• Sharon posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    I lost my sweet Lola on March 5, 2025. My heart is so empty!

    • Oh Sharon, I am so sorry💔Yes, your heart hurts, and I bet your home feels empty. It is so painful when our beloved is no longer with us. May I ask what happened? Was it unexpected, or did you have a period of watching her begin to decline? I find holding a stuffed animal helps fill the emptiness, and maybe, someday, you will be ready to give another darling a loving home and life. But not now. It’s too harsh and painful. Sharon, please tell us more about Lola, and join our kind, supportive group on Zoom Thursday March 20th at 7PM eastern. It helps to talk and get out your sadness with people who care and understand. We’re here for you. Toni
      (Link to meeting is under (Events)
      • Sharon, I am so sorry for your loss of Lola 💔
      • Nina posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

        It’s going to take ne forever to get used to the time change. I think it bother me more than my fur kids
        • Nina posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

          Thank you so much Toni. Thank you for taking the time to show you cared.
          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

            Joanne, feeling that we could have done more is very natural. I think I tried to do too much for my BG and let her go on too long. She had a seizure that I thought was choking, but when she had the second one, in my lap, it was clear that I should have let her go sooner. It;s okay to second guess yourself, but I hope that you will instead remember all the great things you did for, and with, Mama Cat. I wish, we all do, that we never had to say goodbye but our babies are only “on loan” to us and we can only love them lots while they are here. And no, I don’t think keeping her near you is weird at all. You might look at Memory Vessels as a way to keep her close to you. And Joanne, I hope you will join our group meeting March 20th to talk about our feelings with us. Toni

            https://memoryvessels.com/
            Links to meetings are under “Events” and are held on Zoom

            • Joanne posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

              Toni, your kind words bring comfort, I know she’s not suffering anymore. I just feel like I didn’t do enough for her, that I should’ve done more and that if I did, she’d still be here. She was 16 1/2 years old and still so full of life it seemed, I miss her, I had her cremated and sleep with her every night, I know that must sound weird, but it brings me comfort having her beside me.
              • Maureen posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                So sorry for your loss 💔
                • Maureen posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                  Jacquie, I’m so sorry for your loss of Ossie 💔 Sending you comforting hugs 💔
                  • Maureen posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                    Brenda, I am so sorry for your loss of Angel 💔 She was a very pretty little girl. My heart breaks for you. Sending you comforting hugs 💔
                    • Toni Noel posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

                      Remember to set your clocks ahead this weekemd!! And, just because we reset the clock, our animals are still on their timetables. Be patient as they adapt to your new schedule🤗💕Toni

                      • It’s going to take ne forever to get used to the time change. I think it bother me more than my fur kids
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                        Nina, what a lovely tribute to Delilah. And what a long, loving life you and she shared. It is a sad fact that our beloved pets are only on loan to us and that one day we have to part. But our memories are with us forever and I hope you have many good ones to bring you comfort. {{HUGS}} Toni
                        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                          Joanne, I have seen videos of cats that get on top of doors and it is always mind-boggling to me! My Mac and Roni sit outside my shower door, then go in when I exit leaving little wet paw marks everywhere😨
                          My BG was 18 when she had two seizures, one in my lap, which was the day I took her in to give her release and relief. It hurts so deeply to come home and not have Mama Cat there, but it is so good for her that she is out of harms’ way and not sufferieng. I hope that you find peace knowing that she is okay now, and that you can smile with joy and gratitude with her memories. Sending you {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni
                          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                            Anja, ouch💔It does hurt, in a way nothing else does, to lose a beloved friend and sweetheart. Anja, I hope that you will try to recall some of the wonderful, fun, funny and loving times you were so lucky to share with your baby, and that you find a bit of comfort in your memories. Stay with us and keep us posted about how you are doing, and tell us more about him if you will. We’re here for you. Toni
                            • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                              💔Angel was a little darling and I am so sorry you had to say goodbye, Brenda. May we hear about Angel and your life together? How did you meet? How long were you together? Anything you’d like to share with us, we would like to hear. I do hope that you are finding some smiles and joy in your memories. Toni
                              • Joanne posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                Hi Toni, I had Mama cat since she was 6 weeks old, she had quite the personality. Her favorite thing to do was to climb up on the top of the doors, especially the bathroom door and look over the shower top when I’d be taking a shower. Towards the end of her life she started having seizures and , so to the point she was having them on a daily basis, up until she passed away.
                                • Anja posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

                                  Lost my boy on Feb 17th of this year. I miss him so much.
                                  • Anja, ouch💔It does hurt, in a way nothing else does, to lose a beloved friend and sweetheart. Anja, I hope that you will try to recall some of the wonderful, fun, funny and loving times you were so lucky to share with your baby, and that you find a bit of comfort in your memories. Stay with us and keep us posted about how you are doing, and tell us more about him if you will. We’re here for you. Toni
                                    • So sorry for your loss 💔
                                    • Brenda posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

                                      My Angel was such a Beautiful Blessing and a great dog we lost her March of 2024 and I have cried everyday since. I Love you Angel ❤️
                                        • My Angel was such a Beautiful Blessing and a great dog we lost her March of 2024 and I have cried everyday since. I Love you Angel ❤️
                                          • 💔Angel was a little darling and I am so sorry you had to say goodbye, Brenda. May we hear about Angel and your life together? How did you meet? How long were you together? Anything you’d like to share with us, we would like to hear. I do hope that you are finding some smiles and joy in your memories. Toni
                                            • Brenda, I am so sorry for your loss of Angel 💔 She was a very pretty little girl. My heart breaks for you. Sending you comforting hugs 💔
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