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Nickia peck posted an update 5 years, 7 months ago
We lost our oil bandit over the summeR . he was only three months old .we think he ate something he shouldn’t have ..I was the one who delivered him and he took his lasT breathe in my arms.. I have cried so much I’m out of tears.. I miss him so much and feel so much guilt about him being gone … He was the most loveable little ray of sunshine I just miss him so much words can’t express it..so sorry for all of your losses as well.
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I am sorry for your loss. It’s so hard I know I tried to enjoy my Christmas but I slept most of the day. -
Nickia, oh my, I am so sorry. I hope this helps you: I had a 9 month old kitten – Nicki -who would not go outside, ever. But one night she literally leapt over her mother and went out. It was really odd. I told her mother (a cat) to go find Nicki, and she came back to the door, and I said to MY mother “Nicki is dead”. My mother said “what are you talking about”, but my Nicki’s mother (a cat of course) somehow let me know, and sure enough, little Nicki had been hit by a car. I feel guilty for letting her out, but I didn’t really – she JUMPED over her mother to get out, almost as if she was driven to…. It’s hard to explain how we relate with our pets, how they relate to us, and accept that every living thing has it’s own life cycle. Little Bandit must have had a cycle, a mission, some reason to touch you, to bring you such a depth of love. Please, Nickia, let us know how you are doing, and how we can help you. I am sending you a HUG. Toni -
Dear Nickia, We haven’t heard from you for a bit and I hope you are doing okay. Maybe now that the holidays are over you will start feeling better – grateful for the time you had with Bandit, and no guilt. You loved him and that’s what you were here to do. Please let us know how you are.
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