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  • Amanda posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

    Good morning- So, January was a year without my Lil D, and in the next few months it will be a year without my Piglet and WhiteBoy. Honestly, it doesn’t get easier. I see little reminders around the house of them and the hurt surfaces. I cry and talk to them telling them how much I miss them, until finally the tears stop. My heart hurts always, I think I just figured out how to cope, survive but not get over them being gone.
    Hope everyone is doing well.

    • Oh Amanda, I am sorry. One thing we encourage is to celebrate birth and adoption dates, not only remembering the date we said goodbye. Perhaps you can try that. An exercise we use is to recall at least one fun or funny thing from our times rogether when the tears take over. Talk with us about your babies with our kind, understanding group meeting on April 20th. And keep sharing with us here. Sending you {HUGS} Toni