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  • Jill posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago

    Hello
    It’s not a while. Things are going well as expected. I think about my Gizmo a lot can’t get her out of my mind. I have had 3 counseling session’s not much from that yet. I have come up with my own diagnosis I think since I saw how she was going right in front of me. I will never find out how or why she passed. And that will haunt me till the end of my life. I want to know why and how. That is why I can’t let go of her. People still tell me to move on. I’m working on it. People just don’t see that.
    Thanks Toni.

    • Jill, Gizmo has only been gone since March, right? That’s not a long time for healing and I hope you will go easy on yourself. She was such a part of you and your life, your dearest friend in so many ways, I don’t find it unusual that you are still actively grieving. If you have been reading the comments of other community members here, you know some have had their beloveds pass unexpectedly, some in their sleep for no known reason, some shot….It’s one thing to have an old, ailing pet, and while it’s just heartbreaking to say goodbye and we grieve the loss, it’s understandable. But to lose them for no seeming reason leaves questions for us. Maybe those will never be resolved. Please share your feelings and thoughts here among friends who truly understand and care. I hope that helps you. I am sending you more HUGS. Toni