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Autumn's mom Betsy added 4 media 2 years, 11 months ago
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Autumn's mom Betsy posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Christie, of course you are in deep pain, a pain like no other. It hurts at a cellular, soulful level, doesn’t it? 💔 Do you think that is because you and your baby shared so much love, joy and fun, and a unique relationship, that the pain of parting is made that much more acute? May I ask how long you were together? How old was this little darling? Was it unexpected? Please tell us more, Christie. And please jin our online kind, understanding group Nov. 16th to talk about everyting. We are here for you with empathy and {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni
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Christie posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
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Christie, of course you are in deep pain, a pain like no other. It hurts at a cellular, soulful level, doesn’t it? 💔 Do you think that is because you and your baby shared so much love, joy and fun, and a unique relationship, that the pain of parting is made that much more acute? May I ask how long you were together? How old was this little darling? Was it unexpected? Please tell us more, Christie. And please jin our online kind, understanding group Nov. 16th to talk about everyting. We are here for you with empathy and {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni
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Colby was 13 years old and we have been his family since he was born. He was a mommas boy and he was always with me. Colby started having seizures on 10-29 and the emergency vet tried to stop them but was unsuccessful so we had to let Colby go. It was the hardest thing we have ever had to do. It’s been 7 days and I am still struggling with Colby not being here. He was my baby. We miss him so much.
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Christie, that is so very hard – to see our babies falter and suffer. The morning my girl had her second seizure I took her in and we said goodbye. I felt “good” about her peacefully passing rather than falling from another seizure, but the pain of coming home to an empty house knowing she was never going to be here again, that is brutal. The pain is deep and we have to go through it. It’s sort of the payment we make for our years of love and joy together. You gave Colby the most selfless, generous and kind gift – release and relief. 💔Sometimes I think we wait too long to help them because we can’t stand the idea of saying goodbye. You love Colby enough to think only of his best interest. I hope you will join our group meeting Nov. 16th – it is good to share your story and we are here for you, Christie. With my deepest sympathy, Toni.
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Toni thank you for your kind words. I wouldn’t have wanted Colby to suffer and we did what we had to do but it is still hard not having him here. I miss him so much but I know he is healed and not suffering. I will try to be apart of the meetings. I know I would feel better sharing my story.
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Christie, it is such a mess of emotions and thoughts – in our heads we know we did the best for our beloved, but our heart and whole soul are bereaved. Please do join us if you can. I will be thinking of you. Toni
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Christie, I am so, so sorry for your loss of Colby 💔 -
Thank you so much.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Laurie, How is Murphy? How are you holding up? I think of you every day, many times. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
@catmom31 Hello Sarah. I am so sorry for your loss of Tigger💔Are you okay? May we hear about Tigger, see some photos? Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Thank you 🤗I’m still a bit in shock 🤗 -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
I’m a mother! I officially adopted Mac today ❤️
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Brony posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
@graceface730 Hello Graciela, welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Gizmo and your lives together, and share some photos if you like. I am very sorry for your loss and hope you know we are here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
That is so very hard, Laurie. I know you love Murphy so much that you will do what is best for him. We are here for you. 🤗💔Toni -
Laurie posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Thank you Toni. Your words and kindness to all of use is a wonderful gift. Murphy has laryngeal paralysis which seems to get worse each day. I feel as if I am watching him suffocate to death. He was so playful and energetic just a week ago and now he’s a completely different dog. Again thank you for being here for me and others like me. ❤️ -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
What!? You have a baby? 🤗Kathy, you must tell us more, and PLEASE, share pictures!
Thank you for your kind wishes for Mac and me. He got neutered today and I officially adopt him tomorrow. I will keep everyone updated and hope YOU keep us updated about Milo!! ❤️ -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Oh Laurie. In a way, anticipating the loss of Murphy will be worse than the day you actually say goodbye, because you are seeing his decline and struggles. When he is peacefully at rest, I think you will feel better for his sake. You will be devastated, but you already are now. I share your grief. I have seen my beloveds falter and fail, and the day we say goodbye is a good day. Walking in your home will be a terrible thing and I hope you will reach out to us at that time. May I ask you this: for the many years of love and fun you and Murphy shared, would you trade it? Even though we know, in our heads, that one day we will have to part, we willingly and happily enter into a relationship that we know will bring sadness. In our hearts, we can find joy in the years we shared, and you know Murphy lived his best life with you, don’t you? Laurie, I am truly so very sorry you and Murphy are at this phase of your lifelong, loving relationship, and I hope you can pull forth the many, many wonderful joys you shared. Please, join our group meeting November 16th to talk about Murphy and let us know how you are doing. We are here for you💔Toni -
Laurie posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
Having extreme anticipatory grief for my 14 year old pug, Murphy. He is the light of my life and he’s slowing down more and more each day. And he’s not eating well. It makes me so sad.-
Oh Laurie. In a way, anticipating the loss of Murphy will be worse than the day you actually say goodbye, because you are seeing his decline and struggles. When he is peacefully at rest, I think you will feel better for his sake. You will be devastated, but you already are now. I share your grief. I have seen my beloveds falter and fail, and the day we say goodbye is a good day. Walking in your home will be a terrible thing and I hope you will reach out to us at that time. May I ask you this: for the many years of love and fun you and Murphy shared, would you trade it? Even though we know, in our heads, that one day we will have to part, we willingly and happily enter into a relationship that we know will bring sadness. In our hearts, we can find joy in the years we shared, and you know Murphy lived his best life with you, don’t you? Laurie, I am truly so very sorry you and Murphy are at this phase of your lifelong, loving relationship, and I hope you can pull forth the many, many wonderful joys you shared. Please, join our group meeting November 16th to talk about Murphy and let us know how you are doing. We are here for you💔Toni
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Thank you Toni. Your words and kindness to all of use is a wonderful gift. Murphy has laryngeal paralysis which seems to get worse each day. I feel as if I am watching him suffocate to death. He was so playful and energetic just a week ago and now he’s a completely different dog. Again thank you for being here for me and others like me. ❤️
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That is so very hard, Laurie. I know you love Murphy so much that you will do what is best for him. We are here for you. 🤗💔Toni
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Laurie, How is Murphy? How are you holding up? I think of you every day, many times. Toni
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Kathy posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago
I brought home Milo 2 days ago. He was listed a stray. He is 2.5 years old, beautiful Tuxedo with a personality to match. I just love him to pieces!
Toni, Mac is adorable. I hope you both enjoy each other for many years!-
What!? You have a baby? 🤗Kathy, you must tell us more, and PLEASE, share pictures!
Thank you for your kind wishes for Mac and me. He got neutered today and I officially adopt him tomorrow. I will keep everyone updated and hope YOU keep us updated about Milo!! ❤️
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Diane posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Adorable!
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This song makes me cry because I miss my cat Autumn mom beautiful baby girl