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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Brony… No. You are not a “bad mom”. You are a kind, caring, generous person who opened herself to another love after losing a dear beloved friend – Lulu. Please don’t even think that of yourself. Here’s the thing- we do not control the pets in our lives. We care for and about them, but they, like we, have their own paths to travel. We can give them creature comforts and care and love, but every one of us has a road to follow, and Crazy Lucy followed hers, Brony, it hurts so deeply, and I am, we are, so very sorry, but just think what a nice, safe, kind life you gave to Lucy ( and Lulu). Please, please. be kind to yourself knowing Lucy, and Lulu, knew your love, and that they would want you to be happy for the lives you shared. Stay here with us as you move throught this, Brony. We are here for you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
What happened, Honey? Was she unwell? I am truly saddened and hope you are doing okay.💔Try to join our group meeting June 20th. I’d love to “meet” you. And do tell us more about Crazy Lucy😪Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Anne, I think you are right- our animals come to us and are only on loan, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enought). It is terribly painful to sat goodbye, and I hope you and your husband can make your happy memories front and center – it’s hard to cry when you’re laughing about a funny memory. Do you think Jessie would want you to celebrate the time, and times, you shared? I think so. Please let us know how you are coming along, and share some photos and more stories if you like. {{HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@nancyb64 Hello Nancy, and welcome to out caring community. Was your pet named “Pups”? What a charming name. I am so sorry for your loss and invite you to tell us about Pups and your lives together. Please join our monthly group meeting June 20th at 7PM Eastern to talk about Pups, and how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Anne, it is understandable that you are still mourning. It hasn’t been very long and there is no set timeline for moving through the grief of parting.💔 I encourage you to include memories of fun, funny and loving times you and Jessie shared as you think of her. Please tell us more about Jessie and share some stories with us. We’re here for you Anne. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Suzanne, I am so sorry💔It DOES hurt deep inside to say goodbye. I hope you can bring forth memories of the fun, funny and loving times you shared, and that you find some comfort there. Please tell us about Chozen: How did you meet? How long were you togethr? Was Chozen unwell? May we see some pictures of Chozen? We are here for you Suzanne. {HUGS} Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@imom2nicknrach Stephanie, I am sorry for your loss of Kasey💔Please tell us about Kasey- what kind of pet, how you met, how long you were together – anything you would like to share, including your feelings. We are here to support you. Toni
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Stephanie, I’m sorry for your loss of Kasey 💔 I know the heartache you are going through and I’m sending you warm thoughts and comforting hugs 💔
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Maureen hi this is Brony. I lost LULU last June, I adopted LUCY and lost her this morning. Didn’t even have her a year. I must be a bad mommy. Or I believe a person to tell me the truth. It hurts so bad.
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Brony… No. You are not a “bad mom”. You are a kind, caring, generous person who opened herself to another love after losing a dear beloved friend – Lulu. Please don’t even think that of yourself. Here’s the thing- we do not control the pets in our lives. We care for and about them, but they, like we, have their own paths to travel. We can give them creature comforts and care and love, but every one of us has a road to follow, and Crazy Lucy followed hers, Brony, it hurts so deeply, and I am, we are, so very sorry, but just think what a nice, safe, kind life you gave to Lucy ( and Lulu). Please, please. be kind to yourself knowing Lucy, and Lulu, knew your love, and that they would want you to be happy for the lives you shared. Stay here with us as you move throught this, Brony. We are here for you. Toni
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Thank you, Toni. I’m glad you are here to help me. I was feeling like such a failure
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Oh Brony, I am so, so sorry for your loss of Lucy 💔 Oh, my heart hurts for OH, and I wish I could give you a big hug. You are not a bad Momma and Im sure Lucy (and Lulu) would agree. You loved and took care of her. Please don’t blame yourself. You took her in even though you were still grieving for your Lulu and gave her a safe and loving home. Be gentle with yourself and know that you did everything you could to keep her safe and happy. May I ask what happened to Lucy? Again, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Sending you warm, comforting hugs at this very sad time 💔 ❤️
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@misty72 Hi Misty. Please tell us about your baby, and how you are holding up. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
@squirt Hello Sandi, and welcome to our caring community. I am so sorry for your loss of Blu and invite you to share some pictures and stories about Blu. How are you doing? Okay? Not so good? We’re here for you, Sandi. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
Today we remember, thank and honor all who have served, human and nonhuman, for the sacrifices they and their families have made, and continue to make💕
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Leslie, that’s fabulous – talking about your feelings helps “get them out” to clear the path for good memories about the many fun, funny and loving times you were lucky to share. You are always welcome to share here with us, and join out group meeting every third Thursday of the month. We’re here for you🤗 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
Jean, it;s good to hear from you, albeit with sad news and I am so sorry for your loss💔Being with family is wonderful and I am happy you and your pups are enjoying New Jersey🤗Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
Everyone, please check in and update us on how you ared doing. We are here to support you, and to celebrate any good news! Toni
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I went to a local support group again tonite. Am working with a counselor also. Am using prompts from a grief card deck🙏❤️ -
Leslie, that’s fabulous – talking about your feelings helps “get them out” to clear the path for good memories about the many fun, funny and loving times you were lucky to share. You are always welcome to share here with us, and join out group meeting every third Thursday of the month. We’re here for you🤗
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago
Losing a beloved pet brings a pain unlike any other.💔 It’s deep and can hurt for a long time. We help work thorugh that difficult time in our group meetings and I invite you to join us the third Thursday each month to share with our understanding, caring friends. This week on May 16th at 7PM I hope you will come. The link is under “Events” on the right side of the Community page. Our meetings are free and open to everyone regardless of how long it’s been since you said goodbye. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago
What a beautiful tribute, Leslie Ann. Your song is so moving and perfectly expresses the special relationship we have with our beloved babies – the wonderful love and joy, and the pain of parting. This is just lovely and I thank you for wharing your heart with us. 💔I hope you join our meeting Thursday May 16th – I’d love to meet you. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago
Shelters are teeming with puppies and kittens. If you have room in your home and heart, please adopt a more mature new friend💕💕
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Toni Noel posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago
@sandramorales Danger. What a great name. May we hear about Danger and see some photos? And Sandra, how are you doing now? I am so sorry for your loss and hope you will share with us here. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago
Angie, again, I am so sorry. Time is distorted when we suffer a loss, especially with Marty being so young. There is no timeline for getting used to the emptiness, but I do hope you are finding some comfort in comforting Tommy and Marty’s momma. How are they doing now? Please come to our group support meeting May 16th – I think it will be good for you to talk with us about Marty, and your feelings. And please keep sharing here in our community. We care and are here for you.
{{BIG HUGS}} Toni
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