• Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    Kristina, how are you and your family doing now?
    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

      That is so sad, Katherine. That’s a lot of loss and grief for you and I am so sorry. Shadow looks a bit like my BG (Beauty Girl) who died last year. You can see her in the Memorial tab. Please, come to our Group Meeting April 20th. You’ll get an email with the log in. And keep sharing with us here. We’re listening and caring. {HUGS}. Toni
      • Katherine posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

        This is my sweet Shadow he was only 3 years old when he crossed the rain bow berage, 7 months after my husband past in 2021.Sharow was a main coon snd very loving miss him.
        • That is so sad, Katherine. That’s a lot of loss and grief for you and I am so sorry. Shadow looks a bit like my BG (Beauty Girl) who died last year. You can see her in the Memorial tab. Please, come to our Group Meeting April 20th. You’ll get an email with the log in. And keep sharing with us here. We’re listening and caring. {HUGS}. Toni
        • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

          @dunner52 Hi Dorothy. Welcome to our caring community. What kind of pet was Cody? May we see some pictures and hear about him? It hurts, and you are here among friends who understand and support you. Toni

          • Hi Dorothy, all of us here know the pain of having to let them go. Let us know about Cody or show us a photo if it feels right. Talking about them helps a little bit in my experience. Sending good wishes!
          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

            @acasler Hello Angel. I am so sorry for your loss of Brodie. Tell us about your lives together and let us know how you are doing. Toni

            • Angel, this community is a bit like a shoulder to cry on. We know your pain. Talking about your loss gives a little bit of relief. It can’t take the pain away but you feel less alone with it. At least that’s my experience. I am sending good wishes to you.
            • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

              Today is the anniversary date of Diane meeting her darling Hemmingway – “Hemmy”. We are so sorry for your parting, but are delighted to celebrate such a happy day in your lives! Sending you {{HUGE HUGS}}. Toni

            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

              Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni
              • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

                @slcastellanos Hi Sandra. Please tell us about your baby, share photos if you like, and let us know how you are doing. Toni

              • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

                OUCH. Sad news. Darling little Walter\’s mass is fast growing. No surgery or chemo. I\’m watching him for weight loss, vomiting or discomfort. I\’m not surprised really, but am so very sad.
              • June posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                I’m so very sorry I hope your memories may bring you some comfort
                • Lëna posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                  Thank you, Toni.
                  • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

                    Thank you Sigrid, for your kind, caring, understanding support for those in our community. Your beautiful urns make loving final resting places that bring us comfort. Your words soothe and encourage us to look to the happy times we shared. We are so glad to have you with us. Toni

                  • Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                    Hi Amy, as Toni says there is no time line for grieving and we all need to do it in a way that works for us. There’s no advice really, I can just tell you what works for me: my cats past and present have a big space in my heart. They are safe there, I don’t need to worry about them and I do believe they are in a good place. I will never loose this feeling even though I can’t touch them anymore. But I can put my hand on my heart and remember how sweet they were and be grateful. I can think of the times when they were especially cute and funny and I feel love. Time will get you there. Sending good wishes!
                    • Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                      Hi Maryann, Penny looks like a sweet best friend! I don’t think that we ever “get over” losing someone like that. But thankfully time will help us get more at peace with the fact that they’re gone and make it possible for us to remember without crying all the wonderful times we had, the fun, the quirky things they did and what made them so special. There is a space in my heart just for my cats, all of them, and in that way they are with me forever, safe and sound.
                      • Kristina posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                        Thank you for your kind words. Means a lot!
                        • Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                          Kristina, from my own experience I know how that feels. You look for them in places where they used to be and should be. It is amazing how they change the feeling of the whole house. It will take time – I know that’s small comfort but eventually you’ll be able to think of him with more appreciation than grief. You’ll be able to remember all the good stuff you experienced together and will be somewhat at peace with the fact that he’s not there anymore. Good wishes to you and your family!
                          • Kristina posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

                            Today we bring Digger home. We lost him a week ago. Still feels like it’s not real. Today has been hard for the entire family. He is missed greatly.

                            • Kristina, from my own experience I know how that feels. You look for them in places where they used to be and should be. It is amazing how they change the feeling of the whole house. It will take time – I know that’s small comfort but eventually you’ll be able to think of him with more appreciation than grief. You’ll be able to remember all the good stuff you experienced together and will be somewhat at peace with the fact that he’s not there anymore. Good wishes to you and your family!
                              • Thank you for your kind words. Means a lot!
                                • Kristina, how are you and your family doing now?
                                • Maryann posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                                  Thank you Toni. I don’t think I will ever get over losing her. I had dogs all my life, all males but she was the first female dog I had. She was my best friend and I will mourn her for a long time.
                                  • Katherine posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

                                    I have lost 6 belvedere pets. Shadow was the 6the he was y big boy and he new he was loved. He was only 3 years old.

                                    • Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni
                                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

                                      Thinking of Penny, with love. You were wonderful to take her in and give her a loving life. I hope you find comfort in that. Toni
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