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KATHY posted an update 5 years, 5 months ago
NOT MUCH JUST MISSING MY BABY DALE EARNHARDT AND MY SISTER AND HER BOYFRIEND HAVE 2 DOGS AND 1 THINKS THAT I’M HER MOM AND I’M NOT READY FOR THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO I DON’T WANT TO PUSH HER AWAY FROM ME
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Kathy, I am sorry you and Dale Earnhardt have said goodbye. You need time to grieve and heal, and there is no timeline on that. It’s a nice statement about you that one of your sister’s dogs has such affection for you, they know loving people, and you will always be kind to animals. Now you need your sister to understand that you need some kindness, too, and that it would be considerate if she would visit with you without the dogs until you are ready to reengage with them. Did your sister’s dogs know DE? If so, they may be missing him, too, and are expressing their sadness to you, looking to you for a bit of comfort. Gradually you will all be able to spend joyful times together. I hope my thoughts help, and please let me know what evolves. Perhaps others in our community have some ideas to share with you. I’ll be thinking of you. Hugs, Toni-
THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS MY SISTER REALLY KNOWS WHAT I’M GOING THROUGH SHE HAD TO GIVE UP HER DOG’S A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO AND HER BOYFRIENDS DOG IS A DAUSHOND AND HE WAS AROUND DALE WHEN DALE WAS ABOUT 2 YEARS OLD AND I CAN REMEMBER WHEN RUDY WOULD RUN UP TO DALE AND TRY TO GET HIM TO PLAY BUT RUDY WOULD RUN UP TO DALE FROM BEHIND AND THEN HE WOULD RUN AWAY AND I WOULD LIKE TO NOT HAVE MY SISTER’S DOG NOT BE WITH ME BUT BOTH OF THEM ARE ALLERGIC TO HER HAIR BECAUSE SHE HAS SKIN ISSUES AND SHE IS ALWAYS SCRATCHING AND BITING HER BACK SO SHE HAS TO SLEEP WITH ME AND SHE IS A LITTLE DOG AND I DON’T MIND TALKING ABOUT DALE BECAUSE I THINK THAT IF I TALK ABOUT DALE IT HELPS ME BUT I DIDN’T THINK THAT RUDY WOULD DO THE SAME THING’S AS DALE SO I TELL RUDY EVERY DAY THAT I LOVE HIM BUT HE IS #2 BECAUSE DALE WILL ALWAYS BE MY #1
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It sounds like you are all doing your best to deal with the sad situation, and that Rudy is seeking and giving you support, too, Kathy. Please keep us updated.
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YES RUDY IS HELPING ME A LOT I HAD TO MOVE BECAUSE I REALLY STARTING TO LOSE IT BECAUSE I DIDN’T HAVE THE MONEY TO CREMATE DALE SO I HAD TO BRING HIM HOME AND BURIED HIM IN THE BACK YARD I WOULD GO OUT AND SLEEP WITH HIM AND I WOULD GO AND SEAT AND EAT WITH HIM I WOULD EVEN SEE HIM IN THE HOUSE MY BED SO I HAD TO LEAVE HIM BEHIND AND THAT IS KILLING ME EVERY DAY AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE LET HIM DOWN
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