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Maria posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Moulin is my angel kitty. He’s a fluffy orange kitty with double paws in front…he headed over the rainbow bridge January 8 of this year…😭…Maxwell is the little brother he left behind…Max is a brown tabby, I think, with gray and black tiger striping. I will post pics as soon as I can figure out how. -
Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
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Reagan posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Just read this. I am so sorry Dianne. Making that decision is the hardest thing. There is zero shame in not wanting your animal to suffer — ok? 13 years is a beautiful life and you will know when she’s had enough. Be proud of yourself for loving her this much. She knows you do.
I’m so glad this site exists if only for people like you.
I’m sending so much love to you and your girl. 💛
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Thank you for your kind words.
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Dianne Kurtz posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
I am having to make “that” decision no pet parent wants to do.I have to have my 13 year old mama cat put to sleep next week.Before anyone asks why, I live on a fixed,monthly income and after paying my rent and other utilities,I do not have have extra money left.I am doing the best that I can.
My mama cat does not want to eat and is becoming very thin.Yes,I feed her twice a day.
Her quality of life is declining.
I have had her since she was 7 weeks old,and could fit into the palm of my hand.No negativity,please.I am beyond super stressed and sick feeling.-
Just read this. I am so sorry Dianne. Making that decision is the hardest thing. There is zero shame in not wanting your animal to suffer — ok? 13 years is a beautiful life and you will know when she’s had enough. Be proud of yourself for loving her this much. She knows you do.
I’m so glad this site exists if only for people like you.
I’m sending so much love to you and your girl. 💛
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Thank you for your kind words.
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hugs Dianne – been there a few times … you are doing what is best for your fur baby …. hugs!
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Reagan says it beautifully. The decision to do what’s best for her is the ultimate act of kindness and generosity, even while it breaks your own heart. It sounds as if she is choosing not to eat – a sign that her system is shutting down, just as in humans. If that was not the case, I’d send you to our friends at http://www.waggle.org to seek financial support. They help pay vet bills when needed. But it seems like your baby is ready to go. What a loving, long life you shared – we can’t ask for, or offer more. You are loving and caring, Dianne. We’re here for you to let us know how you are. HUGS, HUGS, HUGS-
She actually looks anorexic.Her food dish is full.I have had her since she was a 7 week ball of fluff.She isn’t wanting to eat.I have tried my best to adjust her foods.Still no interest.So yes,I have to do what’s best.I just worry that she won’t hate me for what I am going to do.
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Dianne, I wouldn’t mention this but think it may help you: My mother had ALS and desperately wanted relief from it. Human euthanasia was not legal so my sister and I couldn’t help ease her way and grant her a peaceful exit, for which she would have been grateful. So no, if anything, your selflessness is a gift to your girl, for which she will be grateful, and will always love you.
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Thank you Toni.
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I am so sorry Diane. But you You will know when it is time to let her go. She has had a long wonderful life and knows that she has been loved. Cherish the many memories you have.
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Dianne, How are you? How is your girl? Are you taking her this week, or will you say goodbye at home? We’re here, Dianne. Please know in your heart this is for HER, not you – a generous kindness and an act of love. HUGS HUGS HUGS
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I am heartbroken for the decision I have to make,and I wonder if she knows because she keeps putting her face into mine,something she’s never done before.Her appointment is on the 7th of September.I have to do this.This is heartbreaking.Thank you for asking Toni.
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Years ago, my 19 year old was failing and I took her to a hospital on a Friday night (this was before in-home euthanasia was available) and told them it was time. They said she just needed antibiotics. Well, I still resent that poor little Squirt had to live that last week – she was miserable, suffering, and it wasn’t in her best interest to keep going. Exactly one week later she was bleeding from every orifice, her heart was jumping out of her chest, and I took her to her own vet and gave her relief from her suffering. She probably knew, and I am certain she was grateful. We are the ones left behind to grieve the loss but I truly believe they think we’re being silly and want us to be happy for the lives we shared. Which we will be once we move through the pain and indeed, heartbreak of parting. She’s probably letting you know it’s okay and trying to comfort, and thank you. We’ll be here.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Thank you for this inspiring and uplifting message, Susan 🙂 -
Susan posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
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Thank you for this inspiring and uplifting message, Susan 🙂
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Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
@mariac Hello Maria. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about your pets, and share some photos if you like.
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Moulin is my angel kitty. He’s a fluffy orange kitty with double paws in front…he headed over the rainbow bridge January 8 of this year…😭…Maxwell is the little brother he left behind…Max is a brown tabby, I think, with gray and black tiger striping. I will post pics as soon as I can figure out how.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago
Hi Cheryl. It is so good to hear from you, and with such good news :-). You were right to allow yourself as much time as you needed to grieve, and do you find you are smiling with Maddie’s memories now?
How wonderful of you to welcome darling Luna into your home and heart. Is that her little tongue I see? So cute. I think others will benefit from your story and I hope feel encouraged that they too will eventually emerge from the darkness of grief, and be able to love again, all in their own time. Please share some stories of your adventures with Luna, and thank you for keeping us posted. Hugs to you both! -
Cheryl posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
I’m sorry they put the pictures out of order. The first picture is Luna and the second pic is my beloved Maddie.
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Cheryl posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago
Hi everyone!! I\’m not sure if you all remember but I had just lost my sweet girl Maddie this past January. I was so lost and empty feeling inside. I wanted to find another dog the reminds me of Maddie. My husband stopped me from looking because he knew I was still grieving. Well, I made it to 7mo and told him its time. I went to our local shelter and there was two that I was interested in. The first dog fell through so I picked this beauty. Her name is Luna Blu or Luna for short. She came into my life at just the right time. The first picture is Maddie and the second one is Luna!-
Hi Cheryl. It is so good to hear from you, and with such good news :-). You were right to allow yourself as much time as you needed to grieve, and do you find you are smiling with Maddie’s memories now?
How wonderful of you to welcome darling Luna into your home and heart. Is that her little tongue I see? So cute. I think others will benefit from your story and I hope feel encouraged that they too will eventually emerge from the darkness of grief, and be able to love again, all in their own time. Please share some stories of your adventures with Luna, and thank you for keeping us posted. Hugs to you both!
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
Reagan, thank you for sharing your story with Terrilynn and all of us, and for writing your healing book with a “journaling” component that really helps express and get out the underlying feelings that can help us heal. Your kind words are always welcome. -
Cindy posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
I sure will. Thank you -
Toni Noel posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago
@lmiller1060 Hello Linda, and welcome to our caring community of pet lovers. I am sorry for your parting from Ginger. Are you doing okay? Would you like to tell us about Ginger, share your stories and photos with us? We would like to hear from you and are here to support you, and share in your joys.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
Okay Cindy, Ace is one of the cutest little guys ever. 🙂 How happy! Thank you for sharing such a delightful picture. You must let us share his growing up adventures, will you please? He’s tooooo adorable!-
I sure will. Thank you
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Cindy posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago
We now have a new boxer puppy named Ace. He’s 18 weeks old. He will never replace Spike or our other pets, but is a great new addition to our family and very loved.-
Okay Cindy, Ace is one of the cutest little guys ever. 🙂 How happy! Thank you for sharing such a delightful picture. You must let us share his growing up adventures, will you please? He’s tooooo adorable!
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I sure will. Thank you
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so adorable!
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
How wonderful of and for you, Stephen. I am delighted for you all. Leo is lucky to have found you, too. Do let us know what he, and you, are up to. 🙂 -
Terrilynn posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
awww! how sweet 🙂 -
Stephen posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago
Just wanted to let you know that I rescued a 3 year old Chihuahua named Leo.He is such a love and we love him so.-
awww! how sweet 🙂
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How wonderful of and for you, Stephen. I am delighted for you all. Leo is lucky to have found you, too. Do let us know what he, and you, are up to. 🙂
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Terrilynn posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
I most definitely will <3 -
Reagan posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago
Aww good. Lemme’ know how it goes. xx-
I most definitely will <3
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