• Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    Well that’s a shmae, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you, but they won’t really

    That’s a shame, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you. I think pets may be more resilient than we are, though :-). Yes, do show photos, and stay in touch. Best wishes to you, too.

      • Kathy, How is your move going?
          • HELLO TONI, I’M STILL HERE IN GA FOR 1 MORE WEEK AND THE LONGER I STAY THE MORE I FALL MORE IN LOVE WITH RUDY AND ROXANNE I MEAN ROXANNE IS BY MY SIDE 24/7 UNTIL I HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE AND THEN SHE WILL SIT ON THE BED AND WAIT FOR ME TO GET BACK SO I’M TAKING LOTS OF PICTURES
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

          Oh my, Lisa, you have me smiling and crying at the same time. What a charming and moving ode. How kind and dear you are to write this, and generous to share it with us. I don’t know if you use Facebook, but if you want to post it, our name on Facebook is MYFaithfulfriends. Thank you, thank you, for this poetic gift. Toni
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

            It’s nice, and I know how important a memorial is, Dianne. It can really help heal. Just click the “Memorials” tab at the top of this page. We have to charge a very nominal fee of $29./year to help offset our cost. You may share anything you want about Bessie, as many photos as you like, and keep adding as often as you want. Please let me know if you need any help. Hugs.
            • KATHY posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

              YES I’M LEAVING MY SISTER’S HOME AND I’M NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO SEE KING RUDY OR ROXANNE ANY MORE SO I’M I’M TATAKING LOTS OF PICTURES AND VIDEOS BUT I WILL STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOU
                • Well that’s a shmae, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you, but they won’t really

                  That’s a shame, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you. I think pets may be more resilient than we are, though :-). Yes, do show photos, and stay in touch. Best wishes to you, too.

                    • Kathy, How is your move going?
                        • HELLO TONI, I’M STILL HERE IN GA FOR 1 MORE WEEK AND THE LONGER I STAY THE MORE I FALL MORE IN LOVE WITH RUDY AND ROXANNE I MEAN ROXANNE IS BY MY SIDE 24/7 UNTIL I HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE AND THEN SHE WILL SIT ON THE BED AND WAIT FOR ME TO GET BACK SO I’M TAKING LOTS OF PICTURES
                    • Lisa posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                      And St. Francis asked Boo’s spirit
                      Are you ready to come home?
                      Oh, yes, quite so, replied Boo’s precious soul
                      And, as a cat, I am most able to decide anything for myself

                      Are you coming then? Asked St. Francis
                      Soon, replied the whiskered angel Boo
                      But I must come slowly. For you see, my human friend is troubled.
                      For you see, she needs me, quite certainly.

                      But doesn’t she understand? asked St. Francis
                      That you’ll never leave her?
                      That your souls are intertwined for all eternity?
                      That nothing is created or destroyed?
                      It just is…forever and ever and ever.

                      Eventually she will understand,
                      Replied the glorious Boo,
                      For I will whisper into her heart
                      That I am always with her
                      I just am…forever and ever and ever
                      Her alley cat, Boo.

                      • Oh my, Lisa, you have me smiling and crying at the same time. What a charming and moving ode. How kind and dear you are to write this, and generous to share it with us. I don’t know if you use Facebook, but if you want to post it, our name on Facebook is MYFaithfulfriends. Thank you, thank you, for this poetic gift. Toni
                      • Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                        I would love a memorial to my Bessie.She is always my best friend.
                          • It’s nice, and I know how important a memorial is, Dianne. It can really help heal. Just click the “Memorials” tab at the top of this page. We have to charge a very nominal fee of $29./year to help offset our cost. You may share anything you want about Bessie, as many photos as you like, and keep adding as often as you want. Please let me know if you need any help. Hugs.
                            • Hi Dianne. Do you need help with your memorial for Bessie? If so, let me know. I hope you are doing well.
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                              Thank you for sharing your sympathy and support, Dianne. Our community doesn’t work without, well, our community members. We recently opened our memorials area and I wonder if a memorial to Bessie would be a healing place for you to keep her memories, that you can visit and update, and know it’s always there for you. I’ll be writing more about the healing help memorials can provide, but one major benefit is to have a place just for Bessie so you can open your heart to more joys and loves. You are so kind to care for and about others who are hurting. That means so much. I’m happy to hear from you, Dianne.
                                • I would love a memorial to my Bessie.She is always my best friend.
                                    • It’s nice, and I know how important a memorial is, Dianne. It can really help heal. Just click the “Memorials” tab at the top of this page. We have to charge a very nominal fee of $29./year to help offset our cost. You may share anything you want about Bessie, as many photos as you like, and keep adding as often as you want. Please let me know if you need any help. Hugs.
                                      • Hi Dianne. Do you need help with your memorial for Bessie? If so, let me know. I hope you are doing well.
                                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                      Kathy, I am glad to hear from you with your update. Are you moving from your sister’s home? Will you be able to visit with Rudy and Roxanne?
                                        • YES I’M LEAVING MY SISTER’S HOME AND I’M NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO SEE KING RUDY OR ROXANNE ANY MORE SO I’M I’M TATAKING LOTS OF PICTURES AND VIDEOS BUT I WILL STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOU
                                            • Well that’s a shmae, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you, but they won’t really

                                              That’s a shame, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you. I think pets may be more resilient than we are, though :-). Yes, do show photos, and stay in touch. Best wishes to you, too.

                                                • Kathy, How is your move going?
                                                    • HELLO TONI, I’M STILL HERE IN GA FOR 1 MORE WEEK AND THE LONGER I STAY THE MORE I FALL MORE IN LOVE WITH RUDY AND ROXANNE I MEAN ROXANNE IS BY MY SIDE 24/7 UNTIL I HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE AND THEN SHE WILL SIT ON THE BED AND WAIT FOR ME TO GET BACK SO I’M TAKING LOTS OF PICTURES
                                              • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                Elaina, we welcome you to our caring community of pets lovers, most of whom have experienced the deep pain of parting from our beloved pet. It is so kind of our members to extend their own sympathy and understanding – it helps us to know we’re not alone, someone really understands, and cares. Thank you Shannon, for reaching out. Elaina, was Holly a cat by any chance? My 17 year old has compromised kidneys (among other problems) and I think it is a common ailment in cats. Perhaps dogs too? Would you like to share some of your photographic memories with us? Mourning takes as much time as it takes- there is no time frame, but hopefully your smiles will come before tears and your sweet, fun memories will bring you comfort, and much joy for the life you shared. Stay with us, Elaina, and let us know how your are dong.
                                                  • Yep. Holly was a cat. She had the most beautiful eyes. I remember the day after I put her down, it was such a painful day for me. I couldn’t believe she was just gone, just like that. I couldn’t walk around my apartment. I just couldn’t. I just laid in bed all day crying for her. Weeks to follow. It was such an emptiness, a silence. The silence was venue loud because it was a reminder she was no longer here with me. I have tons of pics of her. She was my heart.
                                                  • For those of you who recently lost a precious four legged baby,I am deeply sorry for your loss.I lost my best friend who was 15&1/2 who passed away 1 year ago on April 16th and I truly understand your heartache.

                                                    • Thank you for sharing your sympathy and support, Dianne. Our community doesn’t work without, well, our community members. We recently opened our memorials area and I wonder if a memorial to Bessie would be a healing place for you to keep her memories, that you can visit and update, and know it’s always there for you. I’ll be writing more about the healing help memorials can provide, but one major benefit is to have a place just for Bessie so you can open your heart to more joys and loves. You are so kind to care for and about others who are hurting. That means so much. I’m happy to hear from you, Dianne.
                                                        • I would love a memorial to my Bessie.She is always my best friend.
                                                            • It’s nice, and I know how important a memorial is, Dianne. It can really help heal. Just click the “Memorials” tab at the top of this page. We have to charge a very nominal fee of $29./year to help offset our cost. You may share anything you want about Bessie, as many photos as you like, and keep adding as often as you want. Please let me know if you need any help. Hugs.
                                                              • Hi Dianne. Do you need help with your memorial for Bessie? If so, let me know. I hope you are doing well.
                                                          • KATHY posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                            WELL I’M MOVING ON THE 3RD AND I’M GOING TO REALLY REALLY REALLY MISS RUDY AND ROXANNE AND I TELL RUDY EVERY DAY THAT HE HAS HELPED ME OUT A LOT AND THAT HE WILL NEVER NO HOW MUCH AND ROXANNE WELL SHE SLEEPS WITH ME AND YES I DO HAVE LOTS OF PICTURES AND VIDEOS OF THEM

                                                            • Kathy, I am glad to hear from you with your update. Are you moving from your sister’s home? Will you be able to visit with Rudy and Roxanne?
                                                                • YES I’M LEAVING MY SISTER’S HOME AND I’M NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO SEE KING RUDY OR ROXANNE ANY MORE SO I’M I’M TATAKING LOTS OF PICTURES AND VIDEOS BUT I WILL STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOU
                                                                    • Well that’s a shmae, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you, but they won’t really

                                                                      That’s a shame, Kathy. I remember you were concerned about them getting too attached to you. I think pets may be more resilient than we are, though :-). Yes, do show photos, and stay in touch. Best wishes to you, too.

                                                                        • Kathy, How is your move going?
                                                                            • HELLO TONI, I’M STILL HERE IN GA FOR 1 MORE WEEK AND THE LONGER I STAY THE MORE I FALL MORE IN LOVE WITH RUDY AND ROXANNE I MEAN ROXANNE IS BY MY SIDE 24/7 UNTIL I HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE AND THEN SHE WILL SIT ON THE BED AND WAIT FOR ME TO GET BACK SO I’M TAKING LOTS OF PICTURES
                                                                    • Shannon posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                      Sorry for your loss sweetie. I am still mourning my fur babies I lost in the last couple yrs. I have two new babies that are helping so much. Sending hugs love and prayers to you sweetie 💚💜
                                                                        • Elaina, we welcome you to our caring community of pets lovers, most of whom have experienced the deep pain of parting from our beloved pet. It is so kind of our members to extend their own sympathy and understanding – it helps us to know we’re not alone, someone really understands, and cares. Thank you Shannon, for reaching out. Elaina, was Holly a cat by any chance? My 17 year old has compromised kidneys (among other problems) and I think it is a common ailment in cats. Perhaps dogs too? Would you like to share some of your photographic memories with us? Mourning takes as much time as it takes- there is no time frame, but hopefully your smiles will come before tears and your sweet, fun memories will bring you comfort, and much joy for the life you shared. Stay with us, Elaina, and let us know how your are dong.
                                                                            • Yep. Holly was a cat. She had the most beautiful eyes. I remember the day after I put her down, it was such a painful day for me. I couldn’t believe she was just gone, just like that. I couldn’t walk around my apartment. I just couldn’t. I just laid in bed all day crying for her. Weeks to follow. It was such an emptiness, a silence. The silence was venue loud because it was a reminder she was no longer here with me. I have tons of pics of her. She was my heart.
                                                                            • Thank you Shannon. Yeah this was a tough one for me. It’s always so tough no matter what. I ‘inherited’ her 13 years ago from my cousin. She was such a cuddle bug. For 13 years she slept on my pillow at night. She was a sweetheart. Prior to her, I had Cutie. She was with me for 16 years. She passed on the way to putting her down. Then I had my Holly. These are all cats. I miss Holly very much. I have her ashes on my mantle. But now I have two sisters. Over a year old. I got them from a hoarding situation. Sassy and Shyla are their names.
                                                                                • Elaina, Ouch. I hurt with you. Mine sleeps with her backside under my chin (not great for breathing – she’s trying to ‘snufficat’ me) and is 17 and not in peak health. You are touching me because I know one night she won’t be tucked under my chin…. Thinking about it hurts terribly, and when it happens you all can help lift me out of my puddle on the floor. So I am sad and a bit teary when one of our fellow community is hurting, too. But boy, the great joy and fun and love we got to share is precious. It wouldn’t hurt so much if we didn’t love so much. You wrote a lovely phrase – “the silence was venue loud” – that is so descriptive and conveys such a message. Thank you for that. Sassy and Shyla are lucky to be with you and I know they will bring you love, too. I’m thinking of you, Elaina. Oh, when you are up to it, may we see photos, please?
                                                                              • Elaina posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                Hello, I am new to this group. Thank you for letting me join. I lost my sweet Holly last year. I had to put her down, kidney failure. I had her for 13 years.

                                                                                • Sorry for your loss sweetie. I am still mourning my fur babies I lost in the last couple yrs. I have two new babies that are helping so much. Sending hugs love and prayers to you sweetie 💚💜
                                                                                    • Elaina, we welcome you to our caring community of pets lovers, most of whom have experienced the deep pain of parting from our beloved pet. It is so kind of our members to extend their own sympathy and understanding – it helps us to know we’re not alone, someone really understands, and cares. Thank you Shannon, for reaching out. Elaina, was Holly a cat by any chance? My 17 year old has compromised kidneys (among other problems) and I think it is a common ailment in cats. Perhaps dogs too? Would you like to share some of your photographic memories with us? Mourning takes as much time as it takes- there is no time frame, but hopefully your smiles will come before tears and your sweet, fun memories will bring you comfort, and much joy for the life you shared. Stay with us, Elaina, and let us know how your are dong.
                                                                                        • Yep. Holly was a cat. She had the most beautiful eyes. I remember the day after I put her down, it was such a painful day for me. I couldn’t believe she was just gone, just like that. I couldn’t walk around my apartment. I just couldn’t. I just laid in bed all day crying for her. Weeks to follow. It was such an emptiness, a silence. The silence was venue loud because it was a reminder she was no longer here with me. I have tons of pics of her. She was my heart.
                                                                                        • Thank you Shannon. Yeah this was a tough one for me. It’s always so tough no matter what. I ‘inherited’ her 13 years ago from my cousin. She was such a cuddle bug. For 13 years she slept on my pillow at night. She was a sweetheart. Prior to her, I had Cutie. She was with me for 16 years. She passed on the way to putting her down. Then I had my Holly. These are all cats. I miss Holly very much. I have her ashes on my mantle. But now I have two sisters. Over a year old. I got them from a hoarding situation. Sassy and Shyla are their names.
                                                                                            • Elaina, Ouch. I hurt with you. Mine sleeps with her backside under my chin (not great for breathing – she’s trying to ‘snufficat’ me) and is 17 and not in peak health. You are touching me because I know one night she won’t be tucked under my chin…. Thinking about it hurts terribly, and when it happens you all can help lift me out of my puddle on the floor. So I am sad and a bit teary when one of our fellow community is hurting, too. But boy, the great joy and fun and love we got to share is precious. It wouldn’t hurt so much if we didn’t love so much. You wrote a lovely phrase – “the silence was venue loud” – that is so descriptive and conveys such a message. Thank you for that. Sassy and Shyla are lucky to be with you and I know they will bring you love, too. I’m thinking of you, Elaina. Oh, when you are up to it, may we see photos, please?
                                                                                        • Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                          @bobbi Hello Bobbi. I am sorry for your losses of Hayley and Blacky and hope you are okay – are you? Please tell us about them and feel very welcome to show us some pictures. Thank you for joining us. We look forward to sharing with you.

                                                                                        • Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                          @memerachelle75 Hello and welcome to our community. I am sorry for your losses of Charlie and Shiloh, and would love to hear about them. Did they live with you at the same time? What kind of pets were they? May we see some pictures? How are you holding up?

                                                                                        • Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                          @iluvmypets Hello Lenora. I am sorry about Hope, Arabella and Pixie. You certainly DO love your pets and we welcome you to our community of caring pet lovers. We love to see photos and hear stories about your pets, so please share some with us. And Lenora, if you want to help others with your own words of support, please just click the “Comment” area on any post. We are here to help one another. Let us know how you are doing.

                                                                                        • Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                          @sharondonald Hello, and welcome Sharon. Please tell us about your pets.

                                                                                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                          We are all Angels
                                                                                          But now I have wings
                                                                                          We play in the clouds, and everyone sings
                                                                                          So don’t be unhappy, I’m always above
                                                                                          To shelter and guide you
                                                                                          And send you my Love
                                                                                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                            Brenda, I am glad you are here with us. I am so very sorry. But, while sympathy can help let you know someone cares, it may not lift the grief. When grief has engulfed you, you are in it’s control. Hence your feeling of “exisitng” rather than living. If you can create a memorial, you can place your memories of the lives you shared in it – all the happy and sad times – and know it is always there for you to comeback to. A memorial can be a box of favorite items, a place in your home or yard, we have a special area for memorials here in our community. No matter how you memorialize, it helps to give your grief a home away from you. This is not a replacement of your memories. You will always remember him, but it can open the door for you to allow joy and love back into your life. If you feel guilty thinking of being happy, ask yourself this: If the roles were reversed, wouldn’t you want him to enjoy the rest of the life he has ahead? I’ve written a poem I hope lends you some comfort that I will share, but want you to stay in touch with us, Brenda. We really do care.
                                                                                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

                                                                                              Becky, sorry it took me so long to get back with you. You can add more candles the same way you did before, but now you have a User name. Let me know if you have trouble.
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