Sonya Slone
@flowergirl80
Active 3 years, 9 months ago-
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 1 month ago
@maurinenazario Hello Maurine. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about your baby, share some photos, and join our kind group meeting online tomorrow, Thursday June 20th at 7PM Eastern if you like. I am so sorry for your loss, and hope you are doing okay, How ARE you doing? Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
Maureen, what lovely, comforting and inspiriong messages you graciously share with us💕I hope you know how much your care, kindness and sentiments mean to us, and I hope you find healing for yourself with them. How are YOU doing now? {{Toni}} -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
Oh Martha, what a sweet Angel.I am so sorry💔Please come to our group meeting Thursday (7PM Eastern) and tell us about Angel and your lives together, and feel welcome to talk about Grumpy, Blue, Sheba and Raina, too. If you haven;t yet, please light a candle for each of them, too. We’re here for you, Martha. {{HUG}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 1 month ago
@siobetty82844 Hello Betty. Please tell us about your baby, and share some photos if you like. I am sorry for your loss and wonder how you are holding up? We are here for you, to listen and support you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
Anne, how are you doing now? Are you finding a lessening of the acute pain from saying goodbye to Jessie? Here’s an exercise you might find helpful in hhealing: Think of each year since 2010 as an inch. Let yourself pick moments from each inch (year) that brought you joy, and remember why you opened your home and heart to Jessie. At the end of your ruler, there is a short time when Jessie was unwell, then found release and relief. I hope that as often as you can, you will visit the years (inches) of love and fun you gave Jessie. Please let us know if this helps you, and please join us Thursday to talk. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
Brony, that is a terrible story for poor little Lucy. Heartbreaking. It’s no wonder you are not only sad, but angry. I am, too. Some people shouldn’t have pets. It may help you to separate the two feelings and address them each. What happened to Lucy was not good, but she found an angel in you and you made her life much better than it had been. The pain of parting is unlike any other and little things can trigger big emotions for a long time. I hope you find some comfort knowing Lucy, and Lulu, were cared for and loved by you until the end of their little lives. I am sending you {{NIG HUGS}}. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago
Brony, I know you said goodbye to Crazy Lucy recently, and it’s understandable that you are suffering, but your post sounds as if something else bad has happened? There is absolutely no timeline or format for grieivng. There are ways to help move through the pain, starting with what we are doing here – talking about it. Living alone amplifies the emptiness and quietude of your home with Lucy being gone. Can you get out each day, maybe for a walk or to a park? Visit with neighbors or friends? Watch something silly on TV? Listen to music you like? I sincerely hope you will come to our meeting next Thursday, June 20th to share with us and be among friends who understand and care.Sending you {{BIG HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Brony, it’s Toni here. What has happened to ,make you feel this way? What’s going on? -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
Do you know that our monthly group meetings are free and open to everyone? Whether you are anticipating, have recenlty experienced, or are healing from the death of a beloved pet, we invite you to join us to share your story, and to help others. Held the third Thursday of each month at 7PM Eastern, the link to join is listed under the “Events” tab on the right side of the Community page. We hope you will join us. It’s good to share among friends who care.
Also, this week, on Thursday, watch for a special email from us!
Keep your babies cool, hydrated, and loved❤️Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Oh, I am so, so sorry, Mary💔Tell us about it when you are ready. We’re here for you. Please come to our meeting Thursday June 20th. We start at 7PM Eastern. The link is under Events. I think it may helpful to be among friends who care🤗Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
I am sorry if we don’t immediately recognize you and admit you into our community, but we work hard to keep out ‘Bots’ and spam, so individually admit new communty members. We are real people, with real feelings who really care for one another. Please feel safe and welcome and understood within our lovely, loving community. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@deanne01 Hello Deanne. I am sorry for your loss of Apollo and welcome you to share with us. What kind of pet was Apollo? May we hear about your lives together, see some pictures? What a great name – how did you come to that? And Deanne, how are you holding up? We understand the pain that is so deep, and are here with you.💔 Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Brony… No. You are not a “bad mom”. You are a kind, caring, generous person who opened herself to another love after losing a dear beloved friend – Lulu. Please don’t even think that of yourself. Here’s the thing- we do not control the pets in our lives. We care for and about them, but they, like we, have their own paths to travel. We can give them creature comforts and care and love, but every one of us has a road to follow, and Crazy Lucy followed hers, Brony, it hurts so deeply, and I am, we are, so very sorry, but just think what a nice, safe, kind life you gave to Lucy ( and Lulu). Please, please. be kind to yourself knowing Lucy, and Lulu, knew your love, and that they would want you to be happy for the lives you shared. Stay here with us as you move throught this, Brony. We are here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
What happened, Honey? Was she unwell? I am truly saddened and hope you are doing okay.💔Try to join our group meeting June 20th. I’d love to “meet” you. And do tell us more about Crazy Lucy😪Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Anne, I think you are right- our animals come to us and are only on loan, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enought). It is terribly painful to sat goodbye, and I hope you and your husband can make your happy memories front and center – it’s hard to cry when you’re laughing about a funny memory. Do you think Jessie would want you to celebrate the time, and times, you shared? I think so. Please let us know how you are coming along, and share some photos and more stories if you like. {{HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@nancyb64 Hello Nancy, and welcome to out caring community. Was your pet named “Pups”? What a charming name. I am so sorry for your loss and invite you to tell us about Pups and your lives together. Please join our monthly group meeting June 20th at 7PM Eastern to talk about Pups, and how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Anne, it is understandable that you are still mourning. It hasn’t been very long and there is no set timeline for moving through the grief of parting.💔 I encourage you to include memories of fun, funny and loving times you and Jessie shared as you think of her. Please tell us more about Jessie and share some stories with us. We’re here for you Anne. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Suzanne, I am so sorry💔It DOES hurt deep inside to say goodbye. I hope you can bring forth memories of the fun, funny and loving times you shared, and that you find some comfort there. Please tell us about Chozen: How did you meet? How long were you togethr? Was Chozen unwell? May we see some pictures of Chozen? We are here for you Suzanne. {HUGS} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@imom2nicknrach Stephanie, I am sorry for your loss of Kasey💔Please tell us about Kasey- what kind of pet, how you met, how long you were together – anything you would like to share, including your feelings. We are here to support you. Toni
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Stephanie, I’m sorry for your loss of Kasey 💔 I know the heartache you are going through and I’m sending you warm thoughts and comforting hugs 💔
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Maureen hi this is Brony. I lost LULU last June, I adopted LUCY and lost her this morning. Didn’t even have her a year. I must be a bad mommy. Or I believe a person to tell me the truth. It hurts so bad.
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Brony… No. You are not a “bad mom”. You are a kind, caring, generous person who opened herself to another love after losing a dear beloved friend – Lulu. Please don’t even think that of yourself. Here’s the thing- we do not control the pets in our lives. We care for and about them, but they, like we, have their own paths to travel. We can give them creature comforts and care and love, but every one of us has a road to follow, and Crazy Lucy followed hers, Brony, it hurts so deeply, and I am, we are, so very sorry, but just think what a nice, safe, kind life you gave to Lucy ( and Lulu). Please, please. be kind to yourself knowing Lucy, and Lulu, knew your love, and that they would want you to be happy for the lives you shared. Stay here with us as you move throught this, Brony. We are here for you. Toni
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Thank you, Toni. I’m glad you are here to help me. I was feeling like such a failure
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Oh Brony, I am so, so sorry for your loss of Lucy 💔 Oh, my heart hurts for OH, and I wish I could give you a big hug. You are not a bad Momma and Im sure Lucy (and Lulu) would agree. You loved and took care of her. Please don’t blame yourself. You took her in even though you were still grieving for your Lulu and gave her a safe and loving home. Be gentle with yourself and know that you did everything you could to keep her safe and happy. May I ask what happened to Lucy? Again, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Sending you warm, comforting hugs at this very sad time 💔 ❤️
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