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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
She looks like a little doll. She, and you, were so lucky to have each other. Thank you for the picture of Gracie May. How are you doing, Tamara? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
I am so sorry, Martha. What a sweet and pretty girl. I am sure you are hurting and hope you smile with her memories. How long were you and Missy together? What breed/s was she?-
Missy had been with me from 10 weeks until 10 1/2 years. She was a Maltese. She and het brother were born at my brother and SIL’s. My late SIL was her breeder. They were the lady litter to be born before my SIL passed.-
Oh dear Martha, I am sorry for both losses – your SIL and Missy. Now that you tell us she was a Maltese, I see it. How darling. I hope you allow yourself to grieve at your own pace, and please feel comfortable sharing your feelings with us. There are no timelines on healing. We’re thinking of you…….
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Thank you. Some days I think I am doing fairly well but other days I am a wreck.
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Martha, it’s only been a few weeks since you and Missy parted. Of course you are feeling sad – you are mourning, and it takes as long as it takes to find smiles before tears. We’re thinking of you. Stay with us and let us know how you are.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
OMG – that face! Too cute :-). Thanks for the smiles…. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Mary, that is a lot to lose almost exactly a year apart for three years. I understand how you must be walking through a fog of grief. I will share a story I haven’t thought of in years, and maybe we can make some sense of Gizmo’s passing: I had 3 cats and one was just a kitten who would not go outside. I had to pick her up and take her out. One night, one of the other cats walked in through the sliding door I held open for her and the kitten jumped over that cat – something she never, ever did. Ever. She did not go outside. When the kitten didn’t come in after a few minutes, I sent the other cat to find her and she came back to the door and I knew …. the kitten had been hit and killed. I have always wondered if the kitten was somehow compelled to not only go out that night, but to actually jump over the back of the other cat to do so. We’ll never know about my kitten, or your Gizmo, but maybe there are reasons why these tragedies happen to our little innocents….I don’t know, but I am very sad and sorry for your losses. And Thank You for being so kind and generous by opening your home and heart to more new loves. Please, let us know how you are coming along. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Awwww….what a darling girl. And tolerant (the tutu and crown!) :-). My toothless black cat is soon to be 17 1/2 and I know that’s a nice, long, (spoiled) life, but when she goes I am going to feel the bite of loss mixed with the joy of love. But, like you, I wouldn’t trade our time together. Please share your own support, sympathies and encouragement with anyone in our Community who touches you. It means a lot to hear from other bereaved pet lovers. I look forward to hearing how you are doing. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Tara, I don’t think four or five months is very long to mourn, and hope you will be kind to yourself. We have resources to help you if you like: our grief counselor (click the box on the upper right side to contact him directly), and two books: “Griffin’s Heart” – part supportive book, part journaling for your feelings, and a digital book – “101 Ways to Help Your Heart Heal after Pet Loss” you can download. They are in our Shop. Of course, we are here for you to share with, too, and understand. Sending you a HUG. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
She sure was a tough little cookie! Cockapoos are so cute. We’re excited to see her pictures. Simply click the camera icon in the lower left of the ‘comment’ box. Oh gosh, her passing is so recent, you must still be grieving. In our minds, intellectually, we know 15 years is a full life, but in our hearts, emotionally, it’s a terrible blow that takes moving through in our own time. We’re here for you. I’m sending you a HUG. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
What a nice long time you had together. Yes, it’s a relief and release when they are suffering and get to rest. It’s really hard on us to say goodbye, but we, and they, know our pets are only “on loan” to us and we find joy in having shared our lives with them. To add photos just click the camera icon on the bottom left of this ‘comment’ area. And please feel welcome to share your stories about your poodles, too. It sounds as if you are doing okay, and I hope that’s true. Do you have pets now? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Sherylle, I am sorry for your losses. It’s nice to remember them each with a candle. Simply click our logo on the top of the page and add them. If you’d like to share some photos of them, click the camera icon in the ‘comment’ box on this page. We’d love to hear about them, and if you would like to share your support with others in our community, that’s nice, too. -
Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
@mommaw Zoe Rose is such a pretty name. Will you tell us about her, please? May we see some pictures?
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Thank you, Toni. Yes, her name suited her perfectly. She was a little 11 pound Cockapoo that was in our lives for 15 wonderful years. We had to say goodbye to her on August 6, so it’s still very painful. Over the years, she suffered with IVDD, glaucoma, and pulmonary hypertension. She was a tough little cookie, though, and always had love to give. Where do I post a picture or 2?
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She sure was a tough little cookie! Cockapoos are so cute. We’re excited to see her pictures. Simply click the camera icon in the lower left of the ‘comment’ box. Oh gosh, her passing is so recent, you must still be grieving. In our minds, intellectually, we know 15 years is a full life, but in our hearts, emotionally, it’s a terrible blow that takes moving through in our own time. We’re here for you. I’m sending you a HUG.
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Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
@tara Hi Tara. I am sorry to hear of your parting from Grim. What type of pet was Grim? How long were you together? How are you doing?
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Grim was an 11 year old border collie mix. We had him since he was about 9 weeks old. He passed in April. He was always so excited to see us when we came home. He had so much personality and always made us smile. His death consumes my thoughts. It’s been 4 months and I can’t get past it.
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Oh Tara, I don’t think four or five months is very long to mourn, and hope you will be kind to yourself. We have resources to help you if you like: our grief counselor (click the box on the upper right side to contact him directly), and two books: “Griffin’s Heart” – part supportive book, part journaling for your feelings, and a digital book – “101 Ways to Help Your Heart Heal after Pet Loss” you can download. They are in our Shop. Of course, we are here for you to share with, too, and understand. Sending you a HUG.
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Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
@tammac60 Hello Tamara, and welcome to our caring community. I am sorry for your loss of Gracie and hope you will share some stories about your lives together, and some photos, too. Are you doing okay?
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Thank you for your kind words. Gracie had been with me since she was 8 wks. She battled CHF for 2 1/2 yrs & at age 15 yr 2 mths she was ready to go. She was so funny, spunky, a big talker & such a joy. Where do I go to add photos of her & my 2 other poodles who gained their wings? Thanks-
What a nice long time you had together. Yes, it’s a relief and release when they are suffering and get to rest. It’s really hard on us to say goodbye, but we, and they, know our pets are only “on loan” to us and we find joy in having shared our lives with them. To add photos just click the camera icon on the bottom left of this ‘comment’ area. And please feel welcome to share your stories about your poodles, too. It sounds as if you are doing okay, and I hope that’s true. Do you have pets now?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
That is a lot of loss and grief Bobby. Would you find it helpful to speak with our grief counselor who serves our community to help navigate your pain? You can find out about him by clicking the box at the top right of this page. The kind, caring people in our community understand the depth of pain and are here for you. Please share your feelings if you like – it helps to express yourself in a safe place. I will be thinking of you and hoping you find some joy each day. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Jan, just click the little camera icon on the lower left of the “comment” box to upload photos. We’d love to see your Sabaka. Oh boy, the guilty feelings are so hard to deal with. I think almost everyone who has made the decision to provide a peaceful exit for their beloved pet has wrestled with guilt in some way. Perhaps it’s because we don’t want to say goodbye and continuing treatments and medicines can extend our time together, but for whose benefit – ours or theirs? As a Vet tech, you know, intellectually, the most generous and loving act of kindness is to allow our beloved furry friends to pass comfortably and not have to endure pain or extreme discomfort. Emotionally, it’s a whole different story – the depth of our love and feelings, the emptiness and finality of parting, are tremendously strong and can override the ‘thinking’ part of us. You acted in her best interest and I must believe she appreciates your selflessness in helping her along. You get to grieve as long as it takes, and I hope you recognize the graciousness of your act of love for Sabaka. We are here for you. Please let us know how you are coming along. I’ll be looking for your pictures. Sending you heartfelt HUGS. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Valerie, of course you are still grieving. It was a tragic, terrible thing that happened, and just shocking. It’s no wonder you are reeling. One of our community members is finding the book “Griffin’s Heart” a help. It’s part book, part journal. Perhaps you would also find it helpful. It’s in our Shop. We are here to support you in any way – keep sharing your feelings. I think joy shared is joy doubled, grief shared is grief halved. I hope knowing we care helps a bit. HUGS, Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Kathy, do I understand that Prince just passed last week, or is he still with you? He looks so sweet in this photo. Sending you hugs. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
My goodness, Laura! What a fun bunch of furry friends you have. Your black kitty looks like mine :-). Thank you for sharing. Are they all still with you? Will you tell us about them? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
That’s a great picture, Kathy. Prince looks like a happy fellow, and a little sassy 🙂-
Kathy, do I understand that Prince just passed last week, or is he still with you? He looks so sweet in this photo. Sending you hugs.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
I’m so sorry, Stephen. It’s only been about six months since Ariel passed, hasn’t it? That’s not overly long to feel deep grief. How is little Leo doing? Leo can’t replace the love and missing you have for Ariel, but I’m sure he helps bring you joy. Let us know how you are coming along, Stephen, and update us on Leo. Hugs-
Yes you are right.I give Leo all the love and attention now.He helps me slot.We love him so.
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Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
@cleasiakohler Hello Cleasia. Welcome to our community. What type of pet was Fabio? I am sorry for your loss and hope you are doing okay – are you? May was see some pictures and here about Fabio?
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Hello, My baby Fabio was a long haired chihuahua, blondeish color hair and weighed 11 pounds.
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