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Ines posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
I miss my Hope so very much.
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Ines, it’s only been a few eeks since you and Hope said goodbye. You are crawling through ths tremendous pain of parting and it is a challenge – some moments you can smile with the good memories, others you can’t breathe through the sobs. Inch your way along with us. Every few hours each day, try to bring forth a good memory that mekas you happy. If you can get out in nature, or around people, do it. And keep sharing with us. We are here to listen and share. ((BIG HUGS) Toni -
Thank you so very much. I cannot get up from bed except to go to work. I will try to get up and go for a walk. My heart is completely broken. Miss my Hope every minute of the day.
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Ines, please come to our group meeting July 20th. You’ll find supportive, kind people there.
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Karen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
You aren’t alone. I lots my cat Sweetness 8 months ago, and I know it’s hard to lose a pet. I’m never going to get over Sweetness. It takes time .. there’s good days and bad days.. and it’s never easy. But things will eventually get better for you. Romeo will always be in heart . -
Karen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
She does look for Sweetness.. it took her 5 months to get back to her self again. She’s a happy healthy cat. She sleeps with me, and she’s very vocal . She does play with her nephew to a certain extent. I will post a pick of Fluffy. He has part coon in him. He had a hard time with Sweetness passed away and Smokey too.. Smokey was my boyfriends cat. He passed away 2 weeks after Sweetness passed away. ..
I feel like Sweetness is still around.. Tabby looks at the ceiling like she can see Sweetness spirit and Smokey too. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Toni, I know I’m welcome here, but, thank you for saying that. I try my best to be there for others whenever I can. I am a caretaker by nature and feel happiest when I have someone to take care of. Romeo was that for me these last 14.5 years and even though I knew he was aging, I didn’t expect him to die the way he did. There wasn’t time to react and he was gone before I realized what was happening. That’s not the way it was supposed to be. So, I think that is why I am still having a hard time. I am working on trying to get to a better place.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Brony, thank you so much for your kindness. I can’t believe the way I am feeling, even after 6 months of losing Romeo. I have been trying to keep my chin up and sometimes I seem to be on my way to getting better, but, then I crash. I am just having a hard time is all. I appreciate your willingness to help me find purpose. I just don’t have one, but, maybe, my purpose is me now to just go on each day and live. I guess I just have to accept that now I must find a way to do that alone.
Thank you so much, Brony, you are very sweet to care. ❤️
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Brony posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
Blessings are all around us. When I looked out the window I saw a turkey by herself. But behind her were 9 little babies about two inches high. They were adorable and what a proud mama.
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What a charming image you have given us, Brony. Being in nature or seeing animals is a healing force. It reminds us of all the other life out there. If you can snap a photo of the Turkeys, please share it with us. Now you have me worried about them come Thanksgiving time.
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I would love to snap a picture of the turkeys, but it’s way to hot this weekend, maybe it will cool down soon. There little feet would burn. It’s supposed to be 115 for a couple of days. As soon as I see them I’ll take a picture. Don’t worry about Thanksgiving, they are safe. They are wild turkeys and don’t taste good.
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Ouch…That’s just too hot! Do they have water?
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Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Thank you Toni, I’m good. It’s been difficult at times, but one day at a time. The pain is healing. Hugs to you. Brony -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
@maxineloveless Hello Maxine, and welcome to our kind, caring community. I am so sorry for your loss of Brandy and hope you will tell us about her. What kind of pet was she? How did you meet? How long were you together – anything you’d like to share, includng pictures. How are you doing, Maxine? Okay? Not so good? We’re here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
@bronyhootscoot Brony, you are so thoughtful and generous to lend your sympathy, support and encouragement to others. Now how about YOU? How are you doing? 🤗Toni
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Thank you Toni, I’m good. It’s been difficult at times, but one day at a time. The pain is healing. Hugs to you. Brony
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Leesa, thank you for painting such a fun and sweet picture of Buddy. It is so easy to forget the wonderful years of joy and love when we are feeling the loss so deeply. I hope you keep pulling forward those good times and know you gave Buddy his best life full of frolic and everlasting love. Toni -
Diana posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
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Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Don’t be lost…I will do everything in my power to give you purpose. . You seem like a wonderful person and Romeo knew that, he felt it. Chin up okay? -
Leesa posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
But it was 15 years old and it was a really good dog I wasn’t supposed to have a dog in my apartment is so I trained him to go in and out of a beach bag and every time you would put a school bag down or something he would try to crawl in it because he thought it was going bye-bye my kids used to put them on a boogie board and he would sit on the Boogie Board and they would push him around in the water you could bring him into the store and they would sit with a kid sit in the car and he would just sit there he would just love all the people going up and Pat them -
Brony posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Maureen, you can get thru this too. My ears are open and my heart is here for you. I know it’s tough on you. Blessings to you. I hope you find your peace soon. Brony -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
@sodones Buddy. What a fun, nice name. I bet he was your best buddy, Leesa, and I am so sorry for your loss. Please tell us about Buddy – how you met, how long you were together, what kind of pet he was … anything you’d like to share, we want to hear. And show us some pictures of Buddy if you like. Toni
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But it was 15 years old and it was a really good dog I wasn’t supposed to have a dog in my apartment is so I trained him to go in and out of a beach bag and every time you would put a school bag down or something he would try to crawl in it because he thought it was going bye-bye my kids used to put them on a boogie board and he would sit on the Boogie Board and they would push him around in the water you could bring him into the store and they would sit with a kid sit in the car and he would just sit there he would just love all the people going up and Pat them
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Leesa, thank you for painting such a fun and sweet picture of Buddy. It is so easy to forget the wonderful years of joy and love when we are feeling the loss so deeply. I hope you keep pulling forward those good times and know you gave Buddy his best life full of frolic and everlasting love. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago
@thiskey Hello Tammi. Welcome to our caring community. I am sorry for your loss of Tigger and invite you to tell us about your life together, share some photos, and please let us know how you are doing. We;re here for you, Tammi. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Good luck with the job hunting. Any special field in which you are looking? Maybe someone here has ideas. June was a real darling and I can really relate to how deep your relationship was after so many years. I had my Squirt for 19 years. We met when I was 23 and she died when I was 42. We went through many life events together and she was my best friend. It is terribly hard to say goodbye but boy, what a joy to share so many years together. I found a stuffed toy helped me get through the night after each of my losses. Perhaps you can find something like that. And yes, please do join our group if you can. It’s very kind, understanding and helpful. I am sending you a {BIG HUG}. Toni -
Christina posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Hi Toni thank you for your kind words. Sorry for your loss. I will try and get into the group on July 20th . Looking for work at the moment too. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Twenty – how special for you both to share a life of love.And how very difficult it is having empty places in your home, and your heart. I am so very sorry, Christina. I find it odd and sad to walk into my house and not have my little darling come running to greet (or yell at) me. I really do use my “ruler” exercise as a way of rethinking: Each inch = 1 year. You and June had 20 “inches” of joy and love, fun and funny times, and just a short bit at the end that was not so good. Now you are adjusting as best you can to a totally new way of living in a completely changed home. It’s hard. I am so glad to have you share with us and hope you’ll join our group meeting July 20th. Links are under “Events”. Until then, please keep us posted and know we are here for you. {{Toni}} -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago
Lisa, how sad Baby was so young. Any age is too young, but at least with older pets (and people) we know they had a long run. I hope you are speaking with your professionals about this – they may be able to help you in ways we cannot. What we CAN do is let you know you are among friends who sympathize and support you. Toni - Load More
