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    Jackie posted an update in the group Group logo of RememberRemember 3 years, 10 months ago

    💔 A couple weeks ago I had to have my other baby put to sleep. She was in last stages of congestive heart failure and we done did everything there was to do for her. And I have been ate up with guilt. I didn\’t tell her goodbye or take a few mins with her b4 they took her back and put her to sleep. And when I brought her home and buried her beside her dad( that I lost last year on 9-10-21) I didn\’t even take a min to say anything to her then. I just couldn\’t bring myself to do it. It was killing me to have to have her put to sleep and I couldn\’t deal with it at the time. And it was selfish of me and I regret it everyday. And I wish I would of took a few moments to tell her goodbye and let her know how much I loved her and was going miss her and that she was not going to have to suffer no more.But I didn\’t bc of my own selfish feelings and bc I couldn\’t and didn\’t want to face it or accept it at the time. And I have been ate up with guilt bc of it. She had no idea what was about to happen and that this time when the vet took her back to examine her that she wasn\’t ever going see me again. I was just a regular vet visit to her. I HAVE FELT SO GUILTY AND REGRET SO BADLY EVERYDAY THAT I DIDNT TAKE THE TIME TO TELL HER BYE AND LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE HER & WAS GOING TO MISS HER AND THAT EVERYTHING WAS GOING BE OK AND SHE WASNT GOING BE SUFFERING NO MORE AND THAT SHE WAS GOING TO GO SEE and BE WITH HER MAMA AND DADDY AGAIN. AND I WOULD SEE HER SOON. THE GUILT I FEEL FOR NOT DOING THAT IS EATING ME UP. R.I.P.MY baby girl, enjoy ur time with ur other mom and dad. I\’m so sorry please forgive me😭
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      Susan replied 3 years, 10 months ago
      Jackie, Please don’t burden your broken Heart anymore than it already is. Sometimes there are things that are very difficult for us to comprehend or do and helping our Fur-Babies cross the Rainbow Bridge can be one of those things. Please think of all the Beautiful Memories you had together and remember she’s still near you where you laid her to Rest 💙🐾💜 Give yourself some time to Heal and just keep her Love Alive in your Heart 💞
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        Jackie replied 3 years, 10 months ago
        Thank you