Margie

Margie

Margie posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago

Does it ever get better? I still can’t believe it or function . The house is too quiet and i can’t stand it
- Toni Noel replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  The quiet and emptiness were very hard for me, too. I suspect we all feel that way, especially if we live alone. Can you make some noise in the background, like upbeat music or a fun movie? Can you get out of the house for awhile each day? Have you thought of visiting a shelter where you can be around other animals (it might be too soon for that). Do you have friends and family you can call or visit with? You could write your thoughts and feelings in a journal. We have one in our Shop called Griffin’s Heart that is a guided journal and memento book that many have found helpful. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/griffins-heart-pet-loss-book/
  Join us Thursday Feb. 16th at our group meeting and share your feelings with us. Here’s the link:
  
  Faithful Friends February Group Meeting
  Time: Feb 16, 2023 7:00 PM Eastern Time
  
  Join Zoom Meeting
  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84427368453?pwd=Tno1bFZMeHB4clIyUmpCcUJXd0xBdz09
  
  Meeting ID: 844 2736 8453
  Passcode: 012394
  
  And Margie, keep sharing here with us, hopefully knowing there are many who care and understand helps you a bit. Toni
Margie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
He was with me every minute. We had our routine and i can’t make myself do anything
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Margie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
I got his ashes today. I am just crushed
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Margie posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago

I just lost my friend of 11 years, zeke, in 2 hours he was gone. I don’t know what to do.
- Toni Noel replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  Margie, do you have a friend or family member to be with you? It’s a terrible shock when they pass suddenly. Could you call Zeke’s vet and have them help you? Can they come to your home? If not, please try to have someone drive you, and let us know what you do, and how you are. Toni
- Toni Noel replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  Margie, are you doing okay now?
- Margie replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  I got his ashes today. I am just crushed
- Margie replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  He was with me every minute. We had our routine and i can’t make myself do anything
- Jean Burkhardt replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  Margie-for us the day we lose them is so difficult BUT the day we get their ashes back is just as hard. Just know the support here helps too. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Toni Noel replied 3 years, 6 months ago
  Margie, if you don’t want to do anyhting – don’t do anything. That’s okay. One thing you can do when you are ready, think of a fun time, a loving moment. Then expand those to the many times you shared good times, fun and love. Allow yourself to be happy for the lives you were graced to share. What a wonderful treat in your lives – to be together for as long as you could be. It’s never going t be long enough. But it was as long as you had and I hope you find joy in knowing how you made his life better. We are thinking of you, Margie, and want you to reach out to us. We have open arms, and hearts. Toni

Toni Noel replied 3 years, 6 months ago
The quiet and emptiness were very hard for me, too. I suspect we all feel that way, especially if we live alone. Can you make some noise in the background, like upbeat music or a fun movie? Can you get out of the house for awhile each day? Have you thought of visiting a shelter where you can be around other animals (it might be too soon for that). Do you have friends and family you can call or visit with? You could write your thoughts and feelings in a journal. We have one in our Shop called Griffin’s Heart that is a guided journal and memento book that many have found helpful. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/griffins-heart-pet-loss-book/
Join us Thursday Feb. 16th at our group meeting and share your feelings with us. Here’s the link:

Faithful Friends February Group Meeting
Time: Feb 16, 2023 7:00 PM Eastern Time

Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84427368453?pwd=Tno1bFZMeHB4clIyUmpCcUJXd0xBdz09

Meeting ID: 844 2736 8453
Passcode: 012394

And Margie, keep sharing here with us, hopefully knowing there are many who care and understand helps you a bit. Toni

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