• Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

    @raerae Alphonse – What a great name, Rachel. What kind of pet was Alphonse? Please tell us about him and your lives together. We love to see pictures if you like. How are you holding up? Toni

    • Thank you Toni!! Alphonse was a 14yr old Tuxedo cat who passed on March 5th 2023 and was born on April 11th 2008.He was my only pet and my best friend! I’m lost without him 😔
      • Oh Rachel, so much sadness and deep pain with your parting from Alphonse. You were together almost fifteen years? What a lovely life to share. The awful truth is that our beloved pets are only on loan to us, never for long enough. The great part is giving and getting a love like no other. For that we are grateful. But the deeper the love, the deeper the pain. Your house must feel empty? I found holding and petting a stuffed toy helped me. Talking to our group – next meeting is April 20th – really helps and I hope you’ll join us. And Rachel, please tell us what happened with Alphonse? It can help you, and others, to share our experiences. I am thinking of you with sincere sympathy and sending you a {{ BIG HUG}}. Toni

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        Faithful Friends April Group Meeting
        Time: Apr 20, 2023 7:00 PM Eastern Time – 4 PM Pacific

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        • Rachel, I am so sorry you lost Alphonse. The name makes me think he had quite the personality. Did he? I would like to hear how he was. He clearly had your heart. Talking about him, describing him will keep you connected and over time may slowly change from grief to appreciation that you had him in your life. Best wishes to you!
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

          Maryann, how are you doing today?
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

            Thank you for the holiday wishes, Geri. It’s so nice of you to let us know you, Syrus and Hex are well. My Walter seems okay but it’s hard for me to evaluate how he’s really feeling. We see his doctor tomorrow and I’m hoping she can give me insight. We know his mass is fast-growing but I don’t see that he is uncomfortable. Love ’em good and hard while we can 💕🤗
            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

              Kristina, how are you and your family doing now?
              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                That is so sad, Katherine. That’s a lot of loss and grief for you and I am so sorry. Shadow looks a bit like my BG (Beauty Girl) who died last year. You can see her in the Memorial tab. Please, come to our Group Meeting April 20th. You’ll get an email with the log in. And keep sharing with us here. We’re listening and caring. {HUGS}. Toni
                • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                  @dunner52 Hi Dorothy. Welcome to our caring community. What kind of pet was Cody? May we see some pictures and hear about him? It hurts, and you are here among friends who understand and support you. Toni

                  • Hi Dorothy, all of us here know the pain of having to let them go. Let us know about Cody or show us a photo if it feels right. Talking about them helps a little bit in my experience. Sending good wishes!
                  • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                    @acasler Hello Angel. I am so sorry for your loss of Brodie. Tell us about your lives together and let us know how you are doing. Toni

                    • Angel, this community is a bit like a shoulder to cry on. We know your pain. Talking about your loss gives a little bit of relief. It can’t take the pain away but you feel less alone with it. At least that’s my experience. I am sending good wishes to you.
                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                      Today is the anniversary date of Diane meeting her darling Hemmingway – “Hemmy”. We are so sorry for your parting, but are delighted to celebrate such a happy day in your lives! Sending you {{HUGE HUGS}}. Toni

                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                      Katherine, oh no, I am so sorry. What happened with Shadow? May we see pictures of your beloveds? Are you okay? Toni
                      • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                        @slcastellanos Hi Sandra. Please tell us about your baby, share photos if you like, and let us know how you are doing. Toni

                      • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                        OUCH. Sad news. Darling little Walter\’s mass is fast growing. No surgery or chemo. I\’m watching him for weight loss, vomiting or discomfort. I\’m not surprised really, but am so very sad.
                      • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                        Thank you Sigrid, for your kind, caring, understanding support for those in our community. Your beautiful urns make loving final resting places that bring us comfort. Your words soothe and encourage us to look to the happy times we shared. We are so glad to have you with us. Toni

                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                        Thinking of Penny, with love. You were wonderful to take her in and give her a loving life. I hope you find comfort in that. Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                          Amy, there is no time line for grieving and I am so sorry. You will always miss Chloe Bell but can you find some smiles in remembering the good times you and Chloe Bell shared? Have you tried writing a letter to her? Maybe write one from her to you? What do you think she would want you to know? Please come to our group meeting April 20th and talk with us. {HUGS}
                          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                            @krystiemarie Hi Krystie. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Bella. What kind of pet was she? How did you meet? Any and everything you’d like to share. And know we are sorry, and undertsand, and are here to support you. Toni

                          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

                            @mollymainesgmail-com Sueann, is this Bear? What a spectacular kitty. I am so sorry. Please tell us about your lives together. We’re here for you. Toni

                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                            Kristina, how are you doing? Toni
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                              Oh Patty, what happened? My friend Tom was sitting with his Rigby in his lap, got up to get an iced tea, came back and Rigby was dead. Literally, within a minute, and no signs of ill health. Is it pre-ordained or happenstance? I don’t know, but I do know how very sorry I am. Patty, come to our group meeting April 20th. I think you will find it kind, caring, understanding and supportive. I am, again, so very sorry. Toni
                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                                Lena, Shadow was sooo handsome. My BG was a black cat (you can see her pictures in the Memorial tab) and she was 18 when we said goodbye lat year. I can totally fall in love with Shadow with you, and am so very sad and sorry for your parting. It seems you and Shadow spent half his life together and isn’t that wonderful? I was only with BG for five of her 18 years, and they were golden. I hope you can think of the good, and great life you and Shadow shared, and that your memories bring you joy and smiles. And please Lena, join us April 20th in our group meeting to talk about Shadow with us. We’re thinking of you, with heartfelt sympathy. Toni
                                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

                                  Oh how precious, Kristina. It hurts so deeply, doesn’t it? I am so very sorry. It’s hard that our beloved pets are only “on loan” to us, never for long enough. I hope you can find some comfort knowing you and Digger shared a wonderful life. We’re here for you so keep sharing with us, and please join our group meeting April 20th.

                                  Faithful Friends April Group Meeting
                                  Time: Apr 20, 2023 7:00 PM Eastern Time, 4 PM Pacific

                                  Join Zoom Meeting
                                  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84061915091?pwd=TzNUckpWQ1dXRTg0WXpoeHpSUnpRQT09

                                  Meeting ID: 840 6191 5091
                                  Passcode: 198948

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