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Melissa posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
Having trouble posting a candle.
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Still can’t post candle. It says code isn’t correct but it’s as posted.
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Melissa, there are multiple candles for Holly posted. Click on our logo and you will see them💕
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Melissa posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
Missing my Holly Golightly😢
So lonely around the house without her. Seventeen years wasn’t enough.-
Melissa, Forever wouldn’t be long enough with our beloved pets. I am sorry you said goodbye to Holly Golightly 💔When I have parted from my beloved babies, I fee good knowing they are no longer suffering, but walking in, and being in the house is extremely quiet and lonely, and it hurts. I hope you will read my response to Lillian and take somethng from the “exercises” I suggested, and share more about what you are feeling and thinking with us here. There are many pet owners who are here for you to help you. I certainly am. With sincere sympathy, Toni.
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To light a candle, click the logo “Faithful Friends” at the top left of this page, click where instructed and add your information. Let me know if you need more help. Toni
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Thank you for the kind words, it means a lot to me. I miss Holly so much and can’t believe she’s gone I’m trying to find a dog to rescue but it’s hard to find the small dogs. Going to try and light a candle for her. Thanks again❤️
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Lillian posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
My Poogan passed away 12/29/2023 of a collapsed trachea. I feel so lost without him after 17 years of having him. I hope the pain gets easier 😪-
Lillian, I am so very sorry for your loss of sweet Poogan, and yes, the pain of parting WILL ease, with time, and some exercises you can do to help: Think of fun, funny and loving times you and Poogan shared – ask yourself if you would rarher have shared those times even though you had to say goodbye and feel the pain, or never had Poogan in your life? Write notes to Poogan telling him about those times and how much joy he brought you, and write FROM Poogan to you – what do you think Poogan would want for you now? I suspect he would want you to be happy for your shared lives and to move forward knowing he lived his best life with you. Celebrate the day you met. What a grand day that was for you both! Get out of the house if possible, maybe volunteer at a local shelter, or watch silly things on TV. Talk to friends and family, and to us here in our community of kind, understanding people. We’re here for you and want to hear from you. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Lillian, I’m so sorry for your loss of Poogan 💔 What a beautiful pup he was. I know your heart is broken and I wish I could say something to help ease your pain. I still grieve for my Romeo who I lost 13 months ago and I am lost without him in my life. Time has helped ease the pain and it will for you too. Of course, we will never forget our fur babies.
Sending you hugs and wishing you peace.
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@rosettacespede Hi Rosetta. I am sorry for your loss and hope you are doing okay – how ARE you doing? We’re here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@bradleyevans9 Hello Bradley. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about your baby, share stories and photos, and let us know how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Laurie, a vet once told me “Better two months too early than two months too late”. One of the kindest gifts we can give our beloved babies is a comfortable, peaceful passing so they do not have to endure suffering. If you see that it is in his best interest to relieve him of his distress, you will never regret letting him go. Saying goodbye should make you feel happy for his release. Please continue to update us, and please come to our group meeting Thursday night for support. ❤️Toni
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Laurie posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
Hi everyone! I’m in distress as my 14 year pug has a collapsing trachea which has gotten worse. I see him wanting to go for a walk or chew a bone or even him wanting to bark, and all I hear is his excessive coughing and gasping. The vet says it’s not his time just yet. I still see the playful begging pug he always was. It’s very tough for me to hear him make these horrible noises. ☹️-
Laurie, a vet once told me “Better two months too early than two months too late”. One of the kindest gifts we can give our beloved babies is a comfortable, peaceful passing so they do not have to endure suffering. If you see that it is in his best interest to relieve him of his distress, you will never regret letting him go. Saying goodbye should make you feel happy for his release. Please continue to update us, and please come to our group meeting Thursday night for support. ❤️Toni
Link to join meeting is under “Events”
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Johannah, your pain comes through in your writing and I am so very sorry💔I think the deeper the love, the stronger the pain of parting, and you loved Pippin so very much. I am not sure we “get over” loss but we can help offset the pain by actively recalling fun, funny, loving memories of the life you and Pippin shared. Getting THROUGH the pain of parting takes not only time, but recognizing that healing does not mean forgetting. Healing is a way to honor Pippin. Opening your home and heart to another is also a way to honor Pippin by knowing he showed you how much love you have to give. You may not be able to afford a dog, but there are many lovley dogs in shelters just aching for a good life with a loving person like you. Perhaps you can volunteer at your local shelter to get a feel for it and to see if you are ready. Johannah, please join our group meeting this Thursday Feb. 15th at 7PM Eastern. I think you will find comfort talking about your feelings, and may get some other ideas about moving forward. The link is under the “Events” tab on the right side of this page. Please let us know how you are doing, if you decide to adopt or volunteer, and what we can do to support you. {{HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@manie588151408 Hello Manie. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about your baby, share stories about your lives together, show us some photos, and let us know how you are doing. We’re here for you💔Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Hi Christina. I am sorry for any difficulty. All you need to do is click the Memorials tab, “Add my memorial” and proceed from there. Let me know if I can assist you. [email protected]
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Johannah posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
Hi all. I lost my 14 yr 7 mo old Border Collie Pippin on 1/18/24. My heart is broken. I cry at least once everyday I miss him so much. I had him since he was 11 weeks old, I trained him and did obedience training with him, he was my child, as I am unable to have children. How will I ever get over losing my boy? When he crossed, and the vet let me know he had passed, it felt like someone pulled my insides out, it nearly dropped me to my knees. The pain was so incredibly raw, I literally ached from the loss.
I’ve been told that in time, getting a new dog will help heal my heart, but I’ve seen the cost of Border Collie puppies now, and I’ll never be able to afford one, which breaks my heart all over again.-
Johannah, your pain comes through in your writing and I am so very sorry💔I think the deeper the love, the stronger the pain of parting, and you loved Pippin so very much. I am not sure we “get over” loss but we can help offset the pain by actively recalling fun, funny, loving memories of the life you and Pippin shared. Getting THROUGH the pain of parting takes not only time, but recognizing that healing does not mean forgetting. Healing is a way to honor Pippin. Opening your home and heart to another is also a way to honor Pippin by knowing he showed you how much love you have to give. You may not be able to afford a dog, but there are many lovley dogs in shelters just aching for a good life with a loving person like you. Perhaps you can volunteer at your local shelter to get a feel for it and to see if you are ready. Johannah, please join our group meeting this Thursday Feb. 15th at 7PM Eastern. I think you will find comfort talking about your feelings, and may get some other ideas about moving forward. The link is under the “Events” tab on the right side of this page. Please let us know how you are doing, if you decide to adopt or volunteer, and what we can do to support you. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Christina posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
Saw the Valentines Day Memorial, and tried to do one for June, but she is not on the list. What happened, I thought she was there.
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Hi Christina. I am sorry for any difficulty. All you need to do is click the Memorials tab, “Add my memorial” and proceed from there. Let me know if I can assist you. [email protected]
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Thank you for the information, I checked it out, and I saw that there was a charge. I am not working, so I am not able to do it. I wrote her a letter. I think of her everyday.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Hi Toni, thank you for your kind words. It is just a small gesture to give comfort to those who are suffering the loss of a furry companion and it gives me some comfort too. I have come along since the first awful days after losing my Romeo and, although I had very little support for my grief, I want to be sure I extend my support for others. I’m trying my best to climb out of this depression (baby steps).
Don’t know about the monthly meetings, but I will definitely think about it.
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@mozart3529 Luna. What a lovely and inspiring name. May we hear more about Luna and your lives together, Joy? What kind of pet was Luna? How did you meet? May we see some pictures? I sm so sorry for your loss, and happy for the times you were lucky to share. We’re here for you, Joy. {HUGS} Toni
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Michelle posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Thank you so much I greatly appreciate your kindness and support. I will be happy to join the online meeting next week. I will post some pictures of Bean very soon -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@momee Hi Maureen 🤗You are so kind to share your support, and your feelings, with our friends here. Will we see you Thursday (Feb. 15) in our group? I hope you can make it. If you need, I can send you the link to join – they are all listed under the EVENTS tab and should be easy to get into. Let me know. We are all thinking of you and Romeo with sympathy and support.💔Toni
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Hi Toni, thank you for your kind words. It is just a small gesture to give comfort to those who are suffering the loss of a furry companion and it gives me some comfort too. I have come along since the first awful days after losing my Romeo and, although I had very little support for my grief, I want to be sure I extend my support for others. I’m trying my best to climb out of this depression (baby steps).
Don’t know about the monthly meetings, but I will definitely think about it.
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@mischelle1127 Hello Michelle, and welcome to our caring community. I am so sorry for your loss of Bean💔May we hear about your life with Bean – how you met, how long you were together, any fun, funny stories you would like to share. And of course, your feelings. We are here to support you and move through this incredibly difficult time together. I hope you will join our online group meeting Thursday Feb. 15th at 7PM Eastern. The link is under “Events”. If you’d like, please show us some pictures of Bean, and let us know how you are doing. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Thank you so much I greatly appreciate your kindness and support. I will be happy to join the online meeting next week. I will post some pictures of Bean very soon
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago
@elizabethkln87 Elizabeth, how are you doing now? A little better, I hope. Please come to our onlne group meeting next Thursday February 15th at 7PM Eastern 4 Pacific. You will meet kind, understanding friends to help you move through this time. I am sending you my sympathy and {{HUGS}}. Toni
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Elizabeth posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago
Thank you so much for your kind words. I know loss is part of life and it’s something you sign up for when you add a furry child to your family and home. I’m at peace knowing that she was loved and cared for every second up until her passing and I look forward to seeing her again one day. - Load More
