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Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
I am heartbroken for the decision I have to make,and I wonder if she knows because she keeps putting her face into mine,something she’s never done before.Her appointment is on the 7th of September.I have to do this.This is heartbreaking.Thank you for asking Toni.-
Years ago, my 19 year old was failing and I took her to a hospital on a Friday night (this was before in-home euthanasia was available) and told them it was time. They said she just needed antibiotics. Well, I still resent that poor little Squirt had to live that last week – she was miserable, suffering, and it wasn’t in her best interest to keep going. Exactly one week later she was bleeding from every orifice, her heart was jumping out of her chest, and I took her to her own vet and gave her relief from her suffering. She probably knew, and I am certain she was grateful. We are the ones left behind to grieve the loss but I truly believe they think we’re being silly and want us to be happy for the lives we shared. Which we will be once we move through the pain and indeed, heartbreak of parting. She’s probably letting you know it’s okay and trying to comfort, and thank you. We’ll be here.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Dianne, How are you? How is your girl? Are you taking her this week, or will you say goodbye at home? We’re here, Dianne. Please know in your heart this is for HER, not you – a generous kindness and an act of love. HUGS HUGS HUGS-
I am heartbroken for the decision I have to make,and I wonder if she knows because she keeps putting her face into mine,something she’s never done before.Her appointment is on the 7th of September.I have to do this.This is heartbreaking.Thank you for asking Toni.
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Years ago, my 19 year old was failing and I took her to a hospital on a Friday night (this was before in-home euthanasia was available) and told them it was time. They said she just needed antibiotics. Well, I still resent that poor little Squirt had to live that last week – she was miserable, suffering, and it wasn’t in her best interest to keep going. Exactly one week later she was bleeding from every orifice, her heart was jumping out of her chest, and I took her to her own vet and gave her relief from her suffering. She probably knew, and I am certain she was grateful. We are the ones left behind to grieve the loss but I truly believe they think we’re being silly and want us to be happy for the lives we shared. Which we will be once we move through the pain and indeed, heartbreak of parting. She’s probably letting you know it’s okay and trying to comfort, and thank you. We’ll be here.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Donna, it’s so nice to hear from you. How is your back? Hobbes, Tipper, Duffy – all your loves… do you have any others now? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Four weeks?! Wow, that’s young. Will you tell us about how you met Mandy? Of course no one will ‘replace’ Mindy. Nor should they. But how generous and kind of you to open your home and heart to a new love – Mandy. That’s so wonderful for you both. Mindy will always be your love, and I hope you have smiles when you think of her. We’d love to see them both – Mindy, and Mandy, and hope you will share your growing up with Mandy with us 🙂-
Mandy is 4 months old now and growing
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Oh gawd, Lori – how powerful to have so much big loss in a short period, or any amount of time. I am so sorry to hear this. How are you holding up? -
Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
@bpadgett Hi Beth. I am so sorry for your loss of Diesel. How are you doing? Will you tell us about Diesel and your lives together? Maybe share some pictures?
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Donna posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
Nothing much just going through everday
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Donna, it’s so nice to hear from you. How is your back? Hobbes, Tipper, Duffy – all your loves… do you have any others now?
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Lori posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
Just going day by day my brother passed away 3 weeks ago and the following Saturday we had to put his dog down
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Oh gawd, Lori – how powerful to have so much big loss in a short period, or any amount of time. I am so sorry to hear this. How are you holding up?
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Sandra posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
Well I got a new puppy and she is a Shepard mix got her when she was 4 weeks old I really rescue her her name is Mandy in remembrance of my Mindy she will never replace my Mindy no one can I miss her every single day
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Four weeks?! Wow, that’s young. Will you tell us about how you met Mandy? Of course no one will ‘replace’ Mindy. Nor should they. But how generous and kind of you to open your home and heart to a new love – Mandy. That’s so wonderful for you both. Mindy will always be your love, and I hope you have smiles when you think of her. We’d love to see them both – Mindy, and Mandy, and hope you will share your growing up with Mandy with us 🙂
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Mandy is 4 months old now and growing
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Denise posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
I am so sorry Diane. But you You will know when it is time to let her go. She has had a long wonderful life and knows that she has been loved. Cherish the many memories you have. -
Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Susan, THANK YOU for this list of Pet Preparedness. It especially pleases me because we offer Pet Power of Attorney and Pet Trusts through our relationship with our friends at Gentreo, with a discount. We ALL need to prepare for our pets’ care, not just in times of imminent emergencies and storms, but if something happens to us and we can’t provide care for them. Thank you so much for your wonderful posts. Keep ’em coming 🙂 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Dianne, I wouldn’t mention this but think it may help you: My mother had ALS and desperately wanted relief from it. Human euthanasia was not legal so my sister and I couldn’t help ease her way and grant her a peaceful exit, for which she would have been grateful. So no, if anything, your selflessness is a gift to your girl, for which she will be grateful, and will always love you.-
Thank you Toni.
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Susan posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
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Susan, THANK YOU for this list of Pet Preparedness. It especially pleases me because we offer Pet Power of Attorney and Pet Trusts through our relationship with our friends at Gentreo, with a discount. We ALL need to prepare for our pets’ care, not just in times of imminent emergencies and storms, but if something happens to us and we can’t provide care for them. Thank you so much for your wonderful posts. Keep ’em coming 🙂
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Maria, I am glad you got your pictures up. (It’s the camera icon on the bottom left of the “What’s New” box). I don’t know what ‘double paws’ are – will you tell us, please? What handsome boys. They look very happy in the photos. I am sorry for your parting from Moulin. . How is Maxwell dealing with this? Let us know how you are doing.-
Moulin had ‘thumbs’ … Maxwell is doing ok but I’m sure he misses his big brother. When it first happened, Max looked for Mou for a week or do after, but seems to have gotten on with life. I miss Mou every single day he’s gone. Thank you for the care and concern you show us all.
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I’m glad to hear Maxwell is adapting. I think animals understand and accept the naturalness of the end of life better than we do – but how can we know? Our pets are our babies, dependent on us for support in many ways, and we upon them for their love and friendship and overall cuteness, so when we part, it really leaves a hole not only in our hearts, but our everyday lives – do you think? Maria, are you finding smiles more often now when you think of Moulin? May I ask how he got his name? It’s very cool. And Thank You for being a caring part of our community. If you read some posts that move you to share your support, I hope you will – it’s why we are here 🙂
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Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
She actually looks anorexic.Her food dish is full.I have had her since she was a 7 week ball of fluff.She isn’t wanting to eat.I have tried my best to adjust her foods.Still no interest.So yes,I have to do what’s best.I just worry that she won’t hate me for what I am going to do.-
Dianne, I wouldn’t mention this but think it may help you: My mother had ALS and desperately wanted relief from it. Human euthanasia was not legal so my sister and I couldn’t help ease her way and grant her a peaceful exit, for which she would have been grateful. So no, if anything, your selflessness is a gift to your girl, for which she will be grateful, and will always love you.
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Thank you Toni.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Reagan says it beautifully. The decision to do what’s best for her is the ultimate act of kindness and generosity, even while it breaks your own heart. It sounds as if she is choosing not to eat – a sign that her system is shutting down, just as in humans. If that was not the case, I’d send you to our friends at http://www.waggle.org to seek financial support. They help pay vet bills when needed. But it seems like your baby is ready to go. What a loving, long life you shared – we can’t ask for, or offer more. You are loving and caring, Dianne. We’re here for you to let us know how you are. HUGS, HUGS, HUGS-
She actually looks anorexic.Her food dish is full.I have had her since she was a 7 week ball of fluff.She isn’t wanting to eat.I have tried my best to adjust her foods.Still no interest.So yes,I have to do what’s best.I just worry that she won’t hate me for what I am going to do.
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Dianne, I wouldn’t mention this but think it may help you: My mother had ALS and desperately wanted relief from it. Human euthanasia was not legal so my sister and I couldn’t help ease her way and grant her a peaceful exit, for which she would have been grateful. So no, if anything, your selflessness is a gift to your girl, for which she will be grateful, and will always love you.
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Thank you Toni.
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Terrilynn posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
so adorable!
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Terrilynn posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
hugs Dianne – been there a few times … you are doing what is best for your fur baby …. hugs! -
Maria posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
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Maria, I am glad you got your pictures up. (It’s the camera icon on the bottom left of the “What’s New” box). I don’t know what ‘double paws’ are – will you tell us, please? What handsome boys. They look very happy in the photos. I am sorry for your parting from Moulin. . How is Maxwell dealing with this? Let us know how you are doing.
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Moulin had ‘thumbs’ … Maxwell is doing ok but I’m sure he misses his big brother. When it first happened, Max looked for Mou for a week or do after, but seems to have gotten on with life. I miss Mou every single day he’s gone. Thank you for the care and concern you show us all.
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I’m glad to hear Maxwell is adapting. I think animals understand and accept the naturalness of the end of life better than we do – but how can we know? Our pets are our babies, dependent on us for support in many ways, and we upon them for their love and friendship and overall cuteness, so when we part, it really leaves a hole not only in our hearts, but our everyday lives – do you think? Maria, are you finding smiles more often now when you think of Moulin? May I ask how he got his name? It’s very cool. And Thank You for being a caring part of our community. If you read some posts that move you to share your support, I hope you will – it’s why we are here 🙂
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