• Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

    @raidynsmom Hello Pat, and welcome to our caring community. I am very sorry for your loss of Raidyn. We’d love to hear about your lives together and see some photos if you like. How are you doing?

  • Linda posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    PRAYERS. I know my Tiger wasn’t a dog but was so much loved as a cat & he adopted me & we were together for 9 lovely yrs. I had to put him to sleep Dec. 2020.
    • Cody posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

      Thinking about you ❤️
      • Toni posted an update in the group Group logo of RememberRemember 4 years, 6 months ago

        I lost my baby Colt just 2 days ago. I rescued him from an abusive owner about 10 yrs ago. He was terrified of everything when I got him but became very comfortable once he knew he was safe and loved. He was so mellow and loved everyone but very protective of me, my grandkids and our home. Our home is so empty now without him but I know in my heart he is in a better place and free from pain and playing with his new friends across the Rainbow Bridge. He had a good life and brought so much joy to our lives. Until we meet again my sweet boy.. you\’ll always be in my heart ❤️
        • Thinking about you ❤️
          • PRAYERS. I know my Tiger wasn’t a dog but was so much loved as a cat & he adopted me & we were together for 9 lovely yrs. I had to put him to sleep Dec. 2020.
            • Toni, I am so happy you think of the good parts and times with Colt. Even when it’s the right time to say goodbye, it does indeed leave an emptiness. What a handsome boy Colt was, and how good for you both to find each other. I lost my darling old girl in February, and quite unexpectedly now have a young, healthy, active boy – that has certainly filled the emptiness, and eased my grief. Perhaps one day you’ll want to open your home and heart to another. Please, scroll through the posts here and share you support with others. It really does mean so much to know we care. I look forward to hearing more from you, and about Colt.
              • .so sorry for ur loss. COLT was a beautiful doggie…
                I lost my Baxterboo 0n 5/22…its horrible being here without him
              • Dianne posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                Hi Toni.
                I am doing the best that I can,with what I have.
                The vet office that my family uses,says they won’t be able to see her since she’s over 9 years old.I was actually shocked.Princess turned 12 on the 5th.I have an appointment for her but I am quite worried about her.
                But, I will post updates from her vet appointment in two weeks,if I am able to get a ride.That is my big problem.Not being able to drive anymore and not having a ride.
                Thank you.
                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                  Dianne, you are doing what you can for her. I’m not sure why a vet wouldn’t see an older pet – that’s new to me. Let us know what you find out. And let’s hope it’s good news ! We’ll be waiting to hear.
                  • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                    @sadiemay17 Helllo Virla. Please tell us about your pets and your lives together. How are you doing?

                  • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                    @kenipela05 Hi Jen, and welcome to our caring community. I am sorry for your loss of Sarah. Will you tell us about her, and let us know how you are doing? Okay, I hope.

                  • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                    @raidynsmom Hello Pat. I am sorry for your parting from Raidyn. How are you holding up? What a unique name – does it have a special meaning? What kind of pet was Raidyn? May we hear about your lives together, see some photos?

                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                    Glenda, it’s so hard to read this because I said goodbye to my girl in February (she was almost 18) and there is such an emptiness after so many wonderful times together. It’s a shame our pets are only “on loan” to us but in your head you know she lived a full life – in you heart there is never enough time together. Do you have other cats with you now? If so, I hope they are helping you, and you are helping them through their grief, too. Bubbles was fortunate to be healthy and not suffering. And you are fortunate to have such a special love. It hurts from a place deep within, and it takes time for the happy memories to supersede the pain of parting, but you will find smiles before tears. It’s cute that she liked vegetables – my dad always said “we like vegetables, why wouldn’t they?”. It’s heartbreaking to come home and not have her there to greet you. – my girl was always there and gave me loving when I came in. That’s a hard blow and I am just so sorry you are going through this. But, we are here for you and want to hear from you soon and often to let us know how you are coming along. (I had a minor surgery this week and couldn’t respond to you sooner, but will now when you next write). Know I am thinking of you. Toni
                    • Dianne posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                      I called so many veterinarian offices to see if I can get an appointment for my dog,who will be 12 years old Friday.
                      One vet office I called,because they were a low cost vet clinic,told me they would not see her because she is over 9 years old.To be honest, I didn\’t think they could refuse her because she is almost 12,and I have never heard of that.
                      Anyway,I have an appointment soon.Now please don\’t ask me why I didn\’t bring her to a vet earlier.
                      I don\’t drive anymore and don\’t have anyone to help me…well I sort of do,but they have one vehicle each,and they work.So see my issue.
                      Someone suggested Waggle.I don\’t really have social media,so I can\’t do a fundraiser.I am not sure how or what to do for my little best friend.I will post a photo of my little best friend.
                      • Dianne, you are doing what you can for her. I’m not sure why a vet wouldn’t see an older pet – that’s new to me. Let us know what you find out. And let’s hope it’s good news ! We’ll be waiting to hear.
                        • Hi Toni.
                          I am doing the best that I can,with what I have.
                          The vet office that my family uses,says they won’t be able to see her since she’s over 9 years old.I was actually shocked.Princess turned 12 on the 5th.I have an appointment for her but I am quite worried about her.
                          But, I will post updates from her vet appointment in two weeks,if I am able to get a ride.That is my big problem.Not being able to drive anymore and not having a ride.
                          Thank you.
                        • Glenda posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                          It’s been a while since I have been here, but I always read the newsletter you send. Yesterday my beloved Bubbles passed away. After 17 years of being together, I am lost. She never acted sick or like she was in pain. She was always running from one end of the house to another, jumping up the air and turning around. I always said she acted more like a kitten than a17 year cat. She loved to eat…pickles, onions, tomatoes plus her regular cat food. My cats have never tried to steal food from me but if something fell in the floor Bubbles would have it eaten before it hit. It will take a while before I get used to her not being here. She was always waiting for me when I opened the door and would look at me lovingly when I kissed her bye on the way out. I am deeply heartbroken.

                          • Glenda, it’s so hard to read this because I said goodbye to my girl in February (she was almost 18) and there is such an emptiness after so many wonderful times together. It’s a shame our pets are only “on loan” to us but in your head you know she lived a full life – in you heart there is never enough time together. Do you have other cats with you now? If so, I hope they are helping you, and you are helping them through their grief, too. Bubbles was fortunate to be healthy and not suffering. And you are fortunate to have such a special love. It hurts from a place deep within, and it takes time for the happy memories to supersede the pain of parting, but you will find smiles before tears. It’s cute that she liked vegetables – my dad always said “we like vegetables, why wouldn’t they?”. It’s heartbreaking to come home and not have her there to greet you. – my girl was always there and gave me loving when I came in. That’s a hard blow and I am just so sorry you are going through this. But, we are here for you and want to hear from you soon and often to let us know how you are coming along. (I had a minor surgery this week and couldn’t respond to you sooner, but will now when you next write). Know I am thinking of you. Toni
                            • Yes, I have 3 more cats, Kissinger, Thomas and Tubby. Kissinger is 14, Thomas 11 and Tubby is 9. Kissinger and Bubbles were very close, and he still acts like he is looking for her, they have been a major comfort to me. Thomas has taken up door duty, he is always waiting when I open the door now and we are trying to adjust, it is extremely hard to do after so many years. I have said that after they are gone, I don’t want any more but can’t imagine life without a cat, it would be very lonely with a fur baby. Just after losing so many, I just don’t know if I can or want to go through this loss anymore. It is a shame that we only have so long with them, but at the same time I worry what would happen to them should something happen to me. I have always loved all animals but especially cats, I have always had a cat in my life and the oldest one was a solid white cat named Lucky she lived to be 21 years old and at one time I had as many as 15 so I have gone through a lot of hurt, but it is something you never get used too. So sorry for your loss and I hope your surgery was a success. and you have recovered. Please take care of yourself and stay safe. Thank you again for your kind words of comfort and providing a site where everyone can post their love for their fur babies. Always, Glenda
                              • I am having problems posting, I have tried 3 times and it says that the post contains a inappropriate word. I have read and reread and can find nothing inappropriate.
                                • Sorry to hear you’re having issues, Glenda. I’m seeing your posts now. If it happens again, are you able to take a photo of the error and email it to [email protected]
                                  • Glenda, are you feeling a bit better? How is Kissinger doing now? You don’t have to anticipate the future of your “cat life” right now. I certainly understand not wanting to go through the terrible pain of loss, and at some point as we age, we have to decide if it’s fair to a pet for us to bring them into our homes. You’ll see how you feel when the time comes, which I hope is a long time from now. Let us know how you all are doing. Here’s a {{HUG}} for you all. Toni
                                    • Hi Glenda, I think I fixed your issue. See you around, Cody
                                      • Thanks so much for your kind words and the Hug, sure can use both. Sorry it’s been so long since I responded. I am adjusting to Bubbles not being here as is Kissinger. He never leaves my side and if Thomas should lay down next to me Kissinger crawls on top of him, so he can be touching me. Tubby isn’t close to anyone, she is very independent and prefers to stay to herself, though she loves to be snuggled, it’s when she wants to. I have been feeding a neighbor’s cat since they quit feeding it, it will not let me touch it and it runs until I have gotten back inside. Well, the other day I went out for the morning feeding and to my surprise, there was 3 kittens. I was excited and upset at the same time. I picked up one of them and it bit me, they have razor sharp little teeth so now I know I have 3 more mouths to feed, until I can find them a good home. They are adorable and I can remember a time when I would have said they had found their furever home but not now. I live in a small town, and we have one rescue, and they are full and not accepting anymore cats so that is not an option. Hopefully I will be able to post this without using any words deemed inappropriate this time. Wish me luck in finding the new babies a home and I will keep you posted. Thanks again for providing such a wonder site that lets people share their love of animals. They are family too. Always, Glenda
                                        • Have a Safe and Blessed Memorial Day Weekend. Always, Glenda
                                          • Glenda, 1. Our tech guy fixed the thing that was giving you trouble – it wasn’t you or what you said, it was something in our system. Sorry about that 🙁
                                            2. Shelters everywhere are overly full now and it’s just a desperate situation, so if you can keep the kittens and mother for awhile, you are an angel. To find more shelters, go the link below and enter your area, use the drop-down menu and click Animal Rescues & Shelters, or other pertinent areas. Maybe you can find a place to help. And some pet stores will let you present the kittens for adoption. Here’s the link:

                                            It’s been a while since I have been here, but I always read the newsletter you send. Yesterday my beloved Bubbles passed away. After 17 years of being together, I am lost. She never acted sick or like she was in pain. She was always running from one end of the house to another, jumping up the air and turning around. I always said she acted more like a kitten than a17 year cat. She loved to eat…pickles, onions, tomatoes plus her regular cat food. My cats have never tried to steal food from me but if something fell in the floor Bubbles would have it eaten before it hit. It will take a while before I get used to her not being here. She was always waiting for me when I opened the door and would look at me lovingly when I kissed her bye on the way out. I am deeply heartbroken.[Read more]– Glenda (@ghorton01) May 3, 2022


                                            3. I understand how you feel about Bubbles, having said goodbye to my beloved on Feb. 24th. But, thank goodness you have the others, and they you -what a difference it makes to have them in your world. I was taking care of Boots, a 1 1/2 year old (scroll through the posts and you can see some of his fun photos), and he went back to his lady this week. I cried for five nights and my home is empty. But, I am hoping he is happy and healthy, and am grateful for the healing he brought me. So Glenda, let yourself feel your grief for Bubbles, and treasure the time you have with your other faithful friends. And thank you for your update. Our community is here for us to share our happy, and sad times, and it means everything to hear from you. By the way, would you be interested in a video group visit once a month or so, to share stories and support? Let us know. I’m thinking of you all, with warm wishes. Toni

                                          • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                                            @coguy2011 Hi DJ, and welcome to our caring community. I am sorry for your loss of Mercedes. Will you tell us about your lives together, share some photos with us? Please let us know how you are doing.

                                          • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                                            @marlinnaf Hi and welcome to our caring community of pet lovers. Please tell us about your pets, share photos if you like, and let us know how you are doing.

                                          • Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

                                            @trailboss Hello Kathy. I am sorry for your losses of both Hannah and Shirley. Will you tell us about them, share some pictures? Are you doing okay? I hope so.

                                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                                            How nice of you to share, and care, Courtney.
                                            • Courtney Fros posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                                              😢 I hope your heart can be mended.
                                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                                                Susan, are you doing better today? Watch the video clip I posted a day ago – guaranteed to bring a smile.
                                                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

                                                  I hope you find comfort knowing he’s at peace. Probably chasing squirrels somewhere ……. Let us know how you are doing, Susan. {{HUG}}
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