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Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
@slblue Hello Sherry-Lyn, and welcome to our community of caring pet lovers. Will you tell us about Watson and Kailani? Very nice names and we’d love to hear about them and your lives together, see some photos too. Are you doing okay, Sherry-Lyn? We are all pet and animal lovers, we have all said the most painful of goodbyes, and we are all here for one another, so you are welcome to share with us. I am sending you my sympathies and hope to hear from you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Dianne, I questioned how I would get through my loss, and very unexpectedly, ended up taking care of a friend’s cat for three months. I can tell you that was exactly what it took to help me, even though I wasn’t “ready” for a new friend (so I thought). Maybe you can visit a shelter to visit with pets who would love some company, not to adopt them yet, but to remind you of the many loving lives who will enjoy your time and attention,, But it has only been four days, and Dianne, geez, you hurt. Princess is such a part of your life and always will be, and life without her will be so much different. But she enjoyed the long, loving time you shared, and it’s on us to honor our beloveds by remembering the many gifts they gave us. What a shame our pets are only ‘on loan’ to us, but, we will all pass on from here, and want those left behind to be grateful and happy for the time we had together. I know, really know, how horrible you feel and how hard this is. I, and we in our community, feel the depth of pain you are feeling, and I want you to know, you can think of the good, fun, funny and silly times, and find some comfort there. Our next group meeting is October 20th. I hope to see you there. And, please read the October newsletter for the link. In honor of my Beauty Girl, for only $10. you can post a lasting memorial to Princess on our site. I hope you do and find comfort in that. {{SYMPATHY}} Toni
https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I, and we in our caring community, are always here for you. Toni -
Dianne posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
Hi.Well,it’s been four days now since my best friend died.My little Chi mix Princess was my best friend.I had a morning routine.I would get up at 5:20 every morning and say “come on let’s go potty”.She would bark as to say “okay mom”.And I still do that.She doesn’t respond…😞😞.I look for her when I come home,and the house is quiet.My life isn’t the same without her.I am so alone..I don’t know if I will be able to get over her death.
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Dianne, I questioned how I would get through my loss, and very unexpectedly, ended up taking care of a friend’s cat for three months. I can tell you that was exactly what it took to help me, even though I wasn’t “ready” for a new friend (so I thought). Maybe you can visit a shelter to visit with pets who would love some company, not to adopt them yet, but to remind you of the many loving lives who will enjoy your time and attention,, But it has only been four days, and Dianne, geez, you hurt. Princess is such a part of your life and always will be, and life without her will be so much different. But she enjoyed the long, loving time you shared, and it’s on us to honor our beloveds by remembering the many gifts they gave us. What a shame our pets are only ‘on loan’ to us, but, we will all pass on from here, and want those left behind to be grateful and happy for the time we had together. I know, really know, how horrible you feel and how hard this is. I, and we in our community, feel the depth of pain you are feeling, and I want you to know, you can think of the good, fun, funny and silly times, and find some comfort there. Our next group meeting is October 20th. I hope to see you there. And, please read the October newsletter for the link. In honor of my Beauty Girl, for only $10. you can post a lasting memorial to Princess on our site. I hope you do and find comfort in that. {{SYMPATHY}} Toni
https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I, and we in our caring community, are always here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
I know, Susan-it’s empty and you hurt. A lot. Try to think of something silly or funny Teddy Bear did. It can be hard to look at pictures, but they can bring back some smiles, too.
In memory of my Beauty Girl, we’re offering lasting Memorials for only $10. Why don’t you make one for Teddy Bear that you can visit and add to: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
It’s getting cool enough for me to wear me sweatshirt with my Beauty Girl on it and that makes me feel better. Maybe you would too. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/unisex-sweatshirt/
If you have a shelter nearby, perhaps you can visit with the cats-I’ve been thinking of doing that. Find a shelter near you here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/find-services/
Put in your city and use the drop-down menu.
If you read through some of the comments here in our community, you might feel better sharing your own words of sympathy with others. It means a lot to know people understand and care. Please let us know how, and what, you are doing. Our next Group meeting is Oct. 20th at 8 pm Eastern. Please join us then. I’ll be thinking of you. Toni
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Susan posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
My Teddy Bear-
I know, Susan-it’s empty and you hurt. A lot. Try to think of something silly or funny Teddy Bear did. It can be hard to look at pictures, but they can bring back some smiles, too.
In memory of my Beauty Girl, we’re offering lasting Memorials for only $10. Why don’t you make one for Teddy Bear that you can visit and add to: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
It’s getting cool enough for me to wear me sweatshirt with my Beauty Girl on it and that makes me feel better. Maybe you would too. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/unisex-sweatshirt/
If you have a shelter nearby, perhaps you can visit with the cats-I’ve been thinking of doing that. Find a shelter near you here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/find-services/
Put in your city and use the drop-down menu.
If you read through some of the comments here in our community, you might feel better sharing your own words of sympathy with others. It means a lot to know people understand and care. Please let us know how, and what, you are doing. Our next Group meeting is Oct. 20th at 8 pm Eastern. Please join us then. I’ll be thinking of you. Toni
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Susan posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
Got Teddy’s ashes last Friday.Was very sad all weekend.I really miss my Teddy Bear
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Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
@beautifulsoul1 Dianne, how are you holding up today? Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Maria-Catharina, Thank you for sharing this important message with specifics, and so eloquently written. The most loving, selfless and kind thing for Tosca is just what you are doing. I am so very sorry. How gracious of you to promote research. I don’t know if they have information about this, but Morris Animal Foundation does extensive research (especially cancer):
https://www.morrisanimalfoundation.org/
Please, please tell us how you are doing tonight, tomorrow and as often as you like. We are thinking of you all with sympathy. {{HUG}}
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Maria-Catharina posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
This pup was the niece of my Bella Rose and my heart breaks for her. I did send a link to this site so hopefully she will check us out but I do not know. Keep her in prayer as she needs it.
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Maria-Catharina posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
I am sharing this as it is important. It is from my friend Mary. I will not post a picture as I do not have her permission but this post is ok to post.
Canine dysautonomia
If you live in an area in the US with Chronic Wasting Disease in deer or in other areas of the world that have Mad Cow disease or if you travel through any of these areas you need to be aware of this horrible disease. Currently it is most commonly seen in Kansas, Missouri, and Wyoming. Dogs pick it up out of the soil or by walking through a contaminated area then licking their paws. It is most commonly seen in dogs 6-18 months in age but obviously there are outliers. Symptoms include: either inability to urinate with an easily expressed bladder or urinary incontinence, constipation or excessive straining to defecate or lack of bowel control, flaccid anus, drawn up third eyelids (seen above), permanently dialated pupils which leads to photosensitivity (also seen above), vomiting, lethargy, loss of appetite, dry congested nose, heart rate that remains constant even after exercise. Treatment is grueling, expensive, and very labor intensive. Some dogs respond well enough to treatment to live a semi normal life in remission with occasional flare ups. Many suffer before they finally succumb to this progressive, degenerative disease. I am choosing to spare Tosca of future suffering and will say goodbye later today. Her body will be donated to research in hopes that someday we can effectively prevent or treat dysautonomia-
Maria-Catharina, Thank you for sharing this important message with specifics, and so eloquently written. The most loving, selfless and kind thing for Tosca is just what you are doing. I am so very sorry. How gracious of you to promote research. I don’t know if they have information about this, but Morris Animal Foundation does extensive research (especially cancer):
https://www.morrisanimalfoundation.org/
Please, please tell us how you are doing tonight, tomorrow and as often as you like. We are thinking of you all with sympathy. {{HUG}}
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Sue posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Thank you, Toni, for your words of love. Yes, I am grateful that Jasper didn’t suffer long, but it gave me little time to prepare for the loss of him. My 49 year old son died of COVID on December 19, 2021, and Jasper was so much comfort to me at that time, and before I had even begun to recover from the loss of my son, I lost my loving comfort fella. I am working on healing from both losses and am having a very hard time of it. I am trying to remember the good times, happy times, with my son and Jasper. My best friend gave me a plaque after my son’s death that says: “When I Needed A Hand, I Found Your Paw,” which was so fitting for the situation I was in at the time! Jasper’s paw was very much needed comfort and he seemed to know exactly when I needed it! Thank you again, for your loving sentiments. -
Marybeth posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Thanks Toni. It’s been a rough week indeed. But I’m soaking up every moment I possibly can. I super appreciate your concern. I’m not looking forward to this weekend at all and I’m hoping my heart can handle what is to come. -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
@mbsmith101412 Hi Marybeth. I’m thinking of you this week and hope you and Drake are enjoying your time together. We know how terribly difficult it is and I want you to know we are all here for you this weekend, and any time thereafter. Sending you all a {{HUG}}. Toni
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Thanks Toni. It’s been a rough week indeed. But I’m soaking up every moment I possibly can. I super appreciate your concern. I’m not looking forward to this weekend at all and I’m hoping my heart can handle what is to come.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Oops…here’s the link to the canvas:
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Thank you for sharing your extremely moving story abut Trouble. My goodness what a handsome fellow! His eyes remind me of my Beauty Girl who was just shy of 18 when we said goodbye in February. Similarly, she had been treated for a multitude of health challenges and her passing, with euthanasia, was very calm and peaceful. You can see her photos in our Memorials tab. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I found sleeping with a stuffed cat comforting, and had a canvas of her close-up photo made that I pet and talk to. I got the 16’X20″. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I was too hasty giving away her food and things (to the shelter, of course) and encourage you not to force yourself to get rid of his things. Lorelei, do you think at some point you will be ready to open your home and heart to another? I wasn’t ready when a friends’ cat needed a temporary home and he was young and active and smart and funny and in the three months he spent with me, my emptiness evaporated and I realized how very fortunate my girl and I were to have our time together. I hope you reach the point you can open your home and heart to another, and that you find smiles before tears in your memories.
Please let us know how you are doing. We’re here for you. Toni -
Lorelei posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Toni Hello;
I was lucky enough to have had Trouble in my life for 16 out of his 18 years of life.
Unfortunately, my sweet Trouble developed asthma about 5 years ago and was being treated with daily steroids and monthly injections but..over the last 6 months he had been declining rapidly..
I took him into his Vets office on August 5th and I was hoping that he’d be able to come back home with me.
But.. his health had declined so much and I didn’t want him suffering any longer so Trouble’s Vet and myself thought it best to have him humanely euthanized as heartbreaking as it was😔❤️😿
Trouble had been deemed my emotional support animal since I suffer with depression, I miss him more than I’ll ever be able to express.
People who know me always told me Trouble was lucky to have me..
But.. I always felt that I was the lucky one to have my precious Trouble in my life.
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Lorelei posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago
@lorelei61 Welcome to our caring community, Lorelei. Please tell us about your life with Trouble. I love the name and hope you tell us how that came to be. We’d love to see pictures, too. How are you holding up? Okay, I hope. Toni
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Toni Hello;
I was lucky enough to have had Trouble in my life for 16 out of his 18 years of life.
Unfortunately, my sweet Trouble developed asthma about 5 years ago and was being treated with daily steroids and monthly injections but..over the last 6 months he had been declining rapidly..
I took him into his Vets office on August 5th and I was hoping that he’d be able to come back home with me.
But.. his health had declined so much and I didn’t want him suffering any longer so Trouble’s Vet and myself thought it best to have him humanely euthanized as heartbreaking as it was😔❤️😿
Trouble had been deemed my emotional support animal since I suffer with depression, I miss him more than I’ll ever be able to express.
People who know me always told me Trouble was lucky to have me..
But.. I always felt that I was the lucky one to have my precious Trouble in my life.
I wish you a good day Toni! -
Thank you for sharing your extremely moving story abut Trouble. My goodness what a handsome fellow! His eyes remind me of my Beauty Girl who was just shy of 18 when we said goodbye in February. Similarly, she had been treated for a multitude of health challenges and her passing, with euthanasia, was very calm and peaceful. You can see her photos in our Memorials tab. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I found sleeping with a stuffed cat comforting, and had a canvas of her close-up photo made that I pet and talk to. I got the 16’X20″. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/
I was too hasty giving away her food and things (to the shelter, of course) and encourage you not to force yourself to get rid of his things. Lorelei, do you think at some point you will be ready to open your home and heart to another? I wasn’t ready when a friends’ cat needed a temporary home and he was young and active and smart and funny and in the three months he spent with me, my emptiness evaporated and I realized how very fortunate my girl and I were to have our time together. I hope you reach the point you can open your home and heart to another, and that you find smiles before tears in your memories.
Please let us know how you are doing. We’re here for you. Toni -
Oops…here’s the link to the canvas:
https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/custom-pet-canvas/
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Sue, you may cry for a long time, and I hope some of your tears are happy for the wonderful times you enjoyed together. Poor little Jasper, at least he didn’t suffer too long and is at peace now. But you are left behind, empty in his absence, and that hurts unlike any other pain. It takes time to heal and find smiles before tears with your memories. The upcoming holiday season may be tough, and we are here for you. Please let us know how you are doing. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago
Oh Dianne, you say it beautifully. I am so very sorry. She was so strong for so long, and you shared the gift of a loving life, and a passing into peace. I know there is a huge hole in your sole. We are all thinking of you and will be here waiting to hear from you. Call me if you want to chat. I am so, so sorry, Dianne. {{HUG}} - Load More
