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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 12 months ago
@kitrin22 Cathy, I am so sorry for your loss of Snoopy. Will you tell us about Snoopy and your lives together? May we see some pictures? Our group meeting is tonight at 7 Eastern if you would like to join us. We’re here for you.Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 12 months ago
@spitter80 Hi Kim, welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Bubbies (is that correct?), and let us know how you are doing. Toni
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Bubbies was an amazing cat. He was 18 when we had to send him to the rainbow bridge. To be honest I’m not handling his death all too well. It’s been 3 1/2 weeks and my heart aches for him. I can’t stop crying. There’s a big hole that only he could fill. My house feels empty. -
When I lost my Lulu I was a crying mess for months. I adopted Lucy cause I was so lonely. She helped to mend my heart. Take your time. Something shall come along to help heal your heart.
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Kim, I am so sorry. It hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye to Bubbies and it is certainly undertsandable that you are still deeply grieving. I was relieved when I said goodbye to my darling, knowing it was best for her to have a peaceful passing, but the emptiness of my home and bed and everything was very hard for me, too. I made a mistake giving away her things too quickly, and found sleeping with a stuffed animal helped me a lot. (Others have found even holding a pillow helps). Brony is right – opening your home and heart to another does heal – it reminds us that while one life and love has departed, another is around for us to care for and about. But, YOU have to be ready for that and there is no set limit on when. For me, a friend’s mother had to go into a facility for awhile and I brought in her young kitty, Boots. He was full of life and energy (my goodness, the energy!) and truly healed my broken heart. I’ve since had to return Boots but will always be grateful for having him enter my sad world just ten days after I said goodbye to my Beauty Girl (You can read her memorial on our Memorials tab). So Kim, remember the many fun, funny, loving years you and Bubbies shared, and know Bubbies would want you to be happy for them. We’re here for you, and want to hear from you. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 2 years, 12 months ago
Hi Brony, I hope you’re right about that. That would be something I could look forward to. Hugs back to you too. -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 12 months ago
@joannereynolds Hello Joanne. I am sorry for your loss of Arthur and hope you will tell us about your lives together, and show us some pictures of Arthur if you like. How are you holding up, Joanne? Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 12 months ago
Jessica, no. What happened? I am so very sorry. Please tell us about darling little Pepper. And Jessica, please join us this Thursday at 7PM Eastern for our group meeting. You can find links to all group meetings under “Events”. We’re here for you. 💔💔Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 12 months ago
Christine, I am so sory for your losses. Will you explain a bit more, please? And may we hear about each of them, see some photos? Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 12 months ago
Linda, How hard it must be for you, and them, to not live together. Are they safe in thw woods? Do you know anyone who can take them in and you can still visit with them? -
Jessica posted an update 2 years, 12 months ago
We lost our Pepper baby on the 25th of Aug. She was only 6mths old.
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Jessica, no. What happened? I am so very sorry. Please tell us about darling little Pepper. And Jessica, please join us this Thursday at 7PM Eastern for our group meeting. You can find links to all group meetings under “Events”. We’re here for you. 💔💔Toni
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Christine posted an update 2 years, 12 months ago
I’ve lost my 2 13 year old boys 1 1/2 apart. I miss thm so much.
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Christine, I am so sory for your losses. Will you explain a bit more, please? And may we hear about each of them, see some photos? Toni
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Linda posted an update 3 years ago
Nothing much. I miss my kitties. I can’t have them where I live. I go feed them every day at the woods. God bless them all.
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Linda, How hard it must be for you, and them, to not live together. Are they safe in thw woods? Do you know anyone who can take them in and you can still visit with them?
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Tami posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
What a beautiful poem. I’ll have to go look at the cards. -
Tami posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Thank you everyone -
Cody posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Thinking of you, Tami ❤️❤️❤️ -
Cody posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
What a handsome lil pup! Thanks for sharing, Sue! -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Denise, how lucky were you and Frisco to share so many loving and fun years together! I agree – saying goodbye, while hard, is actually a loving and kind thing to “feel good” about – but coming home to a quiet, empty house is brutal. And yes, indeed, writing to and about our beloved is a wonderful way to express your feelings and thoughts, to send them a little message of love❤️You might also find comfort writing what you think Frisco would send to you in a note. You are welcome to share any of your writings with us. We understand and care. OH! Please join us this Thursday at our group meeting to share more about Frisco and your lives together🤗Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Brony, cats find the darndest places to sleep. We found one of ours in the engine of the car because it was warm! It would be fun to have everyone share pictures of “strange cat sleeping spots”!! Thanks for sharing darling little Crazy Lucy. We like to participate in adventures😻😻 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
How nice of you to give Kwestoun a loving and happy home, Cathe. Clever name – it fit the situation! I am torn about not letting cats go outside. I undertsand the risks of plants or other animals (and vehicles) but some cats just want to wander and explore. It’s a toughie to balance their safety and their preferred lifestyle. I am so happy to meet you and have you share your story about Kwetoun with us. I hope you continue to do so, and that you share more adventures with us. 💔Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Tami, what a lovely thing to do – see our friends in the clouds💕
I wrote a poem about this: (My ‘A Touch from Beyond’ line of cards): https://www.atouchfrombeyond.com/We are all angels, but now I have wings
We dance in the clouds, and everyone sings
So don’t be unhappy – I’m always above
To shelter and guide you, and give you my love ❤️ -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years ago
Sue! We are elated for you and Eddie. 🎉Congratulations🎉I hope we have an update from you this Thursday at our meeting. You and Eddie will enjoy many lovely, loving years together, and we are honored to be a part of your journey, and look forward to sharing it with you both💕🤗Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years ago
Someone asked, “What would happen to their pets if something happpened to them and they can no longer care for their beloveds.
We have an articlle about planning for our pets in our Library – the link is here:Pet Estate Planning: How to Provide for Your Pet in the Event of Your Death
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