Stuart Allan
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Toni Noel posted an update 10 months, 3 weeks ago
GROUP MEETING: Thursday September 18 at 7PM Eastern; 4PM Pacific
If you haven’t joined us for awhile, please do. We’d love to hear from you. Everyone is welcome. Toni-
Toni I wanted to come to the meeting tonight but I was unable to find a zoom link anywhere on my emails from you. Not sure what happened to it. I even went to the website and still couldn’t find it.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months ago
Jackie, I am so sorry for your loss💔Will you tell us more about your sweet baby? How did you meet? How long were you togeher? Anything you would like to share, we would like to hear. We are here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 1 week ago
💔Doris Mae, The pain you feel is understandable and I am so, so sorry. It sounds as if you and Evie Girl had a strong, loving bond based not only on love, but mutual support. Your love will always be with you but not having her by your side and in your home is an additional emptiness. It does hurt, in ways nothing else can, to lose a beloved friend, companion and baby. I hope you can try to recall some of the fun, funny, loving times you and Evie Girl were so lucky to share and that you find a few smiles before tears with your memories. You might write notes to her, and write what you think she would want to share with you. I suspect she would be grateful to you for your care and love, and would want you to be happy that she had her best life with you. Our pets are only “on loan” to us, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enough). Please share more about Evie Mae with us, and know that we are here for you. With {{HUGS}} and my sincere sympathy, Toni -
Cody posted a new activity comment 11 months, 2 weeks ago
I am so sorry to hear about Peaches -
Cody posted a new activity comment 11 months, 2 weeks ago
I’m so sorry, Michele -
Cody posted a new activity comment 11 months, 2 weeks ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 11 months, 2 weeks ago
To every pet parent who has said goodbye tp a beloved friend; To every kind person who has opened their home and heart to a baby in need of a loving home; To everyone who gives their time, care or donation to shelters and rescues:
THANK YOU ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
And thank you for sharing your stories, memories and heartfelt feelings with our kind, caring community.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 2 weeks ago
Michele, is this Dakota? What a cutie. I am so very sorry that you have said goodbye and hope you will tell us about Dakota and your life together. It hurts so deeply and can help to share with people who understand and care. We are here for you Michele. I am sending you {{HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago
Carol, I am so sorry💔Will you tell us about pretty Peaches? It hurts to say goodbye at any age, but Peaches was so young 💔We are here for you to share your story and feelings. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago
💔Kelly, what a sweet pciture of darling Bella. I am so sorry for your parting. Will you tell us more about her? How did you meet? How long were you together? Anything you would like to share, we would like to hear. And Kelly, please feel welcome to join our group meeting this Thursday, August 21st, at 7PM ESt. The link is under “Events”. We’re here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 11 months, 3 weeks ago
Our Group Meeting is this Thursday, August 21st, at 7PM EST, 4PM Pacific. If you would like to share your stories and feelings with a kind group of understanding friends, please join us.
The link is under the “Events” tab on the right side of the Community page. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago
What a sweet picture of darling Bean, Diana. I am so sorry you had to say goodbye, and happy for the many years you and Bean shared. I hope that you are able to think of him with smiles and joy (mixed with tears). You are welcome to join our group meeting Thursday to share more with us. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago
Heidi, I am heartbroken reading your very touching account of the challenges you and Bear faced💔
You did what you could to help Bear based on the information you and guidance you received. That is all we can do – our best, always from a place of love and concern. Guilt is a part of caring for our beloved babies – did I do too much? Could I have done more? Did I wait too long or was it too sonn?
I hope you can find comfort knowing you did what you thought was best for Bear. If you can, please join our group meeting this Thursday, August 21st at 7PM EST, 4PM Pacific to talk about it with our kind friends. And pleases keep posting here. It can help to share. With my sincere and deep sympathy, Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago
💔Is this Matilda? I am so sorry , Melissa💔Will you tell us about her? You are welcome to join our group meeting Thursday August 21st to share more. With my sincere sympathy, Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 12 months ago
Sharing some good news:
Mac and Roni won the Humane Colorado (formerly DDFL) 2026 calendar contest in the cat category 🎉🎉Reminder:Our next group meeting is August 21st at 7PM EST. If you would like to talk, we’re here for you with kindness and support. Toni
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I plan on attending the groip meeting!
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Toni, Congratulations to Mac and Roni on winning the contest (and you too). They are such pretty kitties. ❤️
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year ago
💔Cynthia, this is so sad and I am so sorry. Will you tell us more about what happened? You and your boyfriend are very welcome to join us in our kind group meeting August 21st to talk about what happened, your feelings, and know that we are here with understanding of your pain, and will support you in all ways. And please stay in touch here in our community. I am sending you my sympathy. Toni
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Cody posted a new activity comment 1 year ago
I’m so sorry -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year ago
💔Jean, it’s only been a few months since you said goodbye to Bradley and it is understandable that you and Sadie are still mourning his loss💔Perhaps you will join our kind group August 21st to talk about Bradley, and Sadie. It can help to share with people who understand. There is no set time for grieving and healing but I do hope that each day is a bit easier for you both.
I don’t know how old you are, but I had neighbors in their 80’s who only adopted senior dogs. Yes, they said goodbye to a n umber of them, but the sweet old pups had a loving last few years. Maybe you could consider that if it would help you, and Sadie. Is Sadie also about 13? If so, she may find a new fur friend stressful.
Jean, please continue to share here with us – we truly care and are here for you. Sending you hugs, Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year ago
💔Jeannette, I am so sorry for your loss, and happy for the many years of fun and love you were lucky to share. It’s a shame our sweeties are only “on loan” to, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enough). Are your other two mourning? I bet they are. I hope you all find comfort with one another, and that your memories bring you smiles before tears. Please keep us updated about how you are doing, and join our kind, supportive group August 21st if you’d like. The link to our monthly meetings is under the “Events”‘ tab on the right side of this page. With my sympathy, Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year ago
💔😪Oh Suzanne, how heartbreaking. I am sharing tears with you as I write this and want you to know how special you are to care so much for so many loving little lives. It only takes a moment to fall in love, and a lifetime to cherish whatever time we are lucky to share. I adopted Walter when his human died and he was only with me five months. He was 15 and had a fast growing malignant tumor. I loved himdearly and I ache when I remember how sweet and wonderful he was, but, like you and Kalina, he had a loving, safe, comfortable, and I hope somewhat fun, end of life with me. It is good that you know how much better Kalina’s life was in your loving care, and I am glad you wrote such a heartfelt letter to her. Please light as many candles as you like for Kalina and Oliver. Please give Sebastian and the others hugs and pets from me. We are always here for you. I hope to see you again at the monthly meeting August 21st. I am thinking of you with sympathy. Toni - Load More
