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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
@lmorin Hello Lori. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about Sierra – what kind of pet was Sierra? How did you meet? How long were you together? May we see some photographs? Are you doing okay? I hope so, and I hope to hear more from you about your life with Sierra. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
@sdmira Shaunna, Elvy is a unique name – will you tell us about Elvy, show us some photos? How are you doing? Okay, I hope. Please let us know, amd know I am very sorry for your parting from Elvy. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Amy, grief and mourning the loss of your beloved Chloe takes time. As you think of her, do you also think of the good things you did for each other, the fun times you shared? And do you feel grateful for those? I hope so because that can help us as we wrestle with the pain of parting. In our heads we know our pets are only “on loan’ to us, but in our hearts we die a little bit when they do. It’s a very, very deep and unique pain, isn’t it? I hope you will choose to think of the joy of life with Chloe, knowing she was lucky to have shared her life with you, too. We’re here for you so please continue to share with us. I’m sending you a {{HUG}} -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Tina, yes you will love Zeke forever, and three weeks is a very short time to mourn the loss of your dearest darling. It hurts like heck and little things bring big grief. It’s hard to think of the great joy and gratitude you feel for the time you had together. It will come, but for now please know our entire community is here for you with undesstanding and care. We’d love to see some pictures and hear about Zeke if you like. Thinking of you both. {{HUGS}} Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Oh Janet, it is so hard to say goodbye and the pain is very deep. I hope with time you will find smiles before tears with your memories. What a sweet picture of Buster. You are welcome to share more with us, and tell us about your lives together. We’d love to hear. Toni -
Amy posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
My sweet girl Chloe passed away a little over 3 months ago and the pain has not changed! Losing her took part of and will never be the same! God I miss her so much! She didn’t even realize the impact she had, I needed her as much as she needed me! I wish I had one more day to just sit and love on her and tell her! The moment she died literally shattered me! I love you Chloe mama will always love you Angel and I can’t wait til I get to see you again!-
Amy, grief and mourning the loss of your beloved Chloe takes time. As you think of her, do you also think of the good things you did for each other, the fun times you shared? And do you feel grateful for those? I hope so because that can help us as we wrestle with the pain of parting. In our heads we know our pets are only “on loan’ to us, but in our hearts we die a little bit when they do. It’s a very, very deep and unique pain, isn’t it? I hope you will choose to think of the joy of life with Chloe, knowing she was lucky to have shared her life with you, too. We’re here for you so please continue to share with us. I’m sending you a {{HUG}}
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I do think of the good times and all the love we shared but always is taken over by the sadness of just missing her, I honestly don’t believe I have ever grieved like this over anyone or anything and I don’t understand. I’m not gonna lie I have always pushed away from people including family just so I never would have to feel this again not that I didn’t love and care for anyone, I just didn’t want to feel this pain in my chest and sick to my stomach and absolutely no motivation in my life and I don’t understand why this so hard on me! this may be silly to some but everyday I go out to her grave put new flowers on and just sit and talk to her and I pray she hears me! The love I had for her was so much than I realized and losing her has just left me devastated and I can’t seem to get past it. I just don’t know how and everyone around me seems to think I should just be over it and I need to realize that life goes on but they don’t understand that mine life stood still when her heart stopped
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Amy, you are doing a good job by acknowledging your grief and acting on it by visiting Chloe and talking with her. It’s NOT crazy. You are not wrong. You are capable of deep and abiding love. I hope you give some of your love back to yourself, for the care, kindness and love you gave to Chloe. In our heads we know the moment we meet our beloved pet that one day we will have to say goodbye and endure the tremendous grief of parting. But we do it anyway, and share the many fun and funny and joyful times together. Perhaps we ask too much when we want them with us forever. But Amy, you wouldn’t have wanted to not have Chloe as a part of you, would you? I think you are moving through the pain in your own way and at your own pace. Choosing to remember the happiness is a good way to help offset the pain and I hope you continue to do that. Chloe would want you to be happy for your lives knowing her memory brings you joy. don’t you think? I do. Please let us know what’s going on. And be kind to yourself as you would be to her. {{HUGS}}
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Janet posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
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Janet posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
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I miss my Buster boy so much.
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Oh Janet, it is so hard to say goodbye and the pain is very deep. I hope with time you will find smiles before tears with your memories. What a sweet picture of Buster. You are welcome to share more with us, and tell us about your lives together. We’d love to hear. Toni
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Tina posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
It’s been 3 weeks since my husband and I said goodbye to our dear zeke .everything reminds us of zeke.we miss him dearly we will love him forever
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Tina, yes you will love Zeke forever, and three weeks is a very short time to mourn the loss of your dearest darling. It hurts like heck and little things bring big grief. It’s hard to think of the great joy and gratitude you feel for the time you had together. It will come, but for now please know our entire community is here for you with undesstanding and care. We’d love to see some pictures and hear about Zeke if you like. Thinking of you both. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Cara posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
It was one of the worst things I’ve ever been thru. Until you have to deal with this kind of incident you have no idea how bad the after effects are. It’s a never ending nightmare. Thank you so much for your thoughtfulness and kindness. It truly helps -
Kelli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
I would like to hear how some of you would handle my situation. I am full of love for animals, and I need to figure out a way to forgive the killer dog. How would you do it? Thanks. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
@janis Hi Janis. What kind of pet was Buck? May we hear about him, see some pictures? How are you holding up? Okay, I hope. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
I know! It’s hard not to think of what you did together, and days aren’t the same. But Kimberly, are you finding your memories are happy and that you are grateful for the times you shared? I hope so. I still get blue now and then, but am so happy to have had my girl in my life. I hope you are feeling that way too. Thank you for being in touch and please keep us updated. {{HUG}} Toni -
Kimberly posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
Missing my girl every day!!
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I know! It’s hard not to think of what you did together, and days aren’t the same. But Kimberly, are you finding your memories are happy and that you are grateful for the times you shared? I hope so. I still get blue now and then, but am so happy to have had my girl in my life. I hope you are feeling that way too. Thank you for being in touch and please keep us updated. {{HUG}} Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
That has to be horrific and I am so, so sorry. Please, keep us posted on how you are coming along. We’re thinking of you. -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
@candace Hi Candace. Please tell us about Dub, and share some pictures with us. I hope you are doing okay – we understand how very hard it is to say goodbye to a beloved pet. Let us know how you are. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago
@doge14 Hello Shelby. I am so sorry for your loss of Dakota. That’s a nice name – what kind of pet was Dakota? We’d love to hear about your lives together, and see some photos if you like. Are you doing okay?
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Cara posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Having Tank with me got me thru a lot of bad times especially up here. Losing him especially in that way was crushing. Every day I can still see that moment and it’s devastating -
Cara posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Yes I am thank you for asking. I’m just heartbroken. I just moved up here a few months ago and it’s been not as good as it should have been. Son finally moved a few weeks ago and it’s got a lot better. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago
Cara, are you safe? - Load More
