• Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

    Katie, that is a touching and loving story and I am gald you shared it with us. It’s soooo hard to saygoodbye, but what a wonderful life you gave them both. We’d love to see pictures if you’d like to share. Toni
    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

      Tana, Thank You. Thank you for sharing so honestly and deeply. Our community is here for you, your husband, and please let your daughter know – we are here for her, too. Zoe was, and if you allow her to be, still is, a major source of support for each and all of you. She is not physically there but you know darn tight well she is still with, and within you all. They say “Be the person your pet thinks you are” and I often think of that. Zoe knew each of you as the heroes you are, and I hope you keep and honor her spirit knowing that. What a charming photo. Please send us more, and please share more with us. I am, we are, thinking of you. Toni
      • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago

        @kmgates Welcome to our caring community, Katie. Please tell us about your baby.

        • Well my baby boy was a surprise i had just gotten his mom a couple months before he was born he was the most amazing dog he was a chichipug so he was very small best personality wveryone knew him cuz hisom and him rode in a cart behind my bike and he always made ppl amile very loving always on the go i call his mom and him the littles u could never miss his big ol smile his bottom jaw stuck out and all his bottom teeth he always had a smile if u was haveing a bad day he would try to make u feel better he was my baby boy i loved him so much he was ment for me he was even born in my laphis mom ans him was always qith me no matter what his mom and him were ment to be with me ill never find another baby icey he was very popular with everyone last oct he was poisoned by someone that had issues with dogs that i didnt know about i faught to keep him alive but he passed away i waa doing everything the vet said (doc pohl is an amazing vet)but he passed away in my arms he was very loved and missed by many even though i was broken hearted i knew i had to care for his mom who was broken hearted and there with him as well when he passed he had a very loved full life as he made it to a year old and 2lbs ill never find another baby icey but i still have part of him his mom and his ashes in a beautiful royal blue gem i wear around my neck so he is with me still i still have a very hard time with it still but he lives on through his mom and me and everyone he made smile
          • Katie, that is a touching and loving story and I am gald you shared it with us. It’s soooo hard to saygoodbye, but what a wonderful life you gave them both. We’d love to see pictures if you’d like to share. Toni
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

            I am sorry, Martha. What a darling girl Molly was. How long were you together? As we heal through our grieving, it helps to recall the fun, funny and loving times we shared, but there are always those moments when you look for them, expect to see them come say “hi”, or reach for their food and it hits you – I miss my baby, That’s a great moment to allow yourself to think of them and cherish the time we were gifted to share. Let us know more about Molly, and how you are doing. Toni
            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

              Barbara, As a fellow adopter of senior animals, I thank you for sharing your experiences, insights and knowledge with our Community. If we can help others, we’ve done a good thing. One thing I’ve learned and take to heart is that, while we love them so much we don’t want to let them go, we love them enough TO let them go, especially in a peaceful fashion if we can. Apache Princess is so fortunate to have you by her side as she ages, a loving companion who pays attention to her needs and provides the best of care for her. You are really a gift to her, too. You must keep us posted about her, and please share more of your experiences, and kindness. I am sending you both {{BIG BIG HUGS). Toni Oh, please try to join one of our online group meetings.
              • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago

                @mkdw4304 Bear. What a great name, Mary. What kind of pet was Bear? May we hear about your lives together, see some photos, and hear from you about how you are doing? Toni

              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                What a beautiful, touching and inspiring photo of Sara. I hope you’ll share more with us, Amber. When did you part? How long were you together? How did you meet? Please tell us more about your life of love with Sara, and know we are here for you. Toni
                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                  Darlene, Mojo had such beautiful eyes and lovely face, and I am just so very sad and sorry for your loss. Please tell us more about Mojo.
                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                    What big personalities they had, Debra Ann. How did you meet them? Did they live with you at the same time? Were they good friends? Please tell us about them. I am sorry for your losses. Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                      Lola, No one can answer your question but you – “How to tell him”. Do you think it would be kinder for your brother if you wait until he’s released? Perhaps you can make a photo collection for him so he has that. You can post a lasting memorial for Angel in our Memorials tab. If he asks about Angel, you wouldn’t want to lie, but my inclination is to not bring it up unless he does. Let’s see what others in our Comunity say. I am sorry for the loss of Angel. What a little darling. Toni
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                        Jennifer, I am so sorry for your loss of Brutus. If ever there was an apt name, it is Brutus for him. What a gorgeous fellow. Please tell us about Brutus and your lives together. We’re here for you with sympathy and understanding. Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

                          Fifteen years, 100 years – it’s never long enough for us to be with our darlings. Leigh, reading how small and sad Sammi was when you met, and how much love and fun she had with you, I hope your many memories of the good life you shared bring you joy. Sammi was so happy for her life with you and I am sure she wants you to be happy, too. Each day can you think of, maybe write down, a fun or funny memory? I find it helps to deliberately recall those. Our group meets tonight at 7 EST if you would like to come share with us. Link is under “Events”. Toni
                          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                            @shianne Suzanne, Thank you for kind words of sympathy, and THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts that you may have waited too long for dear Spirit. You have done our community a service by sharing that. I had lunch with a friend whose cat had a mass similar to Walter’s that ruptured. My friend told me “Toni, she was in agony. Don’t let that happen to Walter”. I heard and heeded those words every day and it made the decision so much easier, knowing Walter wouldn’t suffer the unneccessary pain his beloved cat did. I may have waited too long last year with my Deanna “Beauty Girl”, too. We learn to let go before they needlessly suffer and I hope you find comfort for yourself knowing Autumn Ranger and Saraya received the best of your love in letting them go. You are a kind, loving pet person and I am truly grateful to have you in our community. My best wishes and thoughts are with you. Toni

                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                            Thank you all for you soothing words of kindness and understanding, not just for my loss(es), but for each and everyone here in our caring community. It does help to both hear from others and share my own sympathy for your losses. I am choosing to recall the fun, funny and sweet things Walter did and was. He was better longer than he was ‘bad’ (unwell) and I am so grateful he was doted on, adored, cared for and loved as his life wound down. And I am deeply grateful for this community. Thank you 🤗Hope to see you tomorrow in our group meeting.
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                              Ummmm … what do you mean – a real suck? Yikes ๐Ÿ™‚
                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                                Wow! You made my night, Sandy. They are each so special, and so are their names. Good for you, good for them to be with you. Love it! How is it that you have so many? I am totally intrigued and grateful for your care. Toni
                                • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                                  @melodys Mike, Zoey and Kemar – what a lot of pets you have cared for and about, Melody. Please tell us about each of them, and share more photos. How are you doing? Toni

                                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                                  Oooohhh, how lovely and loving of you, Sandy. Please tell us more and share more photos.
                                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                                    I am sorry for your loss of Sammi, Leigh. Please tell us about Sammi and your lives together. Toni
                                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                                      Penny, I am so sorry. I agree – the silence and emptiness are oppressive. It’s so strange and shocking to walk in and no one is there to greet us. I love the tatoo idea. What a charming way to honor Donnie. I posted a memorial here on the site in tribute to Walter. It was hard gong through the photos and videos without crying, but that’s a good thing – it releases some of the grief. I say “Joy shared is joy doubled, grief shared is grief halved”. That’s why we share in our group gatherings (join us this Thursday evening). And of course you love Donnie more than your kids – he wasn’t a teenager :-)…. Keep in touch and let us know how, and what, you are doing. And thank you for your sympathy. {{HUGS}} Toni
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