Maureen
@momee
Active 2 days, 2 hours ago
Hi everyone, I just wanted to come here to find out what was new and to possibly provide a little comfort to those members who have recently lost their fur baby. I’m not seeing any new posts here for a long time and maybe I’m just not receiving them.
I send warm thoughts and comforting hugs to all.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Hi Toni, thank you for reaching out to me. I am still having a rough time for the most part, but there are times where I am better. I guess there really is no choice but to go on. I don’t think I will ever get over losing Romeo. The days just drone on and now it is almost 8 months since he left. It is so hard to believe he has been gone that long and that in itself makes me so, so sad. It is finally hitting me little by little that he is never coming home and I will never see him again. That is still so hard to face right now. I know time is supposed to soften and help with grief so there’s that.
I have compassion for others who are going through a loss and I think it does bring me some comfort to say something kind to them. Losing a fur baby can be worse than losing a human in some cases and I have to say that is the case for me. I am lost and broken right now and I feel for others who are experiencing the same and I want to help ease their sorrow in some small way if I can.
Thank you, again, for you kindness and for all you do for everyone here.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Christina I am so sorry for your loss of June 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Cindy, I am so very sorry for your loss of JJ 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Hi Catherine, I am so sorry for your loss of Taj 💔 Losing our fur babies is the most heartbreaking thing to go through . I understand your pain and I wish there was a simple answer to how to go on after losing them, but there isn’t. I lost my Romeo 7 months ago and I’m still gutted and cry everyday. I just take it one day at a time. That’s all we can do. I wish you peace at this very sad time.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Marilyn, I am sorry for your loss of Bandit 💔 I understand what you mean about Bandit being you faithful companion and being your world. My Romeo was the same for me and saved my life too. He came as a gift to me when I was at a very low time in my life and just wanted to die. Please take care of yourself. Peace be with you. Sending you hugs 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Stacey, I know the feeling of coming home and nobody us there to greet us. It’s the worst. I lost my Romeo in January and we were together 24/7. It is still hard for me to leave the house but worse to come home because he’s not there. I dont know if or when I will get over that. This grief is hard.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
What beautiful dogs they are. 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Stacey, I am so sorry for your loss of Woogie 💔 He sounded like a wonderful boy and I know your heart is broken. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain. Sending you hugs 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago
Melinda, I am so, so sorry for your loss 💔 It is never easy to say goodbye. Sending you comforting hugs and wishing you peace at this very sad time 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Brandy, I am so very happy for you. Blu is such a cutie. I wish you both a very happy and long life together. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Hi Brony, I’m just checking in with you and hoping you are feeling better and that Lucy is helping you mend. Sending you lots of hugs xx -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Peggy, I am sorry for your loss of LacyLu 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Patricia, I am so, so sorry for your loss of Puddles 💔 I know how hard it is to lose our fur babies. The heartache is unbearable. Sending you comforting hugs. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Oh Margaret, how terribly sorry I am for your losses 💔 Sending you comforting hugs at this very sad time. 😔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Sandra, I am so, so sorry for your loss of Sally 💔 I love that you have a tattoo of her because she is always with you now. Sending you hugs and wishing you peace. Enjoy your little Jax. He will help soothe your broken heart.💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Jennifer, so sorry for your loss of Jeter 💔 What a beautiful boy he was. Losing our fur babies is so, so hard. The pain is gut wrenching. I know how heartbroken you are and I wish you peace. Sending you hugs. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Sue, thank you for you hugs and loving thoughts to us all. ❤️ -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Toni, I am grateful for your kindness and encouragement. Although, I am still having a hard time remembering happy memories of Romeo at time, I do remember them sometimes. I haven’t dreamt of him and aside from looking at his photos, I’m not able to see him clearly in my minds eye and that is disturbing to me. I’ve read that it might be because I’m still so full of grief. I am trying to get past this, but it’s hard when it starts over again every si g morning when I wake up and realize he is gone. The morning ritual is gone and is a constant reminder. I am better for sure and I am just taking more time than some to get through. But, that’s okay.
Maureen
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Brony, thank you . My thoughts are lonely too. I think about you too and hope you are managing with crazy Lucy. She sounds like a handful, but, also a very special. I know having her brings you a little joy and helps with your loss.
You have a great attitude and you will overcome the damage of that stroke. You may be the tortoise, but, the tortoise won and you will too.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Hi Toni, thank you for your concern. I guess I am doing okay. I have been trying to be positive. I am trying to move ahead and Im finding it hard. Life is empty without my Romeo and each day is is a challenge for me because there wasn’t a single thing that didn’t involve him. I still cry a lot. He used to be everywhere in this house and was a constant in my life and now it is empty. I will continue to try and remember the happy times of our life together instead of those last final moments and hope that with time the pain in my heart will ease.
Thank you so much for thinking of me. - Load More
