• Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

    Lovetta, what a beautiful cat Mojo is! Did she have green eyes? How are you doing? I hope you have people around you who understand your grief and are able to listen. And there is a whole community of people here who can relate and are willing to help you through this. What did you like most about Mojo? What is your favorite memory of her? If you cannot talk about that yet I understand. But some day you will be able to remember her with love and without tears. I am sending good wishes!
    • Sigrid posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

      Elisabeth, I am sorry you lost Nicka! It is never long enough, is it? I would like to hear more about her and about your life with her. No matter how they leave us, because of illness or old age or an accident, it is heartbreak every time. Please tell us about her and keep her alive this way. It is hard to make the transition from grieving their death to feeling them inside of us and being able to talk about them without tears, remembering their whimsies and habits. I wish you the best!
      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

        Hello Brandy. Bella sure was a beauty. I am so very sorry for your loss. You must be raw, it is so recent. I hope you are finding some comfort with the memorial items. If you’d like to create a lasting memorial, you are welcome to post one in our Memorial area. And please join us June 15th at our group support meeting – it’s a kind group of sympathetic, understanding pet lovers. How long were you and Bella together? Please tell us about her, and your lives together. {{Toni}}
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

          Mara, how fortunate you and Sallt were to spend such a loving, long time together. In our heads we know our pets are only on loan to us, but in our hearts we ache when we say goodbye. It’s good you are honoring Sally with best memories of her. It helps take the sting away, a bit, and I hope helps you find joy with her memories. I am glad to have you in our community, although sad for the reason, and if you would find comfort in sharing your own sympathy and understanding with others here, that would be very kind of you. Perhaps you will come to our online group meeting June 15th and talk about Sally with us. Please keep us posted about how you are doing. {HUGS} Toni
          • Mara posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

            ,Thank you Toni for your beautiful words. It was almost 16 years that we had Sally by our side and her departure was very painful for us. I know that she is in a better place without pain and without suffering, but my heart misses her too much and I know that she will always be in my best memories of her.
              • Hello Brandy. Bella sure was a beauty. I am so very sorry for your loss. You must be raw, it is so recent. I hope you are finding some comfort with the memorial items. If you’d like to create a lasting memorial, you are welcome to post one in our Memorial area. And please join us June 15th at our group support meeting – it’s a kind group of sympathetic, understanding pet lovers. How long were you and Bella together? Please tell us about her, and your lives together. {{Toni}}
                • Awww….Beverly, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Bella. Losing our precious fur babies is so painful. I lost my boy almost 5 months ago and I am still grieving so hard, but, I am trying to cope. This grief is like no other and I am sending you hugs 🫂 to comfort you at this very sad time. I wish you peace.
                • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 5 months ago

                  Join our group support meetings each month on the third Thursday at 7 PM Eastern (4 PM Pacific). The schedule and Zoom links are on the right side of our Community page under “Events”.

                • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 5 months ago

                  @maraglez3180 Mara, I am so sorry for your loss of Sally. She sure is a cutie and we’d love to see more of her, and hear about her. Are you doing okay, not so good? Please let us know. We understand and care. Toni

                  • ,Thank you Toni for your beautiful words. It was almost 16 years that we had Sally by our side and her departure was very painful for us. I know that she is in a better place without pain and without suffering, but my heart misses her too much and I know that she will always be in my best memories of her.
                    • Mara, how fortunate you and Sallt were to spend such a loving, long time together. In our heads we know our pets are only on loan to us, but in our hearts we ache when we say goodbye. It’s good you are honoring Sally with best memories of her. It helps take the sting away, a bit, and I hope helps you find joy with her memories. I am glad to have you in our community, although sad for the reason, and if you would find comfort in sharing your own sympathy and understanding with others here, that would be very kind of you. Perhaps you will come to our online group meeting June 15th and talk about Sally with us. Please keep us posted about how you are doing. {HUGS} Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 5 months ago

                      @shelley1234 Shelley, I am sorry for your loss of Mandy and hope you are doing okay. How are you doing? Please tell us about Mandy and your lives. If you’d like to share some pictures, we love to see them. Sending you my sympathy and best wishes. Toni

                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 5 months ago

                      @yuvonne53gmail-com Welcome to our caring community, Yuvonne. Please tell us about Milo – what kind of pet was he; how you met … anything you’d like to share. Toni

                      • Yuvonne, behind every little memorial candle that gets lit is a story with a sad end. I am sorry you find yourself here but also glad that you reached out for help: there are people here willing to listen and help you mourn Milo. Talking about him is hard and sad but it also shows your love and appreciation and over time it will unburden your heavy heart. Tell us about Milo and make him known to us if you can. Best wishes to you!
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

                        Anna, this must be Rico ?? Wow, what a handsome fellow. How did you meet? How long were you together? I am sorry for your loss and hope you are holding up okay – are you? We’re here for you, and you are welcome to join our group meeting June 15th to share more with our kind, understanding group. Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

                          Is this Mojo, Lovetta? I am so sorry for your parting. May we hear about Mojo and your lives together?
                          • Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

                            Ashley, I am sorry for your loss of Mason. 😞 It sounds like he was such a good boy. I know this horrible pain you are going through, in fact, all of us here do and I want you to know that you are not alone.
                            Hugs 🫂 to you for peace and comfort.
                            • Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 5 months ago

                              Rebecca, I am so, so sorry for your loss 😞 From what I read, I see how loving and kind you have been to so many kitties, knowing full well that one day you would go through this horrible pain when they leave.
                              I lost my boy in January and am still grieving so hard. I don’t know how people can go through this heartache over and over again. But, I thank goodness for people like you who help these poor fur babies.
                              Sending you hugs 🫂 to comfort you at this very sad time. 💔
                              I wish you peace
                                • Anna, this must be Rico ?? Wow, what a handsome fellow. How did you meet? How long were you together? I am sorry for your loss and hope you are holding up okay – are you? We’re here for you, and you are welcome to join our group meeting June 15th to share more with our kind, understanding group. Toni
                                  • Is this Mojo, Lovetta? I am so sorry for your parting. May we hear about Mojo and your lives together?
                                    • Lovetta, what a beautiful cat Mojo is! Did she have green eyes? How are you doing? I hope you have people around you who understand your grief and are able to listen. And there is a whole community of people here who can relate and are willing to help you through this. What did you like most about Mojo? What is your favorite memory of her? If you cannot talk about that yet I understand. But some day you will be able to remember her with love and without tears. I am sending good wishes!
                                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 5 months ago

                                      @fancypants Maggie, your Angel got her wings. I am so sorry and hope you are doing okay – are you? May we hear about Angel and your lives together, see some pictures? Toni

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