• Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    Shadoerae, you have had so much loss of those most dear to you, and in such a short time, it is understandably overwhelming💔I am so very sorry foryour pain, and extreme losses. Do you have family or friends to be with you? Who is the kitty in the picture with Echo? Our pets mourn the loss of their buddy, too, and I hope that yo are comforting each other. Please tell us more about Echo if you would like, and feel welcome to join our online group meeting Thursday February 20th at 7PM Eastern (4PM Pacific) to share more with us. You will find kind, understanding and supportive friends here, and in the meeting. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}} and my deepest sympathy. Toni
    (Links to meetings are under “Events” on the right side of this page)
    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

      💔I am so sorry. Tell us what happened? Toni
      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

        Leslie, I am sorry for your pain. Grief has no timeline, and I think there is akways a sadness when we think of our beloved babies, even years later when our memories bring us joy. It is not a betrayal to smile and laugh with our memories of the fun, funny, loving times we were lucky to share. Quite the opposite – we honor our pets when we recall the wonderful lives we shared.When you die, do you want people to be happy for having had you in their lives? I do, and I think our babies do, too. Leslie, perhaps you could write to Tanner, telling her your feelings, and write TO you FROM Tanner with what you think she would want you to know about her life with you. I suspect she wants you to be happy for the times you shared. Please let us know how you are coming along, Leslie. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

          Delvia, I think grief may always have a place in our memories, and I hope the pain lessens as you recall the many wonderful times you shared. Perhaps you can write him a note expressing your love and how you feel, and write one FROM him TO you with what you think he would want you to know. I suspect he would be happy for the loving life you shared, and want you to be happy that he was a part of it, do you think? Let us know how you are coming along. Toni
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

            Annette, you may find tears for a long time with your thoughts of Coco, but I hope that you are also finding some smiles when you think of fun, funny and loving mements you and Coco shared. Please tell us more about Coco, and keep us posted on how you are doing. Sending you {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

              Oh Gwena, what a little darling Boobies was. May I ask how old he was? How long were you together? Was Boobie unwell? The pain of parting is deep and unlike any other, but would you agree that so are the joys you were lucky to share? Please tell us more about Boobie and the life you shared. With my deepest sympathy. Toni
              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                Christine, I am so very sorry💔How did you meet
                Ammo? How long were you together? Please share some of your favotite moments with us. I hope that you can find some smiles in your memories. It does hurt terribly when we have to say goodbye and we are here to listen and support you. Toni
                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                  Hi Cindy. I am sorry you had to say goodbye to darling Dozer, but happy he is at peace now. I think we always carry a piece of grief for our beloved babies, along with the many wonderful memories we are lucky to recall. Sometimes the pain of parting is stronger than at other times, and that is understandable. I hope that you are also finding joy when you think of Dozer. Perhaps you can write a note to him, telling him your feelings, and write a note FROM Dozer to you with what you think he would want you to know. I bet he would be grateful for your love and the lovely life you shared, do you think? CIndy, please let us know how you are doing, and if you like, share your own understanding, sympathy and encourgement with others here in our kind, caring community. We are here for you. Toni
                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                    Dana, is this O’Malley? He looks like a charmer and it is understandabble that you are heartbroken💔to say goodbye. Please tell us more about him. I am sending you my condolnces. Toni
                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                      Cari, I am so sorry. 💔We wish our pets could speak to us to tell us when something is wrong, but all we can do is watch them and go by what the doctors say. Ten years, a hundred, it
                      s never long enough time together and I hope you find some comfort knowing Landon enjoyed his best life with you. Please tel us more about Landon if you’d like. Toni
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                        Leanna, what are you doing to heal your broken heart? Can you recall the many fun, funny times you shared with darling Bella Donna, and find some comfort knowing she lived her best life of love with you? I hope so. It’s a shame that our babies are only on loan to us, never for long enough (forever wouldn’t be long enugh).Perhaps you could write a note from Bella Donna to you with what you think she would want you to know. I suspect she would be grateful, and want you to find joy with your memories of her. What do you think she wants you to know? Maybe you can write a note to her, letting her know all the good that she brought to your life. Leanna, please let us know how you are coping. We’re here for you. Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                          Oh Marie, how awful💔I am so very sorry. Miracle had a big oersonality and it is understandable that you are shattered. I hope you can find a bit of comfort knowing that in her much too short life she had fun, and was much loved. It’s going to hurt deeply and I encourage you to stay with us and tell us how you are coming along. I am sending you a {{HUGE HUG} and my heartfelt sympathy. Toni
                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                            Oh Kim, I am so sorry. It hurts deeply, and like nothing else does. Please tell us about your baby when you are up to it, and know that we are here for you with understanding and support. Toni
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                              Oh, how sad, Jennifer💔It’s always sad, but to lose her at such a young age is just heartbreaking. May I ask what happened? Please share more with us, including how you are coping. I am sending you a {{BIG HUG}} Toni
                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                Teresa, I am so sorry💔Sixteen years is a good run for Monkie but we know that we never want to say goodbye. Will you tell us more about her, please? She is a cutie and looks very sweet. Teresa, please let us know how you are doing. We’re here for you. Toni
                                • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                  Sydney was SO pretty. I am sorry you had to say goodbye and hope that you are finding some comfort recalling memories of the fun, funny, loving times you shared. Please tell us more – How did you meet? How long were you together? Anything you can share, we would love to hear. Toni
                                  • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                    Oh, what a charmer. Tell us more about Thor, Amy – how you met; how long you were together; what Thor was like….anything you would like to share, we would like to share with you. Toni
                                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                      I am so sorry, Debra. In our heads we know our pets are only on loan to us, but our hearts shatter when we say goodbye💔How long were you and Allie together? How did you meet? Did she enjoy a life of fun and love? I suspect so, and hope that you can try to recall those wonderful times together, and find some comfort there. Please tell us more about Allie and your lives together. We are here for you. Toni
                                      • Toni Noel posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

                                        Our hearts are breaking for everyone affected by the California fires💔The Red Cross is allowing pets to shelter with their people, which is magnificent🙌If you can’t take your pets or animals with you to temporary housing, please contact shelters in the area. You can locate shelters in your area by using our “Find Services” tab.

                                        For horses and larger animals, here are some options:

                                        Believe Ranch & Rescue, Rosewood Equestrian, West Coast Equine Emergency and Disaster Response, Carret Rescue Rangers, Rancho Contento, Sandy Valley Ranch (they have the capacity for 100 horses), and Desert Horse Park

                                        Our community is here to assist in any way we can.
                                        Toni

                                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                        Christine, I am so sorry.💔 It sounds as if Tori was unwell and struggling. Knowing how much to do, and when to help her find relief and release is so hard to figure out. It seems you know you gave Tori the final gift of love – a peaceful passing to end her suffering. Now you are suffering the deep pain of parting and it hurts like nothing else does. We want our beloved babies to be with us forever, but they are only on loan to us, never for long enough. I hope you can pull forth some memories of the many fun, funny and loving times you shared, and allow yourself to find some joy in those memories. Please join our kind group meeting this Thursday to share with us. We are here for you. Toni

                                        Link to meeting is under the “Events” tab.

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