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  • Jill posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    I’m still having issues getting over Gizmos death. She wasn’t just a cat. She wasn’t sposed to die that day. She was more than just a cat to me. I cry almost every day. I miss her so much.

    • Oh Jill, it’s okay to be this way. No, Gizmo was your dear, beloved friend with whom you communicated and shared so much – I understand. We really talk and understand, and are best friends. The love is very deep and sincere. It can’t be evaluated or replaced. I don’t know when any of us are supposed to die, but we all do. What I DO know is that any of us who are loved, and share love, have lived really good, fulfilled lives. You and Gizmo will always have that love. One day I think you will be smiling with Gizmo’s memory. That’s what Gizmo would want, as you would want from others thinking of you – right? So please, allow yourself to grieve, and allow yourself to be happy for your time together with Gizmo. I am sending you a BIG HUG and want to hear from you again soon, Jill.
        • Thank you so very much for your caring. I just want to think of her and not cry. My kids and some others think that I am being over dramatic. Thank you again.
            • No, Jill, you know your tears come from a place deep within and it’s not a choice – it’s strong emotion. Dramatic? Yeah, okay, it is, but it’s not made up. it’s real. Real drama stems from deep emotion. So go ahead and move through your feelings. We get it – we’re here for you, Jill.
                • Thank you. I don’t care who says that pets are not family I know they are. I wasn’t ready to get another kitten but I was thinking of Babydoll Gizmos sister. I didn’t want her to go and be lost and hide somewhere and die. So we found Bella. Lil stinker in more ways than one.