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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
@slcastellanos Hi Sandra. Please tell us about your baby, share photos if you like, and let us know how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
OUCH. Sad news. Darling little Walter\’s mass is fast growing. No surgery or chemo. I\’m watching him for weight loss, vomiting or discomfort. I\’m not surprised really, but am so very sad. -
June posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
I’m so very sorry I hope your memories may bring you some comfort -
Lëna posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
Thank you Sigrid, for your kind, caring, understanding support for those in our community. Your beautiful urns make loving final resting places that bring us comfort. Your words soothe and encourage us to look to the happy times we shared. We are so glad to have you with us. Toni
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Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Hi Amy, as Toni says there is no time line for grieving and we all need to do it in a way that works for us. There’s no advice really, I can just tell you what works for me: my cats past and present have a big space in my heart. They are safe there, I don’t need to worry about them and I do believe they are in a good place. I will never loose this feeling even though I can’t touch them anymore. But I can put my hand on my heart and remember how sweet they were and be grateful. I can think of the times when they were especially cute and funny and I feel love. Time will get you there. Sending good wishes! -
Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Hi Maryann, Penny looks like a sweet best friend! I don’t think that we ever “get over” losing someone like that. But thankfully time will help us get more at peace with the fact that they’re gone and make it possible for us to remember without crying all the wonderful times we had, the fun, the quirky things they did and what made them so special. There is a space in my heart just for my cats, all of them, and in that way they are with me forever, safe and sound. -
Kristina posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
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Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Kristina, from my own experience I know how that feels. You look for them in places where they used to be and should be. It is amazing how they change the feeling of the whole house. It will take time – I know that’s small comfort but eventually you’ll be able to think of him with more appreciation than grief. You’ll be able to remember all the good stuff you experienced together and will be somewhat at peace with the fact that he’s not there anymore. Good wishes to you and your family! -
Kristina posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
Today we bring Digger home. We lost him a week ago. Still feels like it’s not real. Today has been hard for the entire family. He is missed greatly.
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Kristina, from my own experience I know how that feels. You look for them in places where they used to be and should be. It is amazing how they change the feeling of the whole house. It will take time – I know that’s small comfort but eventually you’ll be able to think of him with more appreciation than grief. You’ll be able to remember all the good stuff you experienced together and will be somewhat at peace with the fact that he’s not there anymore. Good wishes to you and your family!
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Thank you for your kind words. Means a lot!
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Kristina, how are you and your family doing now?
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Maryann posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Thank you Toni. I don’t think I will ever get over losing her. I had dogs all my life, all males but she was the first female dog I had. She was my best friend and I will mourn her for a long time. -
Katherine posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
I have lost 6 belvedere pets. Shadow was the 6the he was y big boy and he new he was loved. He was only 3 years old.
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Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Thinking of Penny, with love. You were wonderful to take her in and give her a loving life. I hope you find comfort in that. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Amy, there is no time line for grieving and I am so sorry. You will always miss Chloe Bell but can you find some smiles in remembering the good times you and Chloe Bell shared? Have you tried writing a letter to her? Maybe write one from her to you? What do you think she would want you to know? Please come to our group meeting April 20th and talk with us. {HUGS} -
Amy posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
Today marks 6 months that you left and I know you’re in a better place but god do I miss you! It hasn’t gotten any better, My heart aches the same! I can’t wait till I’m with you again! Please keep a watch over me because I need it sweet Angel! Rip Chloe Bell 10-02-22-
Amy, there is no time line for grieving and I am so sorry. You will always miss Chloe Bell but can you find some smiles in remembering the good times you and Chloe Bell shared? Have you tried writing a letter to her? Maybe write one from her to you? What do you think she would want you to know? Please come to our group meeting April 20th and talk with us. {HUGS}
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Hi Amy, as Toni says there is no time line for grieving and we all need to do it in a way that works for us. There’s no advice really, I can just tell you what works for me: my cats past and present have a big space in my heart. They are safe there, I don’t need to worry about them and I do believe they are in a good place. I will never loose this feeling even though I can’t touch them anymore. But I can put my hand on my heart and remember how sweet they were and be grateful. I can think of the times when they were especially cute and funny and I feel love. Time will get you there. Sending good wishes!
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Maryann posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
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Thinking of Penny, with love. You were wonderful to take her in and give her a loving life. I hope you find comfort in that. Toni
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Thank you Toni. I don’t think I will ever get over losing her. I had dogs all my life, all males but she was the first female dog I had. She was my best friend and I will mourn her for a long time.
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Hi Maryann, Penny looks like a sweet best friend! I don’t think that we ever “get over” losing someone like that. But thankfully time will help us get more at peace with the fact that they’re gone and make it possible for us to remember without crying all the wonderful times we had, the fun, the quirky things they did and what made them so special. There is a space in my heart just for my cats, all of them, and in that way they are with me forever, safe and sound.
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I’m so very sorry I hope your memories may bring you some comfort
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It has been a little over a month now and I still cry and talk to her picture all the time and tell her how much I miss her. I know as time goes on hit will get easier but right now it is still raw.
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Maryann, how are you doing today?
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Toni I’m just so sad. Penny is gone 6 weeks now and I don’t think I will ever get over losing her. I had to make the decision to let her go and it was one of the hardest decisions I had to make. I jyst miss her terribly. She was my best friend.
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Hi Maryann, it’s Sigrid again. It takes a lot of time to heal. And I was wondering if you could pour the love you have for Penny into some cause that needs it, at a shelter for example or tending to feral cats in your neighborhood. I think in addition to missing Penny you also have no place or being to give your love to. It will not bring her back but you could dedicate your helpful activities to her, to honor her and to be grateful that she was in your life. This is no advice, just something I saw a neighbor do when her cat passed. She now takes good care of the feral cats around here, has them spayed or neutered, feeds them and finds homes for them. They would be lucky to have you.
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That’s a lovely idea but I am housebound and get around with a walker and wheelchair so that isn’t possible for me to do. Penny was the light in my life behind all the darkness that I experienced since May 2020. She has been gone 6 weeks and I miss her so much.
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Maryann: I feel your pain. The grife had no time limit ,just tak it one day at a time. My litte Shadow has bee gone for 1 year this month he was only 3 years 0ld 7 months after my loving husband passed. So my grief was doubled. But think of all the loving memories help some but still miss them both very much. Sorry you having such tough time. Maybe you could have someone send you photos of some adoption kitty’s, 0r dogs,than if you see one Maybe asked if they could bering the kitty to you or dog n just sn idea. Prays going out to you.
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
@krystiemarie Hi Krystie. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Bella. What kind of pet was she? How did you meet? Any and everything you’d like to share. And know we are sorry, and undertsand, and are here to support you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago
@mollymainesgmail-com Sueann, is this Bear? What a spectacular kitty. I am so sorry. Please tell us about your lives together. We’re here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago
Kristina, how are you doing? Toni - Load More
