• Cody posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    I’m so sorry to hear about Shadow… 20 years… what a life! Thinking about you, Karen
    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

      Hello Pam, and welcome to our kind, understanding community of friends. Is it Lea to whom you said goodbye? I am so sorry💔Knowing that our pets (friends) are only “on loan” to us doesn’t help when we actually part, and it doesn’t matter how long we’ve been together – it is never long enough to have them with us. Pam, will you tell us more about Lea and your life together? How did you meet? What was she like (we love to see pictures)? May I ask what happened ? We are here for you and your famiy.
      Toni
      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

        Dianne, how lovely and well said💕You speak from your heart, and own pain. I hope we all find some comfort in the kind, truly sympathetic understanding in our community.
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

          Suzanne, what a moving and heartfelt tribute to beloved Oliver💔❤️It is so loving and generous of you to help him find relief and release from his suffering. It is also the hardest part of loving our babies – letting them go. The emptiness and hole they leave within our hearts and homes is deep. We know, in our heads, when we meet a new little love that one day we will have to say goodbye, but our hearts are never ready to part. I applaud the strength and kindness you have, and continue to share with these deserving sweethearts, and that you are willing to open your home and heart again. You, Sebastian, Takoda and Oreo will help one another heal, and Oliver will always be a treasured member of your family. Thank you Suzanne, for sharing your touching and inspirational story with our caring community, and for the support and kind understanding that you have shared with others here who have suffered the pain of parting. We are all here for you and want to hear more from, and about, you and how you are all doing. When you welcome your next love, we are excited to share in your joy. I am sending you, Sebastian, Takoda, Oreo, and Oliver, a HUGE HUG and my best thoughts. Toni
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

            💔I am sorry for your loss of darling Molly, Cristina. Please tell us more about her, your life together, and tell us how you are doing. Toni
            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

              Linda, I am so sorry to hear this about Nike💔Yes, the pain is excruciaiting and unlike any other. Will you tell us more about Nike and what happened? And Linda, please tell us more about how you are doing. Toni
              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                Janet, I am so sorry💔Do you feel up to telling us more about Sonny and what happened? Toni
                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                  💔Ouch. It hurts like nothing else can, losing a beloved friend like Darla💔I am so very sorry for your pain, Janet. I am also happy for the years of love and fun you and Darla shared, and hope that you can bring forth some of those good memories, and find some comfort knowing Darla had her best life with you. It is a tough reality that our pets are only “on loan” to us, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enough). Please share more with us about Darla, your life together, and how you are coming along. {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                    Eileen, I am sorry that you said goodbye to sweet Loki💔No matter how long a life we share with them, it’s never long enough. I hope that you can find some smiles and comfort recalling the many fun, funny and loving times you and Loki shared. He will always be inside you. Please tell us more about your lives together, and let us know how you are coming along. Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                      💔I am so sorry, Rshell💔Please tell us more about Leia. How are you holding up? Toni
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                        Carolyn, is this Cain? What a darling. I am so sorry for your loss💔Will you tell us about Cain and your life together? How are you holding up? It hurts so badly to say goodbye, and I hope that you are able to find some comfort and smiles with your memories of the wonderful times you shared with Cain. Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

                          SPRING FLOWERS THAT ARE TOXIC FOR CATS:

                          https://www.eastdallasvetclinic.com/services/cats/blog/avoid-cat-astrophe-10-spring-flowers-are-toxic-cats#:~:text=4.,serious%20problems%20if%20left%20untreated.

                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                          Robin, I hope that you will join us this evening to talk about Mooshka and your life togther. It helps to be with kind, caring people who undestand the pain of parting, and to recall the many wonderful times you and Mooshka shared. We meet on Zoom and the link is under the “Events” tab. We start at 7PM Eastern, 4 Pacific, and you can stay as long as you like. You are always welcome to tell us more about Mooshka, and share more pictures, here in our community. I am sending you my sincere condolences. Toni
                          • Cody posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

                            So sorry to hear about Mooshka 💔🐾
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

                              💔I am so sorry, Kimberley💔Can you tell us more about Baron? How old was he? How long were you together? May we see some pictures and hear more about your life together? We are here for you with understanding and support. Toni
                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

                                Oh no, Debbra💔That is just tragic and I am so sorry. I hope that you can join our kind, understanding group Thursday March 20th at 7PM Eastern. We are there to listen and support you. Toni
                                (Link to meeting is under “Events”)
                                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

                                  Oh Sharon, I am so sorry💔Yes, your heart hurts, and I bet your home feels empty. It is so painful when our beloved is no longer with us. May I ask what happened? Was it unexpected, or did you have a period of watching her begin to decline? I find holding a stuffed animal helps fill the emptiness, and maybe, someday, you will be ready to give another darling a loving home and life. But not now. It’s too harsh and painful. Sharon, please tell us more about Lola, and join our kind, supportive group on Zoom Thursday March 20th at 7PM eastern. It helps to talk and get out your sadness with people who care and understand. We’re here for you. Toni
                                  (Link to meeting is under (Events)
                                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

                                    Joanne, feeling that we could have done more is very natural. I think I tried to do too much for my BG and let her go on too long. She had a seizure that I thought was choking, but when she had the second one, in my lap, it was clear that I should have let her go sooner. It;s okay to second guess yourself, but I hope that you will instead remember all the great things you did for, and with, Mama Cat. I wish, we all do, that we never had to say goodbye but our babies are only “on loan” to us and we can only love them lots while they are here. And no, I don’t think keeping her near you is weird at all. You might look at Memory Vessels as a way to keep her close to you. And Joanne, I hope you will join our group meeting March 20th to talk about our feelings with us. Toni

                                    https://memoryvessels.com/
                                    Links to meetings are under “Events” and are held on Zoom

                                    • Toni Noel posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

                                      Remember to set your clocks ahead this weekemd!! And, just because we reset the clock, our animals are still on their timetables. Be patient as they adapt to your new schedule🤗💕Toni

                                      • It’s going to take ne forever to get used to the time change. I think it bother me more than my fur kids
                                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

                                        Nina, what a lovely tribute to Delilah. And what a long, loving life you and she shared. It is a sad fact that our beloved pets are only on loan to us and that one day we have to part. But our memories are with us forever and I hope you have many good ones to bring you comfort. {{HUGS}} Toni
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