I had to make this decision in less then two months. My heart is broken, my grief unbearable but I know to have kept you with me me would have caused you untold pain and suffering. You gently but purrsistently let me know it was time to say goodbye. You who rarely meowed started to do so more and more frequently. You were eating less and less and choosing not to take your meds. And this morning as we laid in bed you pawed me numerous times so I’d pet you and rubbed your head against me looking for your favorite head rubs. While I was enjoying sone extra quality time with you, having had to take the day off for your vet appointment, unlike me you knew today was the day we’d say good…

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                                  • Suzanne posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                                    Hi Carmelita,
                                    We met at the June Zoom meeting. Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you and the others who have had to say good bye to a beloved pet. I pray regularly for all animals to have a peaceful pain free death surrounded by those they love and for all mourning the loss of a beloved pet.
                                    • Suzanne posted a new activity comment 4 years, 3 months ago

                                      Absolutely adorable 🥰
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