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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
@irishmom50 Heather, how are you doing now? Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Nina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Will you tell us about your beautiful baby, please? And Nina, how are you ding? Okay – not so good? Toni -
Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
I just got the call to pick JJ ashes, I broke down again. I hope it gets better with time. -
Christina posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
Sorry I haven’t responded in a while, been going through a lot. Still missing June. Seeing and reading about so many people losing their fur babies, my heart goes out to all of you…🤗🤗🤗
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Hi Christina. I am glad to hear from you and am sorry you have been going through whatever it has been. Does that add to your migraines? Stress and grief do that. It’s understandable that you are missing June – it hasn’t been very long since you said goodbye, especially after twenty years of love together. Heck, I still think of my Squirt who died in the ’90’s and get choked up. Our love never goes away. What we CAN do to help heal is let our minds take charge rather than our hearts, to remind us that our pets are only ‘on loan’ to us, and that while we are graced with their company we have shared the gift of lives well lived in love. Take all the time you need, continue to share with us here, and know we undertsand and care. Here is a {{BIG HUG} for you. Toni
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Christina I am so sorry for your loss of June 💔
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Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
So sorry I missed your message. Today was hard but a bit easier than it has been. I know it will take time to heal from this pain. Thanks so much for checking in -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
@ninanichole Nina, Is this Precious? Love the name, and I am so very sorry for your loss. How are you holding up? We are here for you with not just sympathy, but empathy. We understand the deep pain of parting. Share with us and please know we are here for, and with you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
@sandystafford1966 Hello Sandy. I am, we are, so sorry for your loss of Ruby. Please tell us about her, how you met, what kind of pet Ruby was, anything you’d like to share. We’d love to see picture of her, too. We’re here for you, Sandy, with open arms and understanding hearts. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Heather, I am so sorry for your parting, and I am glad you can think of Mushu running in his new life. But, I am sure you are aching and missing him, and I hope you can remember the many wonderful, loving times you shared with Mushu. What a great name. May we hear more about him, and your lives together? Please know we care, and are here for you, Heather. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Cindy, how was today for you? Toni -
Heather posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
I miss my baby boy Mushu I hope he’s running like he used to. He just passed away on August 9th.
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Heather, I am so sorry for your parting, and I am glad you can think of Mushu running in his new life. But, I am sure you are aching and missing him, and I hope you can remember the many wonderful, loving times you shared with Mushu. What a great name. May we hear more about him, and your lives together? Please know we care, and are here for you, Heather. Toni
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Shirley posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Thank you so very much. And yes that is what she would want us to do is be happy. -
Nina posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
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Nina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Will you tell us about your beautiful baby, please? And Nina, how are you ding? Okay – not so good? Toni
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Cindy posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
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Cindy posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
I appreciate you reaching out to me. It does hurt more than I have ever felt. JJ was a beautiful black and tan Min Pin -
Toni Noel posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
@sandystafford1966 Hello Sandy, and please accept my sincere sympathy for your partng from Ruby. Are you doing okay? Not so good? We’re here with open hearts to help support you through this horrendous time of deep loss. What kind of pet was Ruby? How did you meet? How long were you together? Please tell us anything you want about your life with Ruby, and share some photos with us if you like. Again, we are here for you, with understanding. {HUGS} Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Oh Cindy, I am so very sorry and sad for your parting from JJ. It hurts like nothing else, doesn’t it? We understand and are here for you to spill it all out with. What kind of pet was JJ? May we see some pictures and hear about your lives together? Do you have someone with you to share with? Please tell us more, and know we are here to support you as you travel this painful road. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Yes, Shirley, this is what we get when we open our hearts and homes to a beloved baby. We know going in that one day we will have to say goodbye, but we expose our underbelly, and love without restraint. Is that about right? We want our faithful friends to be with us forever, but they are only “on loan” to us – never for long enough. Mya was, and will always be, a part of you, your thoughts and your being. Isn’t that lovely when you think of it? To have shared a loving life together. Now is the truly devastating, painful part of parting. I have to believe Mya would want you to be happy for your life together, that Mya is grateful for your care and love, and wishes you only more love in your life. What do you think, Shirley? We are here for you with sympathy and understanding. Truly, I have tears for your loss right now, but am happy for your love. {{HUGS}} Toni -
Shirley posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
My sweet girl Mya went over the rainbow bridge June 17th. She had cancer for 2nd time around,plus she was also in kidney failure, and had cushions. There is day that doesn\’t go by that I miss her. I talk to her every morning and every night. She was only 10 years old when she left us.-
Yes, Shirley, this is what we get when we open our hearts and homes to a beloved baby. We know going in that one day we will have to say goodbye, but we expose our underbelly, and love without restraint. Is that about right? We want our faithful friends to be with us forever, but they are only “on loan” to us – never for long enough. Mya was, and will always be, a part of you, your thoughts and your being. Isn’t that lovely when you think of it? To have shared a loving life together. Now is the truly devastating, painful part of parting. I have to believe Mya would want you to be happy for your life together, that Mya is grateful for your care and love, and wishes you only more love in your life. What do you think, Shirley? We are here for you with sympathy and understanding. Truly, I have tears for your loss right now, but am happy for your love. {{HUGS}} Toni
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Thank you so very much. And yes that is what she would want us to do is be happy.
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Cindy posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago
My baby JJ went over the rainbow bridge on August 19. I am having a hard time every day. When I get up or when I get home from work. I cry all the time right now. I hope it gets better
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Oh Cindy, I am so very sorry and sad for your parting from JJ. It hurts like nothing else, doesn’t it? We understand and are here for you to spill it all out with. What kind of pet was JJ? May we see some pictures and hear about your lives together? Do you have someone with you to share with? Please tell us more, and know we are here to support you as you travel this painful road. Toni
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I appreciate you reaching out to me. It does hurt more than I have ever felt. JJ was a beautiful black and tan Min Pin
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Cindy, how was today for you? Toni
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So sorry I missed your message. Today was hard but a bit easier than it has been. I know it will take time to heal from this pain. Thanks so much for checking in
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I just got the call to pick JJ ashes, I broke down again. I hope it gets better with time.
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Cindy, I am sorry. Picking up what was your most beloved friend is a terribly difficult thing to do. It is another harsh and hard reminder that JJ is really gone and is one of the most difficult and heartbreaking moments in your life. I am crying writing this, thinking of your pain. So let’s do it, and go through this together. Please cry and rant or whatever you need to do, then please take some deep breaths and think of a moment with JJ in which you were both so happy, content and loving. Whew – doesn’t that feel better? Try to stay in your head for a bit, remembering that everyone, everything, will pass one day, and that you gave JJ the best life for JJ’s allotted time here. It’s an exercise you can practice each day, as many times a day as you need. I hope that helps as you navigate through the grief of loss towards the profound joy of treasured memories. Stay with us here, Cindy. We’re with you and have more tools to help you through this terrible time of loss . 💔Toni
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JJ is home, even though it makes feel more real that he is really gone. I feel him here with us.
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That’s lovely, Cindy. I am glad you feel JJ with you and hopw you find a bit of comfort in that.
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Cindy, I am so very sorry for your loss of JJ 💔
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Thanks so much for your kind words. It is a daily struggle, our babies were a part of just about everything we did in our day to day life. That is why it is so hard to forget them, I am just living day to day to accept him being gone. I am grateful for all the understanding a support from this community.
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago
Marilyn, I am sorry for your loss of Bandit 💔 I understand what you mean about Bandit being you faithful companion and being your world. My Romeo was the same for me and saved my life too. He came as a gift to me when I was at a very low time in my life and just wanted to die. Please take care of yourself. Peace be with you. Sending you hugs 💔 - Load More
