• Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

    That’s lovely, Cindy. I am glad you feel JJ with you and hopw you find a bit of comfort in that.
    • Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

      JJ is home, even though it makes feel more real that he is really gone. I feel him here with us.
      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

        Hi Christina. I am glad to hear from you and am sorry you have been going through whatever it has been. Does that add to your migraines? Stress and grief do that. It’s understandable that you are missing June – it hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye, especially after twenty years of love together. Heck, I still think of my Squirt who died in the ’90’s and get choked up. Our love never goes away. What we CAN do to help heal is let our minds take charge rather than our hearts, to remind us that our pets are only ‘on loan’ to us, and that while we are graced with their company we have shared the gift of lives well lived in love. Take all the time you need, continue to share with us here, and know we undertsand and care. Here is a {{BIG HUG} for you. Toni
        • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

          Cindy, I am sorry. Picking up what was your most beloved friend is a terribly difficult thing to do. It is another harsh and hard reminder that JJ is really gone and is one of the most difficult and heartbreaking moments in your life. I am crying writing this, thinking of your pain. So let’s do it, and go through this together. Please cry and rant or whatever you need to do, then please take some deep breaths and think of a moment with JJ in which you were both so happy, content and loving. Whew – doesn’t that feel better? Try to stay in your head for a bit, remembering that everyone, everything, will pass one day, and that you gave JJ the best life for JJ’s allotted time here. It’s an exercise you can practice each day, as many times a day as you need. I hope that helps as you navigate through the grief of loss towards the profound joy of treasured memories. Stay with us here, Cindy. We’re with you and have more tools to help you through this terrible time of loss . 💔Toni
          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

            @timsip Hi Timsi. I am so sorry for your parting from Brownie. Are you okay? Not so much? We’re here for you, Timsi. Please tell us about Brownie – What kind of pet was Brownie, how you met, how long you were together – anything you’d like to share. And we’d love to see photos of Brownie if you like. We’re thinking of you. 💔Toni

          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

            @catscanadian Hello and welcome to our caring community, Catherine. I am sorry for your loss and hope you are doing pkay – are you? We’re here for you with undertsanding and care. Please tell us about your baby and your lives together. Toni

          • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

            @irishmom50 Heather, how are you doing now? Toni

          • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

            Nina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Will you tell us about your beautiful baby, please? And Nina, how are you ding? Okay – not so good? Toni
            • Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

              I just got the call to pick JJ ashes, I broke down again. I hope it gets better with time.
              • Christina posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                Sorry I haven’t responded in a while, been going through a lot. Still missing June. Seeing and reading about so many people losing their fur babies, my heart goes out to all of you…🤗🤗🤗

                • Hi Christina. I am glad to hear from you and am sorry you have been going through whatever it has been. Does that add to your migraines? Stress and grief do that. It’s understandable that you are missing June – it hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye, especially after twenty years of love together. Heck, I still think of my Squirt who died in the ’90’s and get choked up. Our love never goes away. What we CAN do to help heal is let our minds take charge rather than our hearts, to remind us that our pets are only ‘on loan’ to us, and that while we are graced with their company we have shared the gift of lives well lived in love. Take all the time you need, continue to share with us here, and know we undertsand and care. Here is a {{BIG HUG} for you. Toni
                  • Christina I am so sorry for your loss of June 💔
                  • Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                    So sorry I missed your message. Today was hard but a bit easier than it has been. I know it will take time to heal from this pain. Thanks so much for checking in
                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                      @ninanichole Nina, Is this Precious? Love the name, and I am so very sorry for your loss. How are you holding up? We are here for you with not just sympathy, but empathy. We understand the deep pain of parting. Share with us and please know we are here for, and with you. Toni

                    • Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                      @sandystafford1966 Hello Sandy. I am, we are, so sorry for your loss of Ruby. Please tell us about her, how you met, what kind of pet Ruby was, anything you’d like to share. We’d love to see picture of her, too. We’re here for you, Sandy, with open arms and understanding hearts. Toni

                    • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                      Heather, I am so sorry for your parting, and I am glad you can think of Mushu running in his new life. But, I am sure you are aching and missing him, and I hope you can remember the many wonderful, loving times you shared with Mushu. What a great name. May we hear more about him, and your lives together? Please know we care, and are here for you, Heather. Toni
                      • Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                        Cindy, how was today for you? Toni
                        • Heather posted an update 3 years, 2 months ago

                          I miss my baby boy Mushu I hope he’s running like he used to. He just passed away on August 9th.

                          • Heather, I am so sorry for your parting, and I am glad you can think of Mushu running in his new life. But, I am sure you are aching and missing him, and I hope you can remember the many wonderful, loving times you shared with Mushu. What a great name. May we hear more about him, and your lives together? Please know we care, and are here for you, Heather. Toni
                          • Shirley posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                            Thank you so very much. And yes that is what she would want us to do is be happy.
                              • Nina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Will you tell us about your beautiful baby, please? And Nina, how are you ding? Okay – not so good? Toni
                              • Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

                                I appreciate you reaching out to me. It does hurt more than I have ever felt. JJ was a beautiful black and tan Min Pin
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