• Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 4 months ago

    @kgleason73 Welcome to our caring community, Karen. I’m guessing Carmel and Princess are cat names? Please tell us about them, and let us know how you are doing.

    • Carmel was 11 years old when she passed away. She was diagnosed with mammary gland cancer in may of 2020 and passed away on July 4th 2020 and she had a stroke. It’s been really hard on me it’s been 8 months since she passed and I cry myself to sleep at night sometimes. She was a great cat and well behaved and trained.
      Princess was my first cat and she was 17 years old when she passed away . Carmel was a tortoise shell cat
        • Karen, you are touching me on so many levels: My cat Squirt was a long-haired “torty” ( tortoise) and died when she was 19. My beautiful girl now had her 17th birthday yesterday – we’ve been together four glorious years and we are treating a myriad of ailments, but she’s doing well. Twice, I thought we were going to have to part, but we’ve been able to address her problems. Both times, I was not able to stop crying. It’s just so hard. Intellectually we know they have had a good, long life, but emotionally – well, it’s devastating. The smiles WILL come before your tears… I promise. If it makes you feel better, please share your own thoughts and sympathies with others in our caring community. Please, let us know how you are coming through everything.
            • I have a cat named Sweetness and she was close to Carmel and Princess and Sweetness is is 5 years old and I thought I was going to lose her due to her being sick in December but now she’s healthy and playing with Tabby 7-8 months old kitten.
              I know Carmel was loved very much and it was hard losing her and I kept blaming myself for her getting cancer but found out her mother had cancer. She followed me around the apt and knowing she had cancer really hit me .
              I know it’s tough losing a pet she was my second o e I lost . Princess died in 2018 died of old age 17 years old
                • I’m so sorry you lost Princess and Carmel. I’m sure you are a great cat mom and I’m sure they are very grateful to you for making their time on earth a happy one.