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Jill posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
Having a really hard day today. Keep thinking of Gizmo so much 😪😢I just miss her so very much. Keep seeing her in the carrier the day she died and I couldn’t save her 💔. My heart goes out to her and she is not there. I’m just really having a hard time knowing she’s gone 😪
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I’m sorry 😔 for Gizmo’s passing.Bless her soul and you for your love and how you cared for her,and for your soul to heal🙏
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Jill, recently someone said to me “I don’t want to finish grieving yet”. I think that is brilliant – give ourselves permission to be in our grief as long as we want and need to be. You have to go straight through the depths of aching sadness to emerge from such a strong loss. There is no set timeline for our grieving processes, and even way out in the future sometimes a little thing will conjure tears. I think creating a memorial will help you. It can be a box of favorite toys, a collection of photos, or you can create a memorial tribute here in our “Memorials” tab. That gives you a place to go and just be in your memories and feelings. You can add to it any time and visit as often as you like. And Jill, if it was you who passed, wouldn’t you tell Gizmo to go live a happy life? I know she wishes that for you. We’re here to help you. What can we do for you?-
From what I think I know that there is nothing anyone can do for me or anyone else who is grieving we just have to go through it. Let time ease the pain won’t heal it but may or may not ease the pain. What I want is what I can not have again till the end of time is Gizmo back. I REALLY do appreciate you and the others checking in on me. Please don’t give up on me. Thank you Thank you.-
We’re here for you, Jill.
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Jill, How are you coming along? Are you feeling a bit better?
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Hi. I’m sorry for not responding earlier but I am trying to keep busy. Which is not helping me. I have people so dumbfounded on why are you (me) so distressed over a cat. I just want to smack everyone who says that I just go hide. I miss her so much 😢😔
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Jill, no one in this community will ever question your pain, nor the length of time it takes to move through it. We have a book to help heal – “Griffin’s Heart” ($27.99). It was written by Reagan J. Pasternak (you may know her from her acting career) and Reagan had a very close love with her cat Griffin. She wrote the book to help herself heal and is making it available to our community. It’s in our Shop if you want to try that. We’ll be releasing a Paw’d Cast with Reagan soon. Jill, stay with us – we are here for you. Here’s a HUG. Toni
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