• Jill posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    I’m still having issues getting over Gizmos death. She wasn’t just a cat. She wasn’t sposed to die that day. She was more than just a cat to me. I cry almost every day. I miss her so much.

    • Oh Jill, it’s okay to be this way. No, Gizmo was your dear, beloved friend with whom you communicated and shared so much – I understand. We really talk and understand, and are best friends. The love is very deep and sincere. It can’t be evaluated or replaced. I don’t know when any of us are supposed to die, but we all do. What I DO know is that any of us who are loved, and share love, have lived really good, fulfilled lives. You and Gizmo will always have that love. One day I think you will be smiling with Gizmo’s memory. That’s what Gizmo would want, as you would want from others thinking of you – right? So please, allow yourself to grieve, and allow yourself to be happy for your time together with Gizmo. I am sending you a BIG HUG and want to hear from you again soon, Jill.
        • Thank you so very much for your caring. I just want to think of her and not cry. My kids and some others think that I am being over dramatic. Thank you again.
            • No, Jill, you know your tears come from a place deep within and it’s not a choice – it’s strong emotion. Dramatic? Yeah, okay, it is, but it’s not made up. it’s real. Real drama stems from deep emotion. So go ahead and move through your feelings. We get it – we’re here for you, Jill.
                • Thank you. I don’t care who says that pets are not family I know they are. I wasn’t ready to get another kitten but I was thinking of Babydoll Gizmos sister. I didn’t want her to go and be lost and hide somewhere and die. So we found Bella. Lil stinker in more ways than one.
          • Jill posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

            Thank you. It’s so hard to let
            • Jill posted an update 5 years, 4 months ago

              Thoughts and prayers for you. I hope you are going to be ok.

            • Jill posted an update 5 years, 4 months ago

              It will be a month on the 5th of April that Gizmo will be gone and 5 months of December 9th to April 9th Kitty will gone.

              • I “get” what you mean about Gizmo. My cat and I understand each other so much I know we speak to each other, just in different languages. To lose them both so close is devastating and you have my deepest sympathies. Please keep us updated about how you are doing. I will be thinking of you.
              • Jill posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

                But Gizmo was my baby we just were connected. We new each other. I knew what she wanted and she knew what I wanted
                • Jill posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

                  Both
                    • But Gizmo was my baby we just were connected. We new each other. I knew what she wanted and she knew what I wanted
                    • Jill posted an update in the group Group logo of RememberRemember 5 years, 4 months ago

                      I miss my baby girl Gizmo so much 😢

                    • Jill posted an update 5 years, 4 months ago

                      I miss my baby girl

                      • Jill, are you speaking of Miss Kitty? Or Gizmo? I am sure you miss them both and understand that, from day to day, memories of one or the other come to the forefront. Would you like to share some pictures with us so we can be with you?
                        • Hi Jill. It’s been four months today since you and Miss Kitty parted – isn’t it? I’ve been thinking of you and hoping you are doing a bit better with her memories, and those of Gizmo? Please let us know. Toni