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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago
@slcastellanos Hi Sandra. Please tell us about your baby, share photos if you like, and let us know how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago
OUCH. Sad news. Darling little Walter\’s mass is fast growing. No surgery or chemo. I\’m watching him for weight loss, vomiting or discomfort. I\’m not surprised really, but am so very sad. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago
Thank you Sigrid, for your kind, caring, understanding support for those in our community. Your beautiful urns make loving final resting places that bring us comfort. Your words soothe and encourage us to look to the happy times we shared. We are so glad to have you with us. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Thinking of Penny, with love. You were wonderful to take her in and give her a loving life. I hope you find comfort in that. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Amy, there is no time line for grieving and I am so sorry. You will always miss Chloe Bell but can you find some smiles in remembering the good times you and Chloe Bell shared? Have you tried writing a letter to her? Maybe write one from her to you? What do you think she would want you to know? Please come to our group meeting April 20th and talk with us. {HUGS} -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago
@krystiemarie Hi Krystie. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Bella. What kind of pet was she? How did you meet? Any and everything you’d like to share. And know we are sorry, and undertsand, and are here to support you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago
@mollymainesgmail-com Sueann, is this Bear? What a spectacular kitty. I am so sorry. Please tell us about your lives together. We’re here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Kristina, how are you doing? Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Oh Patty, what happened? My friend Tom was sitting with his Rigby in his lap, got up to get an iced tea, came back and Rigby was dead. Literally, within a minute, and no signs of ill health. Is it pre-ordained or happenstance? I don’t know, but I do know how very sorry I am. Patty, come to our group meeting April 20th. I think you will find it kind, caring, understanding and supportive. I am, again, so very sorry. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 6 months ago
Lena, Shadow was sooo handsome. My BG was a black cat (you can see her pictures in the Memorial tab) and she was 18 when we said goodbye lat year. I can totally fall in love with Shadow with you, and am so very sad and sorry for your parting. It seems you and Shadow spent half his life together and isn’t that wonderful? I was only with BG for five of her 18 years, and they were golden. I hope you can think of the good, and great life you and Shadow shared, and that your memories bring you joy and smiles. And please Lena, join us April 20th in our group meeting to talk about Shadow with us. We’re thinking of you, with heartfelt sympathy. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Oh how precious, Kristina. It hurts so deeply, doesn’t it? I am so very sorry. It’s hard that our beloved pets are only “on loan” to us, never for long enough. I hope you can find some comfort knowing you and Digger shared a wonderful life. We’re here for you so keep sharing with us, and please join our group meeting April 20th.Faithful Friends April Group Meeting
Time: Apr 20, 2023 7:00 PM Eastern Time, 4 PM PacificJoin Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84061915091?pwd=TzNUckpWQ1dXRTg0WXpoeHpSUnpRQT09Meeting ID: 840 6191 5091
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
@klanderson1127gmail-com Keistina, I am sorry for your loss of Digger. How are you holding up? What kind of pet was Digger? May we see some photos and hear about your lives together? Toni
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Hi Toni,
Digger was a pomeranian jack Russell mix dog. He was 14 years old when he passed this week. Honestly not holding up at all… he is missed greatly!!
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
@thenick07 Nicholas. What a great name, Valerie. Please tell us about him, and your lives together. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
I’m with you about not putting them through extreme measures, especially when they are older. I’m facing that with Walter right now, and it helps to think of what is best for them, not us. And no, you can’t replace a pet with another. You CAN open your home and heart to a new love, but no one will “replace” Ricky. It may be some time before you are ready to do that. Or, what happened to me – a cat needed a home after my BG died and I took him in. I didn’t think I was ready, and I really didn’t want another pet yet, but it truly took me out of my blues and pain by having him. Now I have another cat who’s person died and he is old and sick. It’s easy to fall in love, brutal to say goodbye. Please don’t let anyone pressure you into doing anything. Come to our group meeting and you’ll hear similar stories from others. It can help a lot. Let us know how you are doing. It takes time, Donna, and we’re here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Oh Amanda, I am sorry. One thing we encourage is to celebrate birth and adoption dates, not only remembering the date we said goodbye. Perhaps you can try that. An exercise we use is to recall at least one fun or funny thing from our times rogether when the tears take over. Talk with us about your babies with our kind, understanding group meeting on April 20th. And keep sharing with us here. Sending you {HUGS} Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Denise, I hope you’ll join our April 20th group meeting because one of our members also has a feral cat she is getting to know. You can share some tips. You’ll receive an email with the login info. and it will be in our April newsletter. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Janell, this was Isaac? I am so very sorry. Was he always diabetic? Is nine years a fairly good life span for a diabetic kitty? If you can enlighten us with information about that, it would be important, meaningful and very kind of you. May we see some pictures of your sweet Isaac? We’re glad you came to our caring community and hope you’ll join our group meeting April 20th . Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
What a shock, Donna. It’s understandable that you are numb. I have a friend whose cat was sitting in his lap, he went to the garage and came right back in, and the cat was dead. The vet didn’t know what happened but suspected a heart failure. It happened in literally two minutes. As awful as it is for you, Donna, perhaps it was best for Ricky. There must have been an underlying condition. I am just so sorry for this. Please come to our kind and caring group meeting April 20th. We are here for you with sympathy and understanding, Donna. {HUGS} Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Donna, what a strange and sad story. When you say Ricky was “gone”, what do you mean? Did he die? Or did he leave? Either way, what a sad thing for you and I am very sorry. Please Donna, tell us more, and know we are here for you with arms open. Toni - Load More
