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    Liz Michelle posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    We fund each other almost 14 years ago, we were so sad and she brought happiness again….we were a family, every where together no matter what, Now sadness without words since her departure …. To express how we feel since she left? the horrible silence she left and tender loving memories all around, I’m just devastated beyond my words and beyond my heart …..I miss her so much, we miss her so much, all I think is the things I could have done And I didn’t do and now she’s gone forever, something my heart and mind can’t bear 😭💔

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      Toni Noel replied 3 years, 9 months ago
      It’s next to impossible not to feel guilty for for acts small and large that we think we could have done, but in reality, we always act in the best interest of our pets. In retrospect, maybe something could have been different, but you never did anything that wasn’t best for Mindy at the time, based on the information you had. Is that right, Liz? And the most important thing you ever did, or could do, was share your home and heart, and care for and about each other. There is no flawless relationship in life. Please make a list of the things you feel guilty about and one by one, recall the circumstances and I bet you will find that you made the best choices.
      I am greedy – I want my pets with me forever, but they are only on loan to us and I have to cherish the endless fun and love, grieve the emptiness of parting, and then honor our lives together by finding smiles before tears with her memory. I know you will one day, but this is just a devastating time and it hurts at a cellular level. It’s not easy and we understand. We’re right here for and with you so feel safe sharing with us. I hope this {{HUG}} helps. Toni