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    Laurie posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    I have a friend who lost her 16 year old dog, Princess, the other day. She is all by herself and lives a plane ride away from me. I’m worried about her as she is taking this loss so hard and says “unless you are an animal lover, people don’t understand. Any thoughts on what to say/do for her? I’ve lost my dog and know her pain.

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      Toni Noel replied 2 years, 7 months ago
      You are a good friend to help her, Laurie. She needs to know there are others who truly undertsand the depth of her pain. Here are a few things you can do to help her:
      1. Acknowledge her pain as real and deep. (which you’ve done, but keep doing)
      2. Ask her what she is doing in memory of her beloved. Can she make a tribute box of favorite toys, blankets, photos?
      3. Write to Princess telling her how she feels, and what she loves about their times together-fun, funny, loving and challenging times. She might also write what she thinks Princess would want her to know, as if written from Princess.
      4. You can make a contribution in memory of Princess to a shelter.
      5. Have your friend attend our group support meeting January 18th at 7PM Eastern The link is under “Events”.
      6. Encourage her to light a candle and create a memorial to Princess in our caring community. She will find many kind people to lend her support.
      Laurie, please let me know if this helps her, and how we might further support her.
      I am sending you both my best wishes, and sympathy. Toni