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Dolly posted an update 5 years, 4 months ago
Hello I’m doing a little better but I’m still having a hard time not having midnight with me I feel like I’m just going through the motions of life I don’t feel any joy at all
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Well, right now maybe you are not supposed to feel joy. Deep grief and loss over run most other feelings so it is important that you go straight through those. I promise you – there is a time you will find smiles before tears. When that comes is not scheduled. It evolves. So Dolly, move through the motions as well as you can, with grace and kindness to yourself. Midnight would be wishing you the joyful memories of your lives together and wanting you to be happy for those times. But, it hurts, I know. I am shedding tears for you, Dolly. Not for your lives together, but for your parting. I wish I could hug you, so instead, here is a virtual HUG…. -
Thank you Toni your words help so much just knowing I have support from someone that understands
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Dolly, I do understand and know most of us in our community do …. this is a depth of loss that cuts deep and long. But we all know, in our heads, the love we shared is timeless. And some day we will have smiles before tears. It’s getting there that is so very hard.
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