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    Martha posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    Today is the 4 month anniversary of my Missy \’s passing. I am just so lost without her. I usually have my family here during Christmas but I just can\’t bring myself to do it this year. Missy loved everyone and was always the center of attention.
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      Toni Noel replied 4 years, 8 months ago
      Oh Martha, I am so sorry. And I understand, we all do – it hasn’t been very long and holidays make everything so much more intense. I would be surprised if you WEREN’T crying still. Even if you don’t host the holiday, can you have your family with you? I’m sure they understand, don’t they? Maybe you could go to them this year…..Well, I’ll be here all holiday season so you feel welcome to share with us here. And, I have been, and will be thinking of you. Toni
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          Martha replied 4 years, 8 months ago
          I will be my family Christmas morning for brunch at my niece ‘s. But, I usually have them Gere sometime between Christmas and New Years. I am not doing that this year. Just can’t get the house ready and prepare the meal.
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              Toni Noel replied 4 years, 8 months ago
              That sounds purrrfect and lovely, Martha. And you know what? Let the ‘kids’ do the work this year. It’ll be good for you to get out of your house. Please let us know how your holiday was. I hope each day you are feeling a bit stronger. {HUG}
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            Toni Noel replied 4 years, 8 months ago
            Hi Martha. Checking in with you. How are you doing now? I’m anticipating saying goodbye to my beloved, sweet girl and thinking of your comments about tears – how they just overwhelm you at times. That’s happening to me. I hope you are feeling better, and continue to. Please let us know how you are.
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              Martha replied 4 years, 8 months ago
              I am so sorry that your kitty isn’t doing well. I am praying.
              The closer it gets to Christmas, the more difficult it is for me. I did get out Sunday afternoon to volunteer at our local Museum for the Christmas Train Wonderland. Most of the time I can stay busy during the day. My worst time is the long evenings and nights. Today, the tears just will not stop. I try to comment on other people’s posts but that brings tears too. I keep praying that I will get past the worst of this terrible pain.