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Jackie posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
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I am so happy for you both, Jackie. Love that you call her what she is -Girlfriend :-). She’s looking great. Keep us updated, and thanks for sharing with us. Toni
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Jackie posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
Update on girlfriend she s doing great and is spoiled rotten lol. She has put on lil weight 🤣 but so glad I decided to rescue her. I miss my other 2babies so much
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
That’s wonderful – having a moving history of your times with Mya hopefully brings back the fun and good times. You aren’t far out from her passing and I hope you are feeling a bit better all the time, but it can ebb and flow and seem like you’re going backwards sometimes. That’s okay, too. It’s all part of the pet love and loss process that we take on when we enter into the loving relationship. Please keep us updated. And if you read some posts here that move you, feel welcome to lend your sympathy and support to others. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
That’s quite a position Mae has there. :-). Oh those darn holidays, Martha – they can really trigger the memories and tears. When you talk about Raina, I hope you are recalling the good and fun stuff, and that brings you some smiles and laughter. Keep at it, you’ll get through with Mae and your family’s help. And we are always here for you with understanding so let us know how you are. {{HUGS}} -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Yes Susan, anniversaries bring up lots of feelings and memories. I hope yours good, and it is so nice that you are grateful to have been his parents. Thank you for adopting, too. My girl passed 2-24-2022 so I’m approaching that day, and I feel okay about it now. She was a wonderful friend, and I too am blessed to have been a part of her life. Let us know if you adopt more, and tell us how you are doing. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
That’s purrrrfect Terrilynn :-). It’s good to hear from you, especially with happy news. It really does help to heal a broken heart when new lives and energies enter our lives. Beautiful doggies, by the way. Enjoy, and keep us updated. Toni -
Terrilynn posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
I miss my fur babies that have crossed over everyday … and think about them all the time … they\’ll always be in my heart – however we now currently have 2 very active dogs that keep us on our toes! We had Anubis when my little Bella passed away and shortly after that we adopted Birdie. We are nuts and life is currently crazy!!-
That’s purrrrfect Terrilynn :-). It’s good to hear from you, especially with happy news. It really does help to heal a broken heart when new lives and energies enter our lives. Beautiful doggies, by the way. Enjoy, and keep us updated. Toni
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Susan posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Thank you, 1-13-23 marked the 1st year of Hobbes passing over. He is truly missed every day, every hour, minute. We were blessed to be his adopted parents ❤️ -
Martha posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
I made it through Christmas and New Year. I still cry, I also still can\’t talk about her without crying. We are now raising our Granddaughter, she\’s two and I know she doesn\’t understand why I sometimes cry. She was with us the night we lost Raina but I\’m sure she doesn\’t remember.
She and Mae play together it\’s funny to watch. The picture is of Mae waiting for our Granddaughter to get out of the bathtub.-
That’s quite a position Mae has there. :-). Oh those darn holidays, Martha – they can really trigger the memories and tears. When you talk about Raina, I hope you are recalling the good and fun stuff, and that brings you some smiles and laughter. Keep at it, you’ll get through with Mae and your family’s help. And we are always here for you with understanding so let us know how you are. {{HUGS}}
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Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Thank you for your kind comments, I took lots of pictures of our activities and many are on my digital picture frame for us to enjoy. We are just taking one day at a rime. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
It’s been awhile since we heard from some of you – Dixie, Renzo, Chia ….and others …. – so please, check in with us everyone, and let us know how you are doing. We think about each and every one of our community members and hope everyone is doing well. Let us know. I hope you have a good 2023. Toni
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Thank you, 1-13-23 marked the 1st year of Hobbes passing over. He is truly missed every day, every hour, minute. We were blessed to be his adopted parents ❤️
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Yes Susan, anniversaries bring up lots of feelings and memories. I hope yours good, and it is so nice that you are grateful to have been his parents. Thank you for adopting, too. My girl passed 2-24-2022 so I’m approaching that day, and I feel okay about it now. She was a wonderful friend, and I too am blessed to have been a part of her life. Let us know if you adopt more, and tell us how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Rhonda, Gabby was a beauty, that’s for sure. What sweet eyes. How do you move on? Slowly, painfully, and I hope gratefully, thankful for the many joys and secrets you shared, the support you gave each other, and the care. Plus of course, the pets and kisses. There is a special place in our soul where our pet lives and losing them is a pain of it’s own. But, there is also a place where the love and happiness lives, too. Gabby would want you to be so very happy for your lives together, grateful for your shared love, and I hope you call to mind a good memory with each sad one. You will find smiles before tears one day, and that will come in your own time. Allow that to happen. It hasn’t been long and you should be feeling everything you are. Please know we understand and care, and are here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Amy, you are doing a good job by acknowledging your grief and acting on it by visiting Chloe and talking with her. It’s NOT crazy. You are not wrong. You are capable of deep and abiding love. I hope you give some of your love back to yourself, for the care, kindness and love you gave to Chloe. In our heads we know the moment we meet our beloved pet that one day we will have to say goodbye and endure the tremendous grief of parting. But we do it anyway, and share the many fun and funny and joyful times together. Perhaps we ask too much when we want them with us forever. But Amy, you wouldn’t have wanted to not have Chloe as a part of you, would you? I think you are moving through the pain in your own way and at your own pace. Choosing to remember the happiness is a good way to help offset the pain and I hope you continue to do that. Chloe would want you to be happy for your lives knowing her memory brings you joy. don’t you think? I do. Please let us know what’s going on. And be kind to yourself as you would be to her. {{HUGS}} -
Rhonda posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
Lost my Gabby 2 weeks ago. The most loyal loving dog a person could hope for. To know her was to love her. I miss her so terribly bad. My heart is broken, how does one move forward after something so painful? I’m so lost.-
Rhonda, Gabby was a beauty, that’s for sure. What sweet eyes. How do you move on? Slowly, painfully, and I hope gratefully, thankful for the many joys and secrets you shared, the support you gave each other, and the care. Plus of course, the pets and kisses. There is a special place in our soul where our pet lives and losing them is a pain of it’s own. But, there is also a place where the love and happiness lives, too. Gabby would want you to be so very happy for your lives together, grateful for your shared love, and I hope you call to mind a good memory with each sad one. You will find smiles before tears one day, and that will come in your own time. Allow that to happen. It hasn’t been long and you should be feeling everything you are. Please know we understand and care, and are here for you. Toni
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Rhonda, I hope you will join our Group Meeting Thursday Jan. 19th at 8 PM Eastern to talk about Gabby. You’ll get an email Thursday with the link. Toni
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Amy added a Photo 3 years, 9 months ago
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Amy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
I do think of the good times and all the love we shared but always is taken over by the sadness of just missing her, I honestly don’t believe I have ever grieved like this over anyone or anything and I don’t understand. I’m not gonna lie I have always pushed away from people including family just so I never would have to feel this again not that I didn’t love and care for anyone, I just didn’t want to feel this pain in my chest and sick to my stomach and absolutely no motivation in my life and I don’t understand why this so hard on me! this may be silly to some but everyday I go out to her grave put new flowers on and just sit and talk to her and I pray she hears me! The love I had for her was so much than I realized and losing her has just left me devastated and I can’t seem to get past it. I just don’t know how and everyone around me seems to think I should just be over it and I need to realize that life goes on but they don’t understand that mine life stood still when her heart stopped -
Sandy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
Luigi was a Shetland Sheepdog. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago
@sandyace Hi Sandy. I am sorry you said goodbye to Luigi and hope you are doing fairly well. Are you? What a great name – Luigi. What kind of pet was he? I really would love to hear about your lives together and see some photos. Please let us know how you are. Toni
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Luigi was a Shetland Sheepdog.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago
I am so sorry, Cindy. It hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye to Mya and you know from experience there is no timeline for healing. Each relationship is unique and carries it’s own special bonds. The ones you have with Mya are special to you and her, as are your others, so the grief and pain does hurt anew. I do hope you are finding or seeking memories of the wonderful times you shared, recalling the joys. When we enter a relationship with a beloved pet we know in our heads one day we will part, but the heart is broken. You wouldn’t have given up the years together, would you? Now you are suffering the pains of losing Mya, but you will always have the love and happiness to warm you. We are here to take the journey with you so please feel welcome to share with us. Sending you a {{HUG}} -
Cindy posted an update in the group
Remember 3 years, 9 months agoWe lost Mya Nov. 7th to cancer she was 13 1/2 and our baby girl. I miss her so much and cry every day, this is not the first time we have had one of our family cross the Rainbow Bridge but it hurts like it’s the first time. I am retired and I spent all my time with her and my Golden Doodle Lexi who misses her too. The daily walks are the hardest but we keep to our schedule.-
I am so sorry, Cindy. It hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye to Mya and you know from experience there is no timeline for healing. Each relationship is unique and carries it’s own special bonds. The ones you have with Mya are special to you and her, as are your others, so the grief and pain does hurt anew. I do hope you are finding or seeking memories of the wonderful times you shared, recalling the joys. When we enter a relationship with a beloved pet we know in our heads one day we will part, but the heart is broken. You wouldn’t have given up the years together, would you? Now you are suffering the pains of losing Mya, but you will always have the love and happiness to warm you. We are here to take the journey with you so please feel welcome to share with us. Sending you a {{HUG}}
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Thank you for your kind comments, I took lots of pictures of our activities and many are on my digital picture frame for us to enjoy. We are just taking one day at a rime.
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That’s wonderful – having a moving history of your times with Mya hopefully brings back the fun and good times. You aren’t far out from her passing and I hope you are feeling a bit better all the time, but it can ebb and flow and seem like you’re going backwards sometimes. That’s okay, too. It’s all part of the pet love and loss process that we take on when we enter into the loving relationship. Please keep us updated. And if you read some posts here that move you, feel welcome to lend your sympathy and support to others. Toni
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