Faithful Friends | Sigrid | Activity https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/members/sthea/activity/ Activity feed for Sigrid. Fri, 07 Aug 2026 19:00:51 -0600 https://buddypress.org/?v= en-US 30 hourly 2 5338ad55c7f065dcb0d6bbf28b5cdfc5 Sigrid posted an update: Good morning to all of us who lost a beloved pet. I wanted to […] https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/55433/ Wed, 02 Aug 2023 17:29:31 -0600 Good morning to all of us who lost a beloved pet. I wanted to tell you about an idea that I had for helping me with grief. I am still grieving about losing my two sweet cats, Tim and Lulu last year. What affected me even harder was the loss of my mother just when the pandemic started and I could not fly over there to be with her. With the help of therapy and good friends I have come to realize that she will always be with me, right there in my heart. But often I feel myself missing the physical part, being able to hug her. One sleepless night I had an idea: I have a little pillow that she gave me and I knew that you can transfer photos on fabric. So I had one of my favorite photos of her put on fabric (I found the service on Etsy, I can post the link if you are interested) and sewed it on the pillow case. Now when I need a little more than memories I hug the pillow and think of her. Definitely nothing like the real thing but it helps a little. We can do the same with the pets we lost and grieve: every little bit helps, I think.

]]> 1 ad8157a2ea010efe86df7fcdd3069b07 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/54970/#acomment-55030 Wed, 19 Jul 2023 17:23:54 -0600
Karen, you’ve been through a lot! I am so glad you find the strength to care for Alfie and Lily Belle, but maybe you all prop each other up. Sometime in the past the quote by Ram Dass “We are here to walk each other home” really landed on me. Best wishes to you!
    In reply to - Karen Strachan posted an update I have always had more than 2 pets. When my husband had cancer, we adopted a little girl, Lily Belle. She was being trained as a service dog for my adult grandson, but because her training wasn\'t complete, his landlord would not let him keep her. My dogs were all very senior so my grandson asked if we would take her. In addition to the cancer, my husband had copd and couldn\'t lay in bed so slept in his lift chair. If he got up during the night, Lily would come get me (she would either sleep on his lap or on a pet bed next to his chair). After he passed, I kept working part-time even though I am almost 75. In the 3 years since my husband\'s death, Lily was developing separation anxiety so I started looking for a companion for both of us. That is how Alfie was added to our small family. He is a rescue dog approximately 2 years old, (Lily is 5) and was dumped on the streets and badly abused (he is terrified of men and tries to bite most of them). He is now glued to me and is protective of both me and Lily. He has now accepted my son and my granddaughter\'s fiancee so is getting better. ]]>         353f529e3ce0c1f1316b15846654acab Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/54742/#acomment-54845 Sat, 15 Jul 2023 17:09:25 -0600
    Walter looks like a character and I agree: nothing is worse than to see them suffer! Yes, so much love is needed. Both my sweet cats, Tim and Lulu, passed away last year. I miss him sitting in front of the house where he would wait for us. He knew the sound of the car half a block away! And Lulu would drape herself all over my deck, making it very clear that this was her space and nobody else’s. My heart is healing but I decided to wait until the construction on our house is done by the end of the year hopefully. It would be too chaotic for them. So I teamed up with a neighbor to take care of the feral neighborhood cats. They are fiercely feral and I doubt I will be able to make them accept me closer than 4 feet away but it feels good to see them wait for me in the morning and evening and know somebody cares for them.
      In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update
      One month ago I said goodbye to darling little Walter. I just walked in my house fully expecting him to greet me. It\'s hard to get used to, and it takes time to adjust. But I am very happy for the time we shared, and that he is not in pain or danger of his mass rupturing. It takes awhile to find balance and ultimately, more joy than sadness. Hang in there everyone. We\'re always here for you, not matter how long it\'s been. {{HUGS}} Toni
      ]]>             cf09a20b28ed2bc403b4c77c3f211e14 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/54607/#acomment-54624 Wed, 05 Jul 2023 16:44:38 -0600
      Lisa, she’s a bundle of cuteness. I feel for you and I hope you have friends around you to understand your pain. And this community here certainly does. The cold hard facts cannot be changed but each and everyone here has gone through this. And they are good at listening and comforting and making you feel less alone with this. Let us hear about her and let us help you mourn. Sending good wishes! Sigrid
        In reply to - Lisa posted an update
        My Yorkie Baby passed away on 6/12 ,3 weeks ago ,I am beyond devastated ,she was also my ESA I can\'t stop crying my heart is broken into pieces
        ]]>                 ba3b60b7377a2c3e6a8013ab6b6d2472 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/54584/#acomment-54623 Wed, 05 Jul 2023 16:33:35 -0600
        Such sweet and soulful eyes. It takes time and many tears before you will be able to feel her in your heart and be at peace with that. At least that’s my experience. It’s not like the joy of having them around but it is a comforting feeling too: they are safe and sound, and the worst has already happened. I can still feel their sweet energy and I can talk to them in my mind. They are still part of my life and I am grateful for that. Best wishes to you! Sigrid
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          ]]>                     4251443566452f04c199378a05a2aafc Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53951/#acomment-54407 Thu, 29 Jun 2023 05:01:40 -0600
          I am sure he did, Maureen! They are generous souls and they want to spread happiness. So glad you and Brony will support each other! Love, Sigrid
            In reply to - Maureen posted an update Hello, I just wanted to stop by and see what was new and how everyone is doing. I would also like to offer my sincere condolences to all here at Faithful Friends. I have not been doing well myself. I am still grieving hard and can\'t seem to move forward. I think I have figured out why. I feel so comfortable in my grief now and. It is a safe place for me to be where I can never forget my Romeo. I know this is not healthy, but, I feel so bad when I am not thinking of him because I don\'t want him to think I\'m forgetting him. So, I stay stuck in the loop of reliving his last moments over and over and it brings me to tears. Maybe crying makes me feel good because I am grieving over him and honoring his memory. I can\'t let go....I just can\'t. My life consists of just getting through each day. Waiting for all of this to end. I have never, ever been this broken in my life and I don\'t see an end to it at this time. 💔 ]]>                         95f25e8e488fce2078d881000121df0a Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/54150/#acomment-54406 Thu, 29 Jun 2023 04:55:24 -0600
            I hope you will try to write to us about Bandit. You may find that it will give you some comfort to be heard by people who know your pain, who have been there. Best wishes to you! Sigrid
              In reply to - Irma posted an update
              My beautiful boy Bandit who recently passed away.
              ]]>                             f83fe73b00d38b9196a7f60e9a329fef Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53798/#acomment-53996 Wed, 21 Jun 2023 17:02:05 -0600
              Amber, what a beautiful photo of Sara! You have come to the right place to talk about her, about your long – and too short – life together. All of us had our hearts broken because we loved deeply. And to learn that broken hearts can heal and love again. But one day at a time. I would love to hear more about her – she looks like she was a lively pack of energy. She’s with you still, right there in your heart. Sending good wishes!
                In reply to - Amber posted an update
                My Sara
                ]]>                                 bff2e2d2906b955305febdfa8be55b65 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53974/#acomment-53995 Wed, 21 Jun 2023 16:48:25 -0600
                Kimberly, what a beautiful tiger indeed, intense eyes! Best wishes to you in your grief. May you meet with understanding and comfort at this time, and I am so glad you came here. You are among people who know your pain and who will listen.
                  In reply to - Kimberly posted an update
                  My baby
                  ]]>                                     63b7af30e141ad340115e5e31012d41d Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53951/#acomment-53994 Wed, 21 Jun 2023 16:40:53 -0600
                  Brony and Maureen, I love this, you making a pact because Lulu and Romeo would have wanted you to be happy and go on living good lives. They are safe and sound in your hearts and they are waiting for you to be able to feel that. Love to you both!
                    In reply to - Maureen posted an update Hello, I just wanted to stop by and see what was new and how everyone is doing. I would also like to offer my sincere condolences to all here at Faithful Friends. I have not been doing well myself. I am still grieving hard and can\'t seem to move forward. I think I have figured out why. I feel so comfortable in my grief now and. It is a safe place for me to be where I can never forget my Romeo. I know this is not healthy, but, I feel so bad when I am not thinking of him because I don\'t want him to think I\'m forgetting him. So, I stay stuck in the loop of reliving his last moments over and over and it brings me to tears. Maybe crying makes me feel good because I am grieving over him and honoring his memory. I can\'t let go....I just can\'t. My life consists of just getting through each day. Waiting for all of this to end. I have never, ever been this broken in my life and I don\'t see an end to it at this time. 💔 ]]>                                         827c502f472016b8947230b38657feda Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53609/#acomment-53730 Wed, 14 Jun 2023 18:52:43 -0600
                    Penny, I am so sorry you lost Donnie! I love the tattoo idea. You can touch it with love and think of him – not that you need it ato remind you. Over time it will get easier to think of him but I am glad you are standing up for yourself and not get a new pet to patch over your pain. People may mean well but they don’t know how deep your love is and therefore your grief. You will know when you are ready. Right now you honor Donnie and your life with him. Best wishes to you!
                      In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @froggee Penny, I am so sorry for your loss of Donnie. Please, tell us about your lives together and share some pictures. How are you doing? Toni ]]>                                             a5ad851cb7ba7291bf3719c360b02d90 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53610/#acomment-53729 Wed, 14 Jun 2023 17:28:04 -0600
                      Toni, I was sad to read about you losing Walter! You loved him and took care of his need to be free of pain first even though it breaks your heart. I know the pain of feeling the house being different and weird without them! Wishing you support and shoulders to cry on at this time!
                        In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update
                        Out of great love, and with heavy heart, I said goodbye to my beloved Walter this morning. We know he had a mass and I\'ve been watching for signs that he was declining. This morning his stool was liquid again, it had a little blood in it, and he didn\'t cover it in the litter box. His way of saying \"Hey Mom, I\'m not doing well\". Similar to the way Sweetness let Karen know something was wrong. I was surprised at how quickly I could make the decision to give him a peaceful passing, but being aware of his illness made the decision, not easy, but clear. I always say the hard part comes when the house is empty and different, and that\'s what I\'ll be dealing with now. But I am grateful for the time we had together and the love we shared. I\'ll post a Memorial to my Darling in a few days. Toni💔
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                        They are such big parts of our lives, aren’t they? I am sorry you lost Sammi. A quarter of a century that she was with you! We wish they could live with us as long as people do so we wouldn’t have to say goodbye so soon! Sammi seems to have been a full and equal family member, going with you and your daughters on trips and accompanying you to work. Sadly it will take a long time to get used to the new normal in your house. The void will not just go away and can’t easily be filled – but you’ll get to a place where you can talk about her affectionately, remembering your adventures without crying, just grateful you had her. Just like you mourn for people, and over time you are able to go on. You’ll never replace or forget her but she is in your heart and is part of you. So sorry! I am sending good wishes to you and your family!
                          In reply to - Leigh posted an update
                          Always thinking of you Sammi
                          ]]>                                                     1144e41dbce294369d189ad841cbe7d7 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53541/#acomment-53559 Fri, 09 Jun 2023 00:40:23 -0600
                          Colleen, I am so sad to read this! Boomer looks like a gentle soul. That is just the worst way to have to say goodbye. I agree with Toni: if it is at all possible for you to see a trauma person please do so. You have seen images that can’t be just forgotten, you need competent help to be able to go on. Boomer was there for your emotional support, and in a way he still is and will always be. Imagine what he would tell you. Yes, he would want you to grieve – and eventually be well again. That was his job. He still watches out for you. Please get help and stay connected to people who understand, like the beautiful people in this community. I am sending many good wishes!
                            In reply to - Colleen posted an update
                            We were on our evening walk with our boys May 3. Another dog broke off it\'s \"restraint\" and attacked my Boomer. He was only 12 and had just been given an easy 3 to 5 years of healthy life. His injuries were too much to ivercome and we had to say goodbye. In 4 hours ti e he went from healthy and happy to gone and my heart will never heal from the final images I am left with. He was my registered ESA and I am utterly lost without him. He taught me how to live but did not teach me how to live without him.
                            ]]>                                                         7a9bc9f74d5457a16d959bc2f1a141e7 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/52718/#acomment-53453 Tue, 06 Jun 2023 21:21:46 -0600
                            Maureen, I appreciate that you are so open and vulnerable with your grief! As you say, at the beginning we have no capacity to feel for anyone but ourselves. With courage you open your heart a little and are able to feel compassion and see that we’re not alone with what we are experiencing. All the while our own grief is going through changes and we are able to help others who are at the beginning of this journey – because we understand! And it helps. It doesn’t make the grief go away but it takes the sharp edges off and gets us out of isolation. I love seeing your comments for others in the community. Romeo would be proud of you!
                              In reply to - Maureen posted an update Hi, I just wanted to come here to tell all of you that I had the hardest Mother\'s Day on Sunday and I\'m sure there are a lot of you here that did and I am sorry to you too. I\'m still going through this terrible grieving process and I\'m not sure if I\'m ever going to get past it. People don\'t get why and I just tell them it\'s because I was Romeo\'s mommy and now he\'s gone. I ask them how they refer to their spouse or significant other when telling their pet to go find them? They say \" I tell him to go find Mommy / Daddy\". Then, they get it! I know some never will and that\'s okay because I just stay away from those negative, judgemental ones. My heart is still so broken right now 💔 Thank you for letting me vent. ]]>                                                             dcb9a01340b340206881c5af2ec63b03 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/51982/#acomment-53452 Tue, 06 Jun 2023 21:10:24 -0600
                              Hi, LaRonda, this must be so hard! I am sorry life is so dark for you these days. And I am sure Harry would want you to open your heart again. As Toni says, we can never and we don’t want to replace a beloved pet. Harry was unique and will stay forever in your heart. But I am sure he has friends and fellows who are desperate to find a home. You can save someone from having a life in a shelter who would like your love and attention. You can do it for Harry, dedicate it to Harry. There is so much need out there and you can do something about it. You have love to give – and receive. Please consider it. Best wishes to you!
                                In reply to - LaRonda posted an update I lost my Soul Harry on 10/16/22 , he was my entire world for 14 years, I rescued him from a puppy mill but he really rescued me, ]]>                                                                 370b880aa048087e8ba392da354e4079 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53206/#acomment-53254 Tue, 30 May 2023 17:45:38 -0600
                                Yuvonne, behind every little memorial candle that gets lit is a story with a sad end. I am sorry you find yourself here but also glad that you reached out for help: there are people here willing to listen and help you mourn Milo. Talking about him is hard and sad but it also shows your love and appreciation and over time it will unburden your heavy heart. Tell us about Milo and make him known to us if you can. Best wishes to you!
                                  In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @yuvonne53gmail-com Welcome to our caring community, Yuvonne. Please tell us about Milo - what kind of pet was he; how you met ... anything you\'d like to share. Toni ]]>                                                                     40756ecbb273e452486bcceddbdb7f0e Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53132/#acomment-53253 Tue, 30 May 2023 17:35:51 -0600
                                  Lovetta, what a beautiful cat Mojo is! Did she have green eyes? How are you doing? I hope you have people around you who understand your grief and are able to listen. And there is a whole community of people here who can relate and are willing to help you through this. What did you like most about Mojo? What is your favorite memory of her? If you cannot talk about that yet I understand. But some day you will be able to remember her with love and without tears. I am sending good wishes!
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                                    ]]>                                                                         434518eded75e34995e576218cfa7f92 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/53109/#acomment-53252 Tue, 30 May 2023 17:30:12 -0600
                                    Elisabeth, I am sorry you lost Nicka! It is never long enough, is it? I would like to hear more about her and about your life with her. No matter how they leave us, because of illness or old age or an accident, it is heartbreak every time. Please tell us about her and keep her alive this way. It is hard to make the transition from grieving their death to feeling them inside of us and being able to talk about them without tears, remembering their whimsies and habits. I wish you the best!
                                      In reply to - Elisabeth posted an update I couldn\'t forget our cat Nicka, she was so beautiful girl but she didn\'t stay with us long enough we missed her ]]>                                                                             841f9585ecf10e1c7fa056616296a6e4 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/52997/#acomment-53104 Fri, 26 May 2023 19:50:18 -0600
                                      What a sweet face he has! I know how you wait for them to show up where they used to be! When I would drive up to my house my cat Drew would welcome me. He could hear I was coming from the sound of my car! It’s been 3 years and I still for a split second expect him to sit there waiting for me. But now I think more about how cute and funny he was. And your boy is safe now, no aches or pains due to age or illness. Sometimes I think we are courageous to give our hearts away again and again because we know it’s not forever. But the time we have with them is precious and stays with us. All the memories and stories. I hope you have support to help heal your heart, a friend or your family. And you have this group. Talking about them helps. Sending good wishes!
                                        In reply to - Chris posted an update
                                        It has been 9 weeks now since I lost my sweet baby boy, it is getting a little bit better but oh how I miss seeing him everywhere in the house. At times I still can\'t believe that he is really gone. 😢💔🐕
                                        ]]>                                                                                 a6aaf1827b0f3fe0f7de276bc2567e14 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/52986/#acomment-53025 Wed, 24 May 2023 16:50:23 -0600
                                        Rebecca, what a beautiful picture of Toby Ryan! And I am so sorry you lost him. I love it that the community is working: people who know what you are going through chiming in and letting you know you are not alone in your grief. It doesn’t bring anybody back but the pain of grief is so much harder to bear when you have to do it all alone. And many people don’t know the strong ties that connect us with our furry friends. Some even belittle or judge your grief. Not here. Please find comfort in this place that is created to hear you and to make space for your grief – AND stories about your beloveds quirks and joys and endearing habits. I love to see the photos that go with the names and I appreciate to get to know about this special friend. I love to read how people go through stages of grief, how they take courage from talking and remembering and being vulnerable by describing the pain and loss. I see that many stay with the community and write about healing and moving on without giving up what was so special about this love. This is a truly good place.
                                          In reply to - Rebecca posted an update
                                          This is the kitty I lit my candle for Toby Ryan my Russian Blue Boy! He lost the battle with pancreatic cancer ! My heart is still 💔
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                                          Linda, he looks so sweet – and a bit mischievous. How very sad to loose him so suddenly and under those circumstances! My heart goes out to you. I hope you have shoulders to cry on; there are people here in this community who understand your grief and will listen to what you feel like telling us about him. It does not bring him back but it keeps him alive. In Isabel Allende’s book Eva Luna the mother says to her daughter “People die only when we forget them. If you can remember me, I will be with you always.” I think the same goes for our dogs and cats and other beloved creatures. The task of grieving is to get to where you’re feeling them inside you and are able to take comfort in it, even if they are no longer around physically.
                                          Best wishes to you!
                                            In reply to - Linda posted an update
                                            This was my Gilly boy got him at 3mons Ana neighbor ran over him. He was only 2and 1/2 years old. Still not over it🐾🐶❤️‍🩹
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                                            Heather, like any good mom you are thinking about his well being first! Imagining him with his brother and free of pain can help you handle the pain and grief of losing him. Take good care of yourself and I hope you can tell us more about Dozer. He’s lucky to have had you and I am sure you feel glad he was with you for a long time. Wishing you well!
                                              In reply to - Heather posted an update
                                              It\'s been a rough few months. We said goodbye to my sweet little boy dozer he was 15 years old. But we are glad he is out of pain and with his brother brutis side by side again and forever.
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                                              Hi Wendy, you came to the right place to be with people who understand. I love it when those who are grieving open up and make this connection with others who are in the same situation. You can’t talk your pain away but you at least don’t feel so alone with it. Please tell us why you joined, I would like to know what brought you here. You are among kindred spirits!
                                                In reply to - Wendy posted an update Thanks for allowing me to join your group! 😍 ]]>                                                                                                 0e3ce99bd1e7653dd29bc439120da645 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/51982/#acomment-52067 Tue, 02 May 2023 17:28:11 -0600
                                                Hi LaRonda, I love what you say about Harry: first you rescued him and then he rescued you. They do that, don’t they? It is hard to go on without him but he became part of you and that will never go away. He made you into who you are now and he’ll want you to look forward, eventually. Part of grieving is to learn how to feel them inside of you and to accept that while you lost their bodies their soul cannot be taken away from you. And that will give you the strength and courage to love again. You’ll never replace him in your heart but because you are richer than when you were before you met him you will be able to give again. And that’s beautiful. The sadness will never quite go away but the pain will get weaker – and your heart will be bigger. Sending you good wishes!
                                                  In reply to - LaRonda posted an update I lost my Soul Harry on 10/16/22 , he was my entire world for 14 years, I rescued him from a puppy mill but he really rescued me, ]]>                                                                                                     0a9ba5f8235e8014ed92ecba288324f0 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/51785/#acomment-51844 Tue, 25 Apr 2023 20:44:34 -0600
                                                  CeeCee looks like she has a little white collar and white paws, how cute. She looks like she has personality and great poise. Please tell us what she was like. I would love to hear about her. Sending good wishes!
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                                                    Maureen, I am glad you were able to see things from a different perspective. I am not religious but I know for sure that talking to Romeo will be good for you and maybe he’ll hear you. Nobody can prove the opposite so you might as well hold on to this comforting thought. And you are right, he would not want you to suffer. As Toni said be kind to yourself and put your love and grief in words and send them to Romeo. Friends hear you, this community hears you, and Romeo may hear you. You love him and he had a good life with you. Not that this is the time to think about that but you’re a good mom and there may be other dogs out there that need you once you are ready. You’ll never be able (nor would you want) to replace him but there is need out there for care and love that you can give just like you did for Romeo.
                                                      In reply to - Maureen posted an update
                                                      Hi, I haven\'t commented here since my first one and I was very thankful for your response. Unfortunately, I am still in a bad place over losing my Romeo. I wake up and cry every day. I relive that morning over and over again. I am so depressed and nothing is helping me to climb out of this dark place I\'m in. I hate feeling this way and I\'m trying to get better, but, this trauma has only been bringing out many things from my past that have happened which I have been suppressing for many, many year I still isolate and I don\'t think of the future at all. I just get up and go through the motions of each day and that\'s it. I just wish I could go back in time and hold my boy and kiss him and cuddle him once more, but,I know that\'s not possible. I\'m tired of this pain and I wish this was all a dream. Thank you for letting me speak about my heartache. 💔
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                                                      Maureen, Romeo looks adorable. Great name for him. I am so sorry you lost him. And yes, the trauma of losing him can dredge up old pain and unlived grief. You can dedicate your recovery to him by dealing with what needs to be dealt with. Bring it up, give it space and acknowledge it, hopefully with the help of a good friend or a therapist. I hope I am not overstepping here but I am talking out of my own experience. I know it sounds weird but you can consider it Romeo’s gift to you, getting rid of old aches and pains so you can love again. You are courageous to talk about your pain, that’s the first step, not suppressing your grief. as you did in the past. Your love for Romeo did that! Thank him and honor him by continuing on that path.
                                                        In reply to - Maureen posted an update
                                                        Hi, I haven\'t commented here since my first one and I was very thankful for your response. Unfortunately, I am still in a bad place over losing my Romeo. I wake up and cry every day. I relive that morning over and over again. I am so depressed and nothing is helping me to climb out of this dark place I\'m in. I hate feeling this way and I\'m trying to get better, but, this trauma has only been bringing out many things from my past that have happened which I have been suppressing for many, many year I still isolate and I don\'t think of the future at all. I just get up and go through the motions of each day and that\'s it. I just wish I could go back in time and hold my boy and kiss him and cuddle him once more, but,I know that\'s not possible. I\'m tired of this pain and I wish this was all a dream. Thank you for letting me speak about my heartache. 💔
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                                                        Good wishes to you, Toni! That’s hard. I hope you and Walter will still have many good days together and that he’ll leave peacefully and without pain when the time comes.
                                                          In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update I feel better about Walter now. His doctor confirmed what the oncologist said which is to watch for him to stop eating, losing weight and not having an interest in doing anything. I think it will be fairly obvious when Walter is ready to say goodbye. She also said it is not common for masses to rupture, which greatly relieves my concern. Thank you for your caring and comments. I\'ll be updating as things progress. And please, update us about YOUR babies. Toni ]]>                                                                                                                     d074a40084c8df4b6c89c780f6e4681b Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/51009/#acomment-51056 Tue, 11 Apr 2023 17:30:11 -0600
                                                          Rachel, I am so sorry you lost Alphonse. The name makes me think he had quite the personality. Did he? I would like to hear how he was. He clearly had your heart. Talking about him, describing him will keep you connected and over time may slowly change from grief to appreciation that you had him in your life. Best wishes to you!
                                                            In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @raerae Alphonse - What a great name, Rachel. What kind of pet was Alphonse? Please tell us about him and your lives together. We love to see pictures if you like. How are you holding up? Toni ]]>                                                                                                                         d31379fc8d7ecfe8c5d4e5fc4ac6acb8 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50825/#acomment-51055 Tue, 11 Apr 2023 17:23:29 -0600
                                                            Hi Maryann, it’s Sigrid again. It takes a lot of time to heal. And I was wondering if you could pour the love you have for Penny into some cause that needs it, at a shelter for example or tending to feral cats in your neighborhood. I think in addition to missing Penny you also have no place or being to give your love to. It will not bring her back but you could dedicate your helpful activities to her, to honor her and to be grateful that she was in your life. This is no advice, just something I saw a neighbor do when her cat passed. She now takes good care of the feral cats around here, has them spayed or neutered, feeds them and finds homes for them. They would be lucky to have you.
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                                                              Angel, this community is a bit like a shoulder to cry on. We know your pain. Talking about your loss gives a little bit of relief. It can’t take the pain away but you feel less alone with it. At least that’s my experience. I am sending good wishes to you.
                                                                In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @acasler Hello Angel. I am so sorry for your loss of Brodie. Tell us about your lives together and let us know how you are doing. Toni ]]>                                                                                                                                 f0d2c8c3153e2dc17fb239b370df0e1c Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50924/#acomment-50989 Sun, 09 Apr 2023 16:44:18 -0600
                                                                Hi Dorothy, all of us here know the pain of having to let them go. Let us know about Cody or show us a photo if it feels right. Talking about them helps a little bit in my experience. Sending good wishes!
                                                                  In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @dunner52 Hi Dorothy. Welcome to our caring community. What kind of pet was Cody? May we see some pictures and hear about him? It hurts, and you are here among friends who understand and support you. Toni ]]>                                                                                                                                     97cfa94b8823076c684cc9d3f6838424 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50829/#acomment-50870 Tue, 04 Apr 2023 16:48:40 -0600
                                                                  Hi Amy, as Toni says there is no time line for grieving and we all need to do it in a way that works for us. There’s no advice really, I can just tell you what works for me: my cats past and present have a big space in my heart. They are safe there, I don’t need to worry about them and I do believe they are in a good place. I will never loose this feeling even though I can’t touch them anymore. But I can put my hand on my heart and remember how sweet they were and be grateful. I can think of the times when they were especially cute and funny and I feel love. Time will get you there. Sending good wishes!
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                                                                    Today marks 6 months that you left and I know you’re in a better place but god do I miss you! It hasn’t gotten any better, My heart aches the same! I can’t wait till I’m with you again! Please keep a watch over me because I need it sweet Angel! Rip Chloe Bell 10-02-22
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                                                                    Hi Maryann, Penny looks like a sweet best friend! I don’t think that we ever “get over” losing someone like that. But thankfully time will help us get more at peace with the fact that they’re gone and make it possible for us to remember without crying all the wonderful times we had, the fun, the quirky things they did and what made them so special. There is a space in my heart just for my cats, all of them, and in that way they are with me forever, safe and sound.
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                                                                      Kristina, from my own experience I know how that feels. You look for them in places where they used to be and should be. It is amazing how they change the feeling of the whole house. It will take time – I know that’s small comfort but eventually you’ll be able to think of him with more appreciation than grief. You’ll be able to remember all the good stuff you experienced together and will be somewhat at peace with the fact that he’s not there anymore. Good wishes to you and your family!
                                                                        In reply to - Kristina posted an update Today we bring Digger home. We lost him a week ago. Still feels like it\'s not real. Today has been hard for the entire family. He is missed greatly. ]]>                                                                                                                                                 73235c5e11e906a87f9c062824b3374c Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50635/#acomment-50666 Wed, 29 Mar 2023 01:53:50 -0600
                                                                        Welcome, Lauryn! We know your pain and are here for you to listen. Please tell us about Lieu. How did you come to this beautiful name? I am sending good wishes to you!
                                                                          In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @doglover2 Hi Lauryn and welcome to our caring community of pet lovers. I am so sorry for your loss of Lieu. Please tell us about your lives together and share some photos with us if you like. How are you holding up, Lauryn? ]]>                                                                                                                                                     9e8dd08d3e57792d46a9cf06928a05c8 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50632/#acomment-50665 Wed, 29 Mar 2023 01:51:03 -0600
                                                                          Robyn, that is an unusual name – Shogun. And I am sure there comes a story with it. Please tell us! You will find open hearts here to hear about your loss and wish you well.
                                                                            In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @rmgraiver Shogun. What a unique and cool name, Robyn. What kind of pet was Shogun? How did you come to that name? May we see some pictures, and hear about Shogun? Toni ]]>                                                                                                                                                         77049b39dbd34371a75d432e6108efb8 Sigrid posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/50631/#acomment-50664 Wed, 29 Mar 2023 01:47:55 -0600
                                                                            Lisa, I would like to hear more about Caylee. I like the name and I am so sorry you had to part with her. Please tell us. Sending you good wishes!
                                                                              In reply to - Toni Noel posted an update @caylee23 Hello Lisa. Please tell us about Caylee and your lives together. Share photos with us if you like. I am so sorry for your loss. Toni ]]>