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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Oh Beverly, our pets count on us, trust us, to do what’s best for them, not us. Sometimes what’s best is to help them to a peaceful passing. Most of us here have had to make the difficult decision of when it time to stop, and grant them comfort. I’ve done it three times this past 1 1/2 years and it’s always awful, but good, knowing they aren’t suffering anymore. An enlarged bowel could have ruptured causing Bandit extreme agony. It’s good you didn’t let that happen, don’t you think? (Walter had a mass on his intestines and bowels and that was the main reason I let him go – so it wouldn’t rupture). You know you did everything you could, always in Bnadit’s best interest. Now you have to crawl through the deep pain of parting to get to a point of finding smiles before tears with his memories. I hope you’ll join us Thursday to talk about Bandit. (Under “Events). 💔🤗Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Diane, you are welcome to light another candle on the anniversary of Eddie’s passing. And, on the anniversary of his birthday or adoption day! Join us Thursday for our group meeting if you like. Anniversaries, especially the first, bring up many emotions and memories. I hope you think of the many fun, funny and loving times you and Eddie shared. We’re thinking of you 💔Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Please come to our meeting this Thursday July 20th, Christina. I think it will be good for you to talk about June with us. Link is under “Events” Toni -
Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Karen, you’ve been through a lot! I am so glad you find the strength to care for Alfie and Lily Belle, but maybe you all prop each other up. Sometime in the past the quote by Ram Dass “We are here to walk each other home” really landed on me. Best wishes to you! -
Christina posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago
Hello all, sorry I haven’t responded in awhile, but I have been struggling with the loss of my June… I miss her so much…
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Diane posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago
It’s coming up on a year since I lost my Eddie I miss him terribly He was the sweetest boy and gone way too soon Luv you my baby boy-
Diane, you are welcome to light another candle on the anniversary of Eddie’s passing. And, on the anniversary of his birthday or adoption day! Join us Thursday for our group meeting if you like. Anniversaries, especially the first, bring up many emotions and memories. I hope you think of the many fun, funny and loving times you and Eddie shared. We’re thinking of you 💔Toni
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Thank you Toni How do I light another candle?
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Click our logo at the top left of this page. You are welcome to light as many as you like. I hope with each one you feel the love you are sending them 💔
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
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Beverly posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago
I lost my precious Bandit on April 11 of this year. I am having a hard time dealing with her passing. She was 16, had diabetes, thyroid problems, a mass in her chest,a heart murmur, and an enlarged bowel. I tried everything to save her.-
Oh Beverly, our pets count on us, trust us, to do what’s best for them, not us. Sometimes what’s best is to help them to a peaceful passing. Most of us here have had to make the difficult decision of when it time to stop, and grant them comfort. I’ve done it three times this past 1 1/2 years and it’s always awful, but good, knowing they aren’t suffering anymore. An enlarged bowel could have ruptured causing Bandit extreme agony. It’s good you didn’t let that happen, don’t you think? (Walter had a mass on his intestines and bowels and that was the main reason I let him go – so it wouldn’t rupture). You know you did everything you could, always in Bnadit’s best interest. Now you have to crawl through the deep pain of parting to get to a point of finding smiles before tears with his memories. I hope you’ll join us Thursday to talk about Bandit. (Under “Events). 💔🤗Toni
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Brony posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago
Lulu always wanted a cat tree. When she was eleven I bought her a used one. Until then she loved my suitcase. When she passed she was buried in the back yard, I made her a cross to always honor her. Lulu will always be in my soul. She was a few months shy of being 14. I couldn\’t get thru another day alone and the thoughts of Lulu wore heavy on my brain, so I adopted crazy Lucy. She occupied my brain by doing things that made me laugh.. she adores tv. And is slowly coming around. She sits in her chair and watches TV for hours. I don\’t have many pictures of Lucy, but I will. Cause she\’s a crazy cat..I will always love LULU forever, but it was time to love again.-
Brony, you say it all so beautifully. Sending you, crazy Lucy and Lulu 🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️Toni
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Leigh posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
I’m so sorry for your loss
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Lisa posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago
My baby
Missing her so much 💔💔-
I’m so sorry for your loss
She will always be right there with you
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Lisa posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Thank you for your kind words
Getting over is def not possible
I miss my baby ,I cry everyday
I feel like I can still smell her I dream about her every night .I call out for her everyday wen I wake up ,not realizing she’s not here ugh ,this pain is unbearable
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Dana, I am so sorry for your loss of Grunt- Grunt 😞 Reading your post had me in tears. You went through so much and you did the best for her. I am heartbroken for you. I lost my boy 6 months ago and I am still not doing well, so I understand what you’re going through.
Sending you hugs. Peace be with you 😞 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Lisa, I understand 😞 I am so sorry for your loss 💔 Getting over it is not possible, it’s very painful and you will grieve. When we lose our precious fur babies it is gut wrenching. Some people don’t understand how we can still be grieving after a certain time, but, I guess they never had a special bond with a animal. They mean well when they say those things because they dont know what else to say and they are trying to help you. That’s why this group exists to help us get through this terrible grief. You can come here anytime and say what is on your mind. No judgement here.
Sending you lots of hugs and wishing you peace. Take care of yourself 💔 😞 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Brony, I wish you all the best with your new Kitty, Lucy. I’m glad she makes you smile. I know she will help you with your loss of Lulu. Sending you hugs. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss of Gigi 💔 It’s very hard to lose our fur babies. They are everything to us. I feel your pain and I know everyone here does too. Sending you comforting hugs. I wish you peace at this very sad time. 😞 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Brony, hope you had a very nice Birthday. You are a year younger than my son, he was 58 on the 6th. So, I should get a goldfish? 🙂
I’ve been there and done that…..they die too easily. But, it was a good suggestion. Have a nice day! -
Donna posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Yes her name is just diamond -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Oh Donna, I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beauty. The pain of parting is unlike any other. It’s deep. Real. And while we know in our heads Diamond girl shared a full and loving life with you, our hearts break. Please join our group meeting this Thursday, Donna. You will meet undertsanding and supportive people who want to hear about your life with Diamond girl. (Is that her name, or is it just Diamond?). I am sending you my heartfely sympathy. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Renee, how are you today? Toni - Load More
Sending you comforting hugs 💔