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  • Susan posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago

    Last night I lost my Teddy .I Bear kitty to heart failure.I feel so broken inside.

    • Oh no, Susan. I am so, so sorry. These are the days we know will come one day, and when they do, it’s devastating. But, we know going in that our darlings are only “on loan” to us, and we get to enjoy the time of loving and joy together for as long as we, and they, can. It hurts in a way nothing else does and I feel it with you. A stuffed toy helped me – do you have something with which you can cuddle? Don’t be too quick to remove Teddy’s things. You may be surprised by the comfort they can bring you over the next days and weeks. Try to stay active and engaged with other things, and allow yourself time to feel your grief and the pain. That’s the path to a day when your memories will bring you smiles before tears. It takes a lot of love to share a life, and say goodbye. I hope you know that you and Teddy were very fortunate to have each other, and he would only want for you to rejoice in your shared life and love, as you would for him. Susan, please, please let us know how you are coming through. I’m thinking of you. {{ }} Toni
      • It’s really hard.I cry all the time and my boyfriend doesn’t understand
        • Well, WE understand, Susan. And we know the depth of your pain. Maybe just talk with us in our community for awhile, and Thursday September 22nd at 8PM Eastern (5 Paciific) will you please join us for our Group Meeting in Zoom? Here is the link:

          TONI NOEL is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

          Topic: Faithful Friends September Meeting
          Time: Sep 22, 2022 06:00 PM Mountain Time (US and Canada)

          Join Zoom Meeting
          https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87463961127?pwd=VXJRT3pJcUY5OHdzcTNvb2RMZlNXUT09

          Meeting ID: 874 6396 1127
          Passcode: 564285