• Cynthia posted an update 5 years, 8 months ago

    When does the pain subside? Pedro died on March 7,2020 He had run past me on the stairs and went to the corner and a truck hit him.I had to see it all.My baby lauded on the ground crying as I tried to pick him up.He died a few minutes later

    • Cynthia, the pain subsides when it does…when my nine month old kitten, who never went out, decided to go out and was killed by a vehicle, the guilt I felt kept me from healing for a very long time. But, and I mean this, you and I didn’t do anything wrong. It’s hard to express, but it’s as if they made a decision and it went way wrong, but you and I didn’t do it to them. We would have thrown ourselves in front of the truck if we had the choice. We have a wonderful grief counselor available to you if that will help you. Please, let me know how we can support you, and if you want to speak with our counselor. I’m sending you a big hug. Toni
      • How are you today, Cynthia? I’ve been thinking of you.