Judith
@mje1954
Active 2 years, 3 months ago
Just want to say how sorry I am for all who have lost a precious pet recently. I have also gone through this many times and as recently as December. It never gets easier. View
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Judith, I am so sorry and sad with you, but also so happy for the many years you and Walker shared. I don’t understand your comments about “the service” you received and ask you to elaborate if you want. Was it about Walker’s end of life experience? I am very distressed along with you if that is the case. On Friday, Walker’s birthday, can you choose to think of 3 – 5 fun, funny and loving times you shared each year over your years together, to remember Walker and honor his life by being joyful for having him in your lives. You might want to write a birthday card for him, telling him all you feel and want to share, and if you can, write a note TO you FROM Walker with what you rhink he would want you to know. Judith, please let our community know how you are doing Friday, and any time you like. We understand the pain of parting and the joys we want to celebrate. Here is a {{BIG HUG}} for you. Toni
Judith, I am so sorry for your loss of Walker 💔
Thank you. I really miss him…
Toni….in answer to your question about the service. We have been to this clinic before and they have been excellent. But on this night I felt they were callous. They have a room for pets that are leaving and on this night it was occupied. I understand that. But they put us in a room with no blanket or anything to make him comfortable. When they brought him to us he was still thrashing. They plopped him in my arms and said hold him. In the middle of our grief and trying to restrain him someone came in to collect payment. It was just not the warm sympathetic feeling we’ve had in the past.
I understand that my feelings at the time made me less than understanding. I realize they were busy. But it felt like they just wanted us to be out of their way.
That is so disturbing, Judith. That must have added to your distress beyond acceptance and I am just so sad and sorry you, Walker and your family had that experience. 💔A few times I have had to go to the hospital, not my vet, and they have a policy that you don’t need an apointment for euthansia, and you receive priority over other patients. They have always been kind, caring and patient, and I am sharing this in case it helps should you need euthanasia agian – you might check what your local hospitals offer. If you can set that aside, or push it behind, I hope you can recall the wonderful years Walker shared with you. I like to think of our time together as a ruler with each year being an inch. You enjoyed so many inches until the fraction at the end that was so hard. I hope that helps you somewhat in thinking of Walker. Judith, please keep sharing your feelings here. We’ll crawl through your grief with you. Toni
I just hope and pray that even in his madness he knew how much we loved him…
Never doubt Walker knew your love for him and that you were always doing what was best for him💕
I know how difficult it makes having to make the decision to say goodbye is made by uncaring service. Twice now we have been hurried a long in making the decision and how much time I was given to say goodbye. One dog was put down before I could even get there to say goodbye. You obviously loved Walker very much and that he lived his best life with you. And always remember that between hello and goodbye there was so much love. Much PugLove and many PugHugs Angel Grunt-Grunt and Momma
Thank you for your kind words. I know I am looking at it from my hearts point of view when I say he deserved better. But maybe I’m being unfair. Maybe they were very busy that night with other emergencies.